Ukuzola, ukuvumelana, ukuqina kanye nokuthuthuka okuhlanganayo akusikho ncamashi nobuhlobo bakho? Ebunyeni nomlingani, umzali noma umngani, uzizwa ukukhathazeka njalo, fisa ukucacisa, xolisa, ngicela ungacasuli? Siyakuhalalisela, uyisisulu sobuntu obunobuthi, okuthiwa umhlukumezi, noma umdlwenguli ongokomzwelo. Kuzwakala kuyesabeka, futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso.
Ukuphumelela okukhulu kweminyaka yethu yamuva nje komphakathi wethu kuye kwaba ukuqashelwa okugcwele okuqondakalayo, kungabonakala sengathi iqiniso: Ubudlova abuhlali buyindaba ephathelene nomthelela womzimba, amanxeba ezwe, kanye nengcindezi yengqondo kuyoshintsha kakhulu ubuntu bethu. Lokhu akuwona amagama aphezulu, kepha ukunqoba kwangempela, ngoba kuze kube muva nje, ngisho nokushaywa okuvela kumlingani kubhekwe njengokuqashelwa okufana nothando, khumbula okungenani amagama athi: "Beat Babu Molota, kuzoba khona Owesifazane onegolide. " Uma isikhalazo esinjalo nomuntu samukelwa njengejwayelekile kuze kube manje, yini okufanele ngikhulume ngayo ukuthukwa, ukuthobeka nodlame ngokomzwelo, olungashiyi umkhondo "obonakalayo"? Ama-alas, kepha izindlela ezingezona ezenziwa ngokomzimba zokulawula kanye nomthelela kumlingani azikabhekwa njengento embi. "Cabanga, ungimemezele, into esemqoka ayilimazi," "Uhlala enomona futhi osusela izigcawu," uhlala egxeka nami, kodwa kuhlale kugxeka, kodwa kungahle kugxekwe, kepha kucace Yiba ngcono "- lokhu kuyingxenye yengcaphuno kuphela evela kubahlukumezekile bama-absers okuthiwa abizwa nge-" kusuka ekuhlukunyezweni kwesiNgisi - "Isikhalo" Esinonya "). Ngishesha ukudumala: Ayikho imizwa emikhulu lapha futhi engaphunga iphunga. Manje kungani sicabanga ngenye indlela, asiqapheli noma senqabe ukubona iqiniso lokuthi siyizisulu? Siyaqonda!
1. Rures
Uma umlingani wakho, osebenza naye noma umzali evame ukuzivumela kakhulu nezitatimende ezingezona ezeluliwe namahlaya akho ekhelini lakho - aqwashile! Lokhu kungaba ucingo lokuqala.
2. Lawula
Isifiso sokugcina isandla sakho ekushayweni futhi sikulawule njalo, izenzo zakho, izixazululo, isabelomali siyisibonakaliso esijwayelekile se-Abuzere. Musa ukukhohlisa: Akunandaba, kepha isidingo esibuhlungu kuphela sokungaphansi kwakho.
3. kubanda
Ukuxabana kwakho kungafana ne-classic yase-Italian ye-Italian, nokuhlaselwa komhawu - kwesinye isikhathi ukushaqeka, kepha uma kungenjalo umlingani wakho uvale ngokomoya futhi engenakufinyeleleka, ngaphandle kozwela nozwela.
Udlame aluhlali njalo luyindaba ephathelene nomthelela womzimba, amanxeba amagama, kanye nengcindezi yengqondo kuzoshintsha kakhulu ubunikazi bethu
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I-DRAMA Theatre
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi bangobani, abahlukumezanayo abaqanjiwe. Azikho ngeze ebizwa ngokuthi i-FTXIC - ukuba khona kwabalingani abanjalo empilweni yethu ubuthi ngokoqobo ubuthi. Futhi okokuqala, umphumela onjalo ungabonakali, khona-ke izinga ledrama liyanda, futhi lapho uqonda ukuthi kukhona okungekho ngokusho kohlelo, ukuphuma kumanethiwekhi abekelwe amanethiwekhi angenangqondo futhi anzima kakhulu.
Maye, kepha labo abakwenza ngokucindezela kwengqondo kanye nonya kubantu abathandekayo, hhayi okuncane kangako. Ngaphezu kwalokho, cishe amaphesenti ayisishiyagalolunye abashadikazi abahlukanisile babona ukuthi bazwa izisulu zobudlova emshadweni. Umuntu ohlukumeza angaba ngubani: umngani wakho, umakhelwane, umngani oseduze noma umyeni wakhe. Kwenzekani ukuthi umuntu ojwayelekile uphenduka impisi esikhunjeni sezimvu?
Abantu abathambekele ebudloveni obungokomzwelo, cishe amaphesenti ayikhulu ake wasinda kuye. Ngokunokwenzeka, ebuntwaneni, lapho abazali, esikhundleni sokuba ngumthombo wezokuphepha, kusakaze ukuphepha kwengane ngamandla abo, ukungathembani nokuthula kanye ne-alamu engapheli. Ukuba ngumdala, umuntu onjalo akakwazi ukunqoba i-neurosis yakhe nezakhiwo zezakhiwo, ukwesaba kanye nolaka kuzomba kulo, efuna indlela yokuphuma. Imvamisa kukhona ezimbili - noma okuzenzakalelayo, okungukuthi, izenzo ezibhubhisayo ezihlose zona, noma ukuhlasela abanye, imvamisa abantu abasondele kakhulu. Imvamisa, izisulu zabazali abanobuthi, izingane ezikhulile, ziphendulela ubuthi bazo.
Ngobudlelwano, abahlaziyi bavalwa ngokomoya, basuswa, abakulungele ukukhuluma, ukuzoxhumana. Noma yimuphi umzamo wokusungula ukuxhumana, bamisa ibinzana elinyanyekayo ("angenzi ubuchopho" - omunye wabonakele kakhulu). Babonakala bengenandaba futhi bayabanda uma kukhulunywa ngokomoya ezimweni ezinzima. Kunzima ngabo ukubonisa uzwela, ukuze nje sisondele kakhulu ukubona amaphutha abo. Ngamunye, banesizathu esihle, futhi noma yimuphi umhlangano wabo nakanjani uzochaza kalula. Ukuhlukumezeka okunecala akusoze kwaba - ngaphandle kwamagama.
Zonke izindlela zilungile
Ubuthakathi buzwakala kanjani maqondana nabanye? Khumbula, mhlawumbe endaweni yakho kukhona umuntu ongeyena umuntu ongeyena no-yebo futhi wabiza i-vampire engokomzwelo. Ngemuva kokuxhumana naye, ngisho nangesikhashana, uzonquma isimo sengqondo, intshiseko nesimo sengqondo esihle siyanyamalala, umuzwa wokungaqiniseki emandleni akho avela. Vele, cha "i-vampirism" lapha futhi engaphunga iphunga - ngaphambi kwe-US iyindlela ejwayelekile "yamathoyizi", abanye abakwaziyo ngendlela emangalisayo, abanye ngendlela emangalisayo abakwaziyo ukugxilisa ukukhathazeka nokungabaza. Kodwa-ke, kungokomfanekiso ukubiza umuntu onjalo ngegazi legazi legazi.
Abakwa-Aleasers bane-arsenal yabo yokuvuselela kanye namasu akuvumela ukuthi uwalawule. Konke kwakhiwa ekubhujisweni kokuzithemba kwakho futhi kubukela phansi ukholo lwakho ngamandla akho. Futhi lapha ungathatha isiphetho esinengqondo: umuntu onokuzithemba okuhle, emi nasemilenzeni yakhe, wazi kahle konke ngemingcele yakhe nezimiso zakhe, akuvamile ukuba yisisulu sendawo yezengqondo. Ukuzizwa kuphela lapho uqondisa indlela yakho yokukhohlisa, uyeka izenzo ezinjalo empandeni. Maye, kepha anempilo ngokuphelele ngokwengqondo abantu bacishe bazenzeke, ngoba sonke siseqenjini lengozi ngobudlova obungokomzwelo.
Ngakho-ke, siphendukela ezenzweni ezithile zokuthi umlingani onobuthi uzivocavoca umzimba. Kunzima kakhulu kuwo ukuze ulinde ukudunyiswa - kokubili okuhlelekile nongokoqobo. Ungakwazi ukugoqa izintaba, ube ngumpetha we-Olimpiki futhi ube nesikhathi sokulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa esihle, kepha ukuhlukunyezwa okungagculisekile namashiya ngeke aziphathe kahle - futhi lokhu kungcono kakhulu. Imvamisa impumelelo yakho, ukuphumelela kanye nokufeza kuhlaselwa, ukukhetha okuhle kwenqatshwa, futhi izinkundla ziyagxekwa efleff kanye nothuli. "Yebo, ngubani manje ophatha abantu, yini ofuna ukuhlala kuyo?", "CABANGELA, umphathi ophezulu wenkampani, ufana nenkawu nge-grenade" - ingxenye kuphela yokuphendula okujwayelekile kokudlwengula.
Ukulawula phezu kwakho umgomo oyinhloko we-Abuzer
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Ukuhlekisa ngezimpikiswano zakho kunoma yisiphi isihloko, imibono kanye nezahlulelo zakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-absterrr vele ihleke kuwe (okusolwa ukuthi ngomusa, ihlaya, kepha ngokungenisa njalo nokungazinaki izicelo zokuyeka ukukwenza). Uma ucasulwa, khona-ke nakanjani uzothola umvuzo womqondo omubi wokuhlekisa nokuphendula okukhulu kakhulu. Ngokwendoda enobuthi, angeke abe yimbi, ngakho-ke awena iphutha. Ngendlela, uma uzama ukuhlekisa naye ngokuphendula, uzothola i-avalanche yentukuthelo nokungahloniphi. Siyakwethembisa: ukuxabana nokubuyiselwa kwesithunzi esikhubekisayo kunikezwa.
Uma izimpumelelo zakho zomdlwenguli zinganaki, khona-ke amaphutha angempela azokwamukelwa yiwo futhi azoba umzekeliso kubantu. Akunamininingwane ezophuthelwa yi-Abuser Extream - Konke kuzogcinwa kuyo yonke imininingwane kanye nezimpikiswano.
Konke lokhu kungukuhlekwa, amahlaya, ukwedelela, ukunganaki nokungazinaki njalo - kungekudala kuzoholela ekutheni ukuzethemba kwakho kuzoqala ukuwa ngokushesha. Kwesinye isikhathi, uzoyeka kakhulu ukukholelwa ukuthi, ukusebenza ngemisebenzi emithathu, wathembisana nezingane kanye nendlu, wazeseka ngesimo nokuzama ukuhambisana ne- "Tox" engacabangeki. "Akukho lutho oluzoziqhenya ngalo, wonke umuntu ubhekana nalokhu ..." - umyalezo ophambili womdlwenguli, ngosizo oluqala ukukulawula ngempumelelo nempilo yakho.
By the way, lawula phezu kwakho umgomo oyinhloko we-Abuzer. Indoda enokuzithemba okukhohlisayo okukhohlisiwe kalula futhi umane nje, ngoba ngemuva kwalabo abakwamukelayo okungenhla, umdlwenguli othinta imizwa "ufaka" ubuciko obunzima. Isibonelo, umlingani angaqala ukulawula imali yakho, afune ukubika ngemali esetshenzisiwe, agxeke ukukhetha kwakho kwezingubo noma imikhiqizo, uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuvumela kakhulu ukuvumela (ukufunda "ukungakufanele lokhu"). Izinqumo ezithathwe ngaphandle kolwazi nokwamukelwa kuzo ziba ngaphansi kokuvinjwa, futhi uzoba necala ngokungahloniphi. Ngakho-ke, kuzofanela uxhumane nomlingani onjalo ohambweni oluya e-cinema, endaweni ye-cafe enezintombi, ngisho nasesitolo. Noma ngubani wesenzo sakho ozimele angabhekwa njengesenzo sokungalaleli - futhi uzoba yisizathu sokwenza ukuthi wenze okungalungile. Ngokuvamile, amalebula alenga, adela imidlalo nemizamo yokukufaka umuzwa wokuba necala njalo - amamaki aqhakazile okulula ukuthola. Esinye isici sokucaciswa kobuntu ukungakwazi noma ukungabaza ukucela intethelelo. Angikaze. Ngaphansi kwezimo Ngaphandle koyedwa: Lapho umdlwenguli ezwa ukuthi usuka ekubizeni kwawo ngobuhlakani.
Ngamanye amagama, ngifuna ukusho inqubo yakudala esetshenziswa abantu abanobuthi, okubizwa ngokuthi yi-gharlight. Leli gama laba yi-Psychology livela kwi-cinema: Efilimini "Light Light" ka-1945, kungcono kakhulu, njengomyeni, umdlwenguli ongokomzwelo, ukuphoqa umkakhe lokho, ukuphoqa lokho, ukuphoqa lokho kuzwakala kuhlanya. Empeleni, lokhu kuqukethe usawoti wamasu. Umlingani onolaka uyaphika imizwa yakho kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, angiphoqe ukuthi ngingabaze iqiniso labo. "Kwabonakala kuwe", "nonke niyasungulwa, lokhu bekungenjalo!", "Ngivele ngajabula, futhi," angikusho lutho "," uzwele kakhulu " , "Uyakuthanda ukweqisa", "Hawu yebo, akukho lutho olukhethekile okwenzekile" - Uma uzwa le mibhalo noma imishwana efanayo nothile kusuka kothandekayo wakho, qaphela, kunesizathu sokukukhohlisa. Ukukhanya kwegesi kungenye yezindlela ezingabonakali kakhulu, kepha ezihlungu kakhulu e-Arsenal ye-Abuzer. Uma uhlala ungabaza ngezenzo zakho namagama akho, wesaba ukwenza izinqumo, uveze imizwa, uphinde ucele intethelelo, kusobala, amakhono ayahlonishwa.
Ukuqashelwa - Isinyathelo Ekuphulukeni
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Kukhona ukuphuma
Ungaba kanjani uma uzithola enkabeni yobudlelwano obunobuthi? Akulula ukwephula inyunyana enobuthi, ngoba ukuzidela ngokuqinisekile kuyadingeka kumhlaseli. Akekho ozokuvumela ukuba uhambe nomhlaba, futhi usuka lapha kunezindlela ezimbili.
Uma uqonda ukuthi ilungu lomhlukumezi ekuqaleni kwalokhu oxhumana nalo futhi usenawo amandla okuxhumana nokholo kuwe, ungazama ukuqeda lobu budlelwano. Zilungiselele abahlaziyi, umhawu, ama-scks, izithembiso zothando ebhokisini, imizamo yokudlala emzini wokuzizwa wecala nesihawu. Umdlwenguli ongokomzwelo uyayiqonda intengo yokunamathiselwe futhi nakanjani azosebenzisa lolu lwazi ngawe.
Uma kungenjalo amandla, asikho isifiso, asikho ithuba lokuqedela ubudlelwano nalobuntu, ngokwesibonelo, umlingani onobuthi ngumzali noma ingane yakho, udinga ukwenza izinyathelo eziningana. Thatha umthetho kanye ngesonto ukuze wenzele okuthile, ngaphandle kokufaka okwokufundisayo nozakwethu futhi ungathetheleli isinqumo sakhe. Musa ukuhamba nge-tox ecasulwe, khumbula izintshisekelo zakho nezifiso zakho. Yazi ukuthi akekho ozohlushwa yilokho okumemezela ngezifiso zakho kanye nemingcele yakho.
By the way, mayelana nemingcele - uzikhumbuze bona. Qondisisa ukuthi akwamukeleki ukuthi ngeke ukhuthazelele ukuthi udinga ukuyeka manje. Xhuma lolu lwazi kumhlukumezi kanye nolwazi ngemiphumela yokuhlangana kwemingcele yakho kanye nokwephulwa kwemithetho. Qiniseka ukuthi ukhumbula ukwesekwa okungaba nakho, kanye namaqembu wosizo lwengqondo. Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi uyathanda futhi uyabonga.
Ungazami ukushintsha umhlukumezi wakho. Konke ongakwenza akufanele ukunqotshwa ukukhohlisa futhi kumbonise enye imodeli yobudlelwano. Kepha ukondla ithemba lokuphulukiswa komhlaseli akukufanele - lokhu kuyimpilo yakhe, futhi awunacala ngakho.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: empandeni nquma umuzwa wecala phambi kokonile. Akunasizathu sodlame olusendleleni yakho lungasizakala. Izisulu zokudlwengulwa ezingokomzwelo zikholelwa kulokho abakufanelekelayo isimo sengqondo esinonya. Ngubani ozokutshela, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ungumuntu ohlukile empilweni yakhe eyinani elikhulu.
Uma umhlukumezi uwena ...
Ukuqashelwa - Isinyathelo esiya ekuphulukeni. Abantu abathambekele ebudloveni bezengqondo abazona izilo, hhayi izilo, kanye nokuthinteka ngokwengqondo, izisulu zengcindezi, isihluku nokungathandi. Zithathe wena nezici zakho, zama ukukhumbula ukuthi indlela yakho yokudlwengula imizwa eqala ngayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ukuhlaziya izenzo zakho, uzama ukuqonda ukuthi yini imbangela, okungukuthi, kubangela ubudlova obungokomzwelo. Zibuze imibuzo: Kuzokwenzekani uma ungamemezi / uthuke / ionize / vuka endaweni ecasukile? Isimo sengqondo esinengqondo siyisihluthulelo sempumelelo.
Udinga ukulalela izisulu zakho ngaphandle kwanoma yikuphi "kepha", ukucaciswa nokucaciswa kobudlelwano. Umsebenzi wakho ume endaweni yalowo owahlupheka ngenxa yonya lwakho, futhi uzame ukuzizwa kule ndawo. Futhi: qiniseka ukuthi uyaxolisa kulabo owucasulile, kanye nawe uqobo. Futhi ngiyaxolisa!