Njengomthetho, uma kukhulunywa ngemicabango yocansi, kuphela amaphupho amadoda abhekwa, kwathi abesifazane badlula. Ukubuyisa ubulungiswa, sizokhuluma ngemicabango evame kakhulu yowesifazane okungewona wonke umuntu ozonquma ukwezwi.
Kunzima ukuvuma ezifisweni zabo
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I-Swinger Party
Akunandaba ukuthi ubudlelwano obukhululekile bungazange buwuthinte kanjani umphakathi wethu, amakhanda wabesifazane ajwayele ukuvakashelwa mayelana nokushintshana kwabalingani. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ngakho-ke i-psyche yowesifazane inciphisa izinga lokuhlangenwe nakho kwezocansi, lapho okuthile kwenqatshelwe, kuhlale kuthakazelisa ukuzama. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akusho ukuthi lona wesifazane ukulungele ukufeza konke okwenzeka emiqondweni yakhe - kwesinye isikhathi amaphupho ahlala imicabango.
Stranger embhedeni
Emphakathini wabesilisa, ukuxhumana okungahleliwe cishe njalo kuthola ukuvunywa, kodwa kwabesifazane, ngokusho komphakathi ofanayo, ngisho nokucabanga ngakho. Ngabe ithini intombi? Kodwa-ke, ngale ndlela, lona wesifazane ebhikisha, ezama ukucabanga ukuthi yimiphi imizwa enjengesimangalo enjalo. Ikakhulu kaningi, kufika inganekwane enjalo kubantu besifazane abashadile abalahlekelwe yizinzwa zobunzima obunomlingani waphakade, abaphila ngayo impilo ethule. Kwezinye izimo, abesifazane abahambi eminye imibono, kepha uma kudlula umuzwa obukhali kakhulu, owesifazane anganquma ngokuvukela umbuso.
Abalingani Abashintshaniswa akukhuthazi ukuthi ujwayelekile
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M + f + m
Reverse fantasy lowesilisa w + m + w. Intombazane ingabhebhetheka umlingani waphakade noma wokomela imizwa emisha le ndoda isakwazi ukuyinika. Kodwa-ke, kunzima ukunquma ngokuhlola okungomfokazi kube nzima, ngakho-ke abesifazane bavame ukuhambisa amadoda abo umdlalo onjalo. Okujabulisayo lapho umlingani ohlala njalo ebamba iqhaza kule ndlela yokusondela, akuvamile ukuba akucabangele ukukhaphela. Kepha lapha konke kuncike ngezinga lokulondolozwa kwe-conservatism yalombhangqwana.
Esikhathini se-Intanethi kunzima ukufihla okuthile
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Umfana omncane
Owesifazane osekhulile, okuthe xaxa kudingeka aqinisekise ukuheha kwawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abaningi abanawo amandla embhedeni, kanye nesithandwa esincane ukufezekisa ubukhosi lula. Yize iningi owesifazane livame ukuntuleka ekukhuthazeleni kusuka kumlingani waphakade, ngakho-ke isithombe somuntu ongakhathali, angahlangana naye kwangempela ekhanda lakhe.
Isizwisisi
Ngokuqala kwe-Intanethi empilweni yethu, saba lula ukwelapha ukuhlaselwa kwesikhala somuntu siqu: Kunzima ukufihla okuthile manje. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lesi sici asithinti ikhala elisondelene. Abesifazane bayavuma ukuthi imicabango enjalo iyinto efana ne- "porn ngesikhathi sangempela" - babheke inqubo futhi bayena kuphela ngokwengqondo bajoyina.