Izingane ezineminyaka engu-2 kuya kwele-6 zisebenzisa okudala zikhalela ngezinhloso ezahlukahlukene, kepha ikakhulukazi ngale ndlela zisebenzela abazali ngobuhlungu, ukugula noma ukunganeliseke. Kepha izinyembezi zezingane azigcini nje ngesiginali yokucindezela, kodwa futhi nendlela yokukhohlisa abazali, ukuveza imibono yabo, ukuboniswa komlingiswa noma ukumane nje kuwukubonisa imizwa, kubhala i-passion.ru.
Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi ukuhlaselwa kwezingane kunamandla kangangokuba wethula abazali bamunyu futhi bamane nje ngeke bathule ingane yabo. Yini okufanele uyenze ezimweni ezinjalo? Ungabhekana Kanjani Nalezi Zimo? Ake sizame ezibonelweni zokuqonda le nkinga futhi sithuthukise izindlela eziningana zokuzola umntwana.
Ngakho-ke, okudingayo, nokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuthi ngeke kwenziwe ezinganeni zezingane.
Uma ingane yagula ... ngokwemvelo, ukukhala kungaba yisiginali egulayo. Uma ingane ikhathazekile ngamazinyo, izindlebe, ikhanda noma isisu, yena ngokuqiniseka uzokutshela umthombo wezinhlungu. Kuyini kulesi simo ukusiza ingane? Okokuqala, udinga ukuqeda izizathu zokukhathazeka kwakhe. Akunandaba ukuthi ungaziqonda kahle kangakanani zonke izinhlobo zezilonda, kusengcono ukubiza udokotela, futhi ngaphambi kokuba kufike kuwo wonke amabutho ukwenza isimo semvuthuluka - ukunikela nge-antipyretic, ukukhuphuka nokubopha ingane, Mthule.
Imvamisa izimpawu ezibuhlungu zibonakaliswa yinkimbinkimbi yonke yezimpawu - izinguquko zokuziphatha, ukushisa noma isicanucanu, ukugaya, ukugabha. Kepha uma kungekho zimpawu zangaphandle, akufanele ungazinaki izikhalazo zezingane futhi ucabange ukuthi uyalingisa. Imvamisa, izingane ze-Preschool Antard azinjalo. Ngakho-ke zama ukuphatha izikhalazo zezempilo zakho ngakho konke ukunakwa.
Uma ingane yawa, ishaye, yalimala ... ingane ingakhala ebuhlungwini, ekucasuleni noma kushunyaye, futhi kuyadingeka ukuyokwazi ukumsiza kahle, umqinisekise futhi aseke. Kunezinqubo ezikhethekile zezengqondo, izingane zemfundo zokubhekana nemizwa futhi zokwehlisa umoya ngokushesha lapho zikhala. Lezi zinqubo zihlukile ngandlela thile ezindleleni zethu ezijwayelekile ukuqinisekiswa, kepha zibasiza kakhulu.
Manje ake sicabange ngalokho ongadingi ukukwenza. Okokuqala, akufanele ukhulume nengane ngenkathi ekhala, futhi nangaphezulu - ukumthuka noma ukubika. Awudingi ukuthi kuye "hamba, ngizokusola ngawe," ulungile futhi ngichibiyele noma udwebe "umpofu, omncane, uswayipha ngesandla buthule, njll. Okokuqala, kuzonikeza ingane umuzwa wokuphepha nokwethembeka kwakho. Okwesibili, akuvumela ukuthi ubhekane nenjabulo nemizwa yakho. Akudingeki udlulise enganeni yenjabulo yakhe ezingeni lomzimba nangokuqonda, kufanele umnikeze ukuthula kwengqondo namandla. Lezi zingcabhu zenza ukuthi zikwazi ukuqonda inkinga ngobuchopho futhi ungalayishi ngokweqile ngolwazi.
Musa ukushaya amanxeba, zama ngokushesha ukumsiza - uma kunjalo, hhayi ukopha okukhulu noma ukuqhekeka. Nge-chiske ejwayelekile noma nge-abrasion, kubaluleke kakhulu ukusiza ingane ngokwengqondo.
Akufanele uzenze amathoyizi wezingane noma uswidi, uyiqhunyele njengengane. Ukuziphatha okunjalo umnika isizathu sokukhohlisa isimo nokungena ku-hysterics. Ngokuzayo lapho ingane iwela, futhi awumshayi wethusa ngokwethusa, ngeke uqale ukuncela futhi ungashiyi, kepha ngeke akwazi ukukhokha, kepha ngeke akwazi ukuwa. Uzovuka, adale futhi azenzele.
Okokuqala, hug a ingane, umcindezele ngokuqinile futhi eqeda amandla endaweni yokuwa noma ngesehlakalo. Makazizwe emzimbeni wonke. Qala ngokushelela nangokuphefumula ngokujulile, cabanga ngeshumi ngejubane elihamba kancane. Uzoqaphela ukuthi ukuphefumula kwengane okuhlangene nokuthi kuqondanise kanjani kahle futhi kuyabuyiselwa. Ezinganeni, kwenzeka ngokungazi futhi ngokungabonakali - ukuvumelanisa umoya ngaphansi komoya wobudala. Ungahambisana nokuphefumula okunama-swirls akhanyayo, imivimbo, ukuhambisa izincwadi - ngegama, ukufaka noma yikuphi ukukhuthaza kwesikhumba. Kepha zonke lezi zenzo kufanele zibe zikhanya futhi zingathandeki, ukuze zingaphazamisi ingane ekuqasheleni isimo. Ungazami ukuphazamisa ngokushesha ukukhala - izingane, njengabantu abadala, kwesinye isikhathi udinga nje ukukhipha imizwa ngezinyembezi. Ungageza kalula noma ucule iculo ngaphandle kwamagama, kuyasiza nokuthambisa nokubuyisela ukuphefumula. Futhi kuphela ngemuva kokuba ingane iqale ukuphefumula kahle futhi iyeke ukuncipha, kungenzeka ukuhlukaniswa isimo ngaphandle kwemizwelo: ukubona ukuthi kwenzekani futhi kwenzeke kuphi, khuluma indaba yokuwa kwakhe ngaphandle kwemizwa, ukulahlwa kanye nokuhlola. Ukwenza isibonelo, "uhambe, phansi wabeka ithoyizi, wakhubeka ngokuthi yithoyizi wawa."
Ekuvuseleleni kwendaba, mhlawumbe, uzozama ukucasuka, kepha leli yilungelo lakhe - udinga ukusinda futhi afunde ukubhekana nokukhalela nokuzola ngokushesha.
Ama-Hystereies Wezingane ahlaselwa ekhala ngokukhala nokuthukuthelisa okuvela esimweni sokuqhuma okungokomzwelo okungokomzwelo. Le yindlela yokukhohlisa abantu bomdabu abangelwa ukuthukuthela, ukucasuka, ulaka noma ukuphelelwa yithemba. Lokhu kukhala okunzima ukwehlisa abazali, njengoba ukulimala nokuwa kwabe sekukhohlwe ngokushesha ngokwanele, futhi ngenxa yezizathu ze-hysteria, ingane yagxila kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, akudingekile endabeni ukunikeza izimo noma ukuziphatha kokuhlolwa kwengane nokwahlulela. Akufanele umtshele ukuthi kwenzekeni "Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uphoqe amathoyizi", "lokhu kungenxa yokuthi wesaba", njll.
Kulezi zimo, awekho amathiphu angenakuphikiswa, esimweni ngasinye kuyadingeka ukuthola indlela yawo ngaphandle kwesimo. Kepha kunezindlela eziningana zokuphumelela kothisha nakubazali abakhulu. Ngama-histereyies ezindaweni ezinabantu abaningi, ezitolo, esizeni noma ezindlini zisizwa ngamasu alandelayo:
• Thatha ukunaka kwengane esibhakabhakeni, okukhombisa ukuthi "Indiza", ifu noma okuthile okungajwayelekile, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuzama ukuheha laba bantu abadala (bavame ukudlala). Kuzokusiza kalula ukuthi uphambuze ingane entweni ye-hysterical. Ukunakwa kwabantu abadala, futhi nakho okuhlangene, kujabulisa kakhulu ilukuluku futhi kuvimba kahle.
• Qala ukusesha ifoni noma isiginali emshinini, yenza sengathi bayacula. Yazisa ingane okudingeka uyiphendule ngokuphuthumayo, vala, ugijime ukuze ubheke imoto, njll. Uma kuyinkohliso ngefoni, yenza ukubukeka kokwakha umfutho futhi usheshe, utshele lokho, Ngatshelwa ocingweni, lapho ngilindile ... " Okulandelayo - gxila ezimweni.
• Yenza umbono wokuthi ukhalela unamandla kunengane, futhi kukuhlukumeza. Imvamisa, izingane zigijimela ezolile zikhale abazali, bakhohlwa ngezinkinga zabo.
• Noma, kunalokho, qala ukugoqa, ukukitaza ingane, wakhe ubuso, ubungenangqondo, uwonke, nganoma iyiphi indlela, zama ukuhumusha i-hysteria yakho ukuhleka. Imvamisa le ndlela lisiza obaba, ngoba bane-Excerpt kanye nomuzwa wokuhlekisa umama ongcono.
Futhi kuhlala kusiza ekukhulumeni nengane nomuntu omdala, emchazela sonke isimo njengoba kunjalo. Kuyadingeka ukushayelwa futhi ugibele ingane - iningi lezinhlansi ezivela ekushoneni kwe-caress nokunakwa, izingane zizisebenzisa njengendlela yokuheha intshisekelo kamama nopapa.
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