Iqiniso lokuthi imicabango lakha iqiniso lethu, akekho noyedwa omangazayo: Uma sihlala sisesimweni sokuziphatha okubi nokucindezelwa, akufanele umangale ukuthi umhlaba ubonakala ungwevu. Kumacala lapho konke kuvela ngaphandle kwezandla nokukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe akubonakali, silungiselele imithetho eminingana ezokwenza ubheke isimo ngendlela ehlukile.
Nguwe kuphela ongakwenza ukukhetha
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Ukuhambisana
Imbangela yesimo sakho esicindezelwe ingaba isifiso esibuhlungu sokufanelana nendawo yayo. Abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi abesifazane, amazinga abhajwe amukelwe emphakathini othile. Vele, asikhulumi ngemiphakathi engochwepheshe lapho udinga khona ukulandela imithetho ethile, sikhuluma ngempilo yakho yansuku zonke lapho kufanele uphumule, esikhundleni sokucabanga ngawe nokuthi ucabangani ngawe.
Ukuba khona
Ubudlelwano obusondelene nokwethembana nabanye abantu abanakwenzeka uma ngabe ukunakekelwa nokunakwa kubonakaliswa kuphela ngakolunye uhlangothi. "Umdlalo osesangweni elifanayo uzoletha ukhungathekile yizo zombili, okunjalo ngqo namhlanje kufanele uqale ukwenza izinto. Umama ukhononda ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esincane naye? Meme yena kusihlwa endaweni yokudlela. Indoda iyacasuka, yini oyisebenzisa ngaso sonke isikhathi emsebenzini, yebo ngokwengqondo naye? Thatha iholide lakho bese uqhubeka nohambo ndawonye. Njll. Unganyamalali empilweni yabathandekayo.
Ungaboni isimo sengqondo esihle njengokufanele
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Ukuphindaphinda
Akukho okuza empilweni yethu kanjalo nje. Ukuze uthole okuthile, udinga ukunikela okuthile. Ngaso sonke isikhathi kukho konke. Le nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni ngokomzwelo. Uma kunabantu emvelweni yakho abahlala bekulungele ukuza ekusindisweni futhi "bamboze", awuboni njengoba kufanele: Akuwona wonke umuntu onenhlanhla ngokusekelwa okunjalo. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi izinto ziba nzima, vele ukhumbule ukuthi kungusuku olubi kuphela, hhayi impilo embi, kodwa ngokusekelwa kwabangane nozakwabo ungaphatha kalula inkathazo.
Sekela okuhle
Khumbula ukuthi akekho umuntu othanda abantu abahlala bekhononda ngaphandle kwesizathu. Indawo ezungezile izama ukuhlala isuka ekude, futhi uma uzizwa ngohlobo lwamakhono ahlala njalo, ungamangali uma ngolunye usuku kuzoba uhlobo oluthile lokubiza, futhi vele ukucindezelwa kungakhula, okuzothuthukisa isifiso sakho sokuthola okusha ukuzidela ukukhononda. Umbuthano ononya.
Kuyacaca ukuthi ukucindezelwa kudinga ukusebenza nochwepheshe, kepha uma kungekho, ungabhekana kalula namabutho akho ngokushintsha isimo sakho sezwe, kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ezinhle kwenzeka kuwe ngosuku.
Bheka isimo nge-angle ehlukile
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Ukukhetha
Uphila impilo yakho okungekho muntu ofanelekile. Kuphela emandleni akho okulawula konke okwenzeka kuwo: ungaxhumana nabantu, futhi ungaphazamisa ukuxhumana nabantu obungathandeki futhi akekho ozokulahla ngayo. Imvamisa sihlupheka ngenxa yokungenelela kwangaphandle ezindabeni zethu nangendlela yokuphila yempilo, okuholela ekucindezelekeni nasekucindezelekeni okufanayo. Funda ukwenqaba futhi wenze izinqumo ngokwakho.