IMelika yizwe lamathuba phakathi kwezilwandle ezimbili. Kusukela ngesikhathi seSoviet Union, ama-stereotypes amaningi empilo ejwayelekile yaseMelika yadalwa, kuze kube namuhla sibezwa ezikrinini ze-TV yethu. IsiRussia, imodeli ephezulu yezwe lonke enesakhamuzi saseMelika uKira Dikhtyar izohola izibonelo eziningana zamasiko aseMelika nemithetho yokuziphatha, futhi izokhuluma ngamaphutha afika e-USA okokuqala.
Sifunda izici zokuziphatha e-USA
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Isiko lotshwala
Ake siwubuwula: Indoda yaseRussia iyathanda ukuphuza nokudla. Okufanayo kusebenza kubantu baseMelika! Ngemuva kwalokho ngenkathi ubuka ezemidlalo, kuyisiko ukuphuza ubhiya, esidlweni sakusihlwa - iwayini, nasemibuthanweni eyenziwe ekhaya - ama-cocktails, ngokwesibonelo, punch. Akuyona impilo, kepha iholide, kepha nakhu ukubanjwa: Abantu baseMelika bazi ukulinganisa kwabo ngqo, abakhombisi isigaba sokudakwa kotshwala, ngakho-ke noma ngabe kunenani elikhulu leziphuzo emcimbini, Ngaphandle kwalokho isimo sakho esidakiwe ngeke sithinte idumela enkampanini.
Umqondo "wenkulumo encane"
Ungama emgqeni, udle okudliwayo noma ukundiza endizeni - amaMelika awenze ingxoxo yezwe engenalutho ". Imvamisa iqala ingxoxo enjalo ngombuzo: "Unjani?", Ukuphendula ngendlela evuselelekile. Ungesabi ukube lo mfokazi utshela umsebenzi wakhe noma uzama ukukhuluma nawe. Futhi, ungesabi ukuqala inkulumo encane - lokhu kungaqhathaniswa nomthetho we-etiquette.
Isimemo sokudla kwakusihlwa akusho ukuthi uzokuphatha
Icala liku-American Equety of Floors. Abesifazane sebethole isikhathi eside ukulingana, ngakho-ke lapho uhamba endaweni yokudlela noma ibha, ungabali kulokho ozokukhokhelwa. Isifiso sokwelapha umuntu emphakathini waseMelika ngokwejwayelekile, kodwa hhayi empeleni, uma kufika ngosuku. I-akhawunti ehlukile akufanele ifake kuwe ekuxilongeni, ngakho-ke bamba ikhadi noma ukheshi kanye nawe.
Ukunakekela imvelo
Phonsa ibhodlela lepulasitiki esitsheni esijwayelekile cishe ubugebengu endalweni, ukuthi yini okufanele ngikhulume ngodoti emigwaqweni emigwaqweni. EMelika, kuyisiko ukunakekela imvelo, okwamanje ukuthambekela okunjalo kuthuthela kancane eRussia, ngakho-ke khumbula ukuthi ngepakethe ngalinye ngemfucuza - Ukuhlunga, kugwayi ngamunye - uswidi ngamunye.
Ubuhlanga, ubuncane bezocansi kanye ne-bodypositive
Ukuhleka umuntu obukhulu - ukulengiswa kwilebula yokungabekezelelani kanye nobunzima. Yini okufanele ukhulume ngokobuhlanga, igama elithi "ebony" nezitatimende ezingathandeki ku-LGBT. Abantu bokuziphatha kobulili okungekhona kwendabuko eMelika bakhombisa ngokukhululekile ubudlelwano babo, uma isimo esinjalo sishaqisa, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngelinye iphuzu ebholeni lohambo. Qikelela ngamahlaya wokuthi imizwa yomunye umuntu ingalimaza, uma izihloko ezinjalo zingumfokela kuwe, khona-ke ungakhulumi ngabo bonke.