1. Ndumiso. Yenza izincomo. Khuluma ukuthi muhle kanjani, unomusa, uhlakaniphile, uqinile, uphana. Uma lokhu kungenziwa, angalahlekelwa yizo zonke izifiso zokuba njalo nawe. Ngimuphi umqondo, uma ungabongi? Ngezwa kwelinye lezintombi okusolakala ukuthi umuntu 'angaphambandela' futhi azikhulise kakhulu. Kepha ngivumela ukuthi ngenze ngiphikise ngokwezigaba - ngizokutshela ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukunqamula.
2. Ungesabi ukubuza. Ukuthandwa kwabesilisa lapho ebuzwa. Nokuthi bakhombisa kanjani amandla abo? Uma wena uqobo ungazizwa, indoda ingazizwa ingadingekile, futhi akekho ofuna ukungadingekile. Kuliqiniso, uma sikhuluma ngezipho kuphela, indoda ingasola inqola ebudlelwaneni bakho. Kuyadingeka ukubuza ngokuphelele konke: tshela, nikeza izeluleko, ukhulise okuthile okusindayo, qinisa ijazi. Ngisho nalezo zinto ongazenza ngaphandle kwazo.
3. Amadoda asaba kakhulu imingcele enkululeko yawo. Uma yena, ngokwesibonelo, asetshenziselwa ukudlala ibhola noma ukuxhumana nabangane ngeMigqibelo, futhi usho njalo manje ngoMgqibelo uthola ukuyothenga igoli, kungabisaba kakhulu. Uma uthatha isinqumo sokujoyina impilo yakhe, yenza kancane kancane: Buza ukuthi kufaneleka nini ukuchitha isikhathi nawe, ngitshele ukuthi ufuna ukuya ndawo thile. Masibe inani lenkululeko, futhi ungasho nokuthi: Yebo, baphi abangane bakho? Futhi kungani usazijabulisa? Ngikholwe, ufuna ukuba nawe okuningi.
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4. Zama ukuthola imikhuba kanye nesifiso somuntu, futhi usenzele ngokunembile. Isibonelo, uthanda ikhofi ngaphandle koshukela, khona-ke ekhofi oyilungiselele kona, ushukela akufanele avele. Noma akathandi uma uhlukunyezwe ngokukhanyayo, kusho ukuthi akufanele kudwetshwe ngokukhanya nalo. Uma ethanda umyalo wendlu, kuzofanela uqukathe indlu ehlanzekile. Ngokuvamile, udinga ukwazi izidingo zawo bese uwavala.
5. Zama ukuba nguye omunye, kepha hhayi umlingani. Ungazami ukuxazulula imibuzo yebhizinisi lakhe noma umsize kulezo zimo lapho ungakwazi ukubamba iqhaza khona ngencazelo. Kumele aqonde futhi azi ukuthi ebudlelwaneni bakho asemqoka, kepha, ngokufanele, umthwalo wemfanelo wenhlala-kahle yakho kuyo. Abesifazane abaningi banquma kakhulu le ndoda ukuthi yehluleka lutho.
6. Khumbula njalo ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane bacabangisisa ngokuhlukile. Kufanele kube. Ngakho-ke, ngaso sonke isikhathi yiba sowesifazane. Ungacabangi ngisho nokuphatha isikhwama esindayo. Awukwazi nje, futhi yilokho. Uma imoto yakho yehla, shayela indoda yakho, makayixazulule inkinga. Nakho konke lokhu ngesimo esihle. Kalula nje: "Othandekayo, kunenkinga enjalo, idinga ukuxazululwa. Mina uqobo angikwazi, uyazi. "
7. Malibe mali benze kahle, bayakufuna ngempela. Manje abesifazane abaningi besaba ukucela okuthile, ukukhombisa ubuthakathaka, futhi leli yiphutha elikhulu. Njengoba ngishilo, uma amadoda engabuzi okuningi futhi kaningi, kunezindlela ezimbili kuphela: indoda ezocabanga ukuthi ayidingeki ikakhulukazi kuwe ukuthi wena futhi ngaphandle kwawo ungazi konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke kukho konke. Angeke nje angaboni owesifazane ekuwe. Futhi inketho yesibili: Indoda izophumula futhi iyeke ukwenza okuthile, ngoba ine-super-sun sun-meng, ekwazi konke. Ngicabanga ukuthi akuyona enye yalezi zinketho ongazithandi. Ngakho-ke, i-cilia enhle bese iphinda ibinzana: "Othandekayo, unamandla, uhlakaniphile, ngiyakholelwa kuwe. Uzophumelela. "