Noma yikuphi ukuhlukanisa kufaka phakathi isifo esinamandla esingaholela ekucindezelekeni kwangempela. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi igebe akulona ukuphela kwako konke impilo futhi akunakubonisana ukuyeka ukusesha umlingani ofanele kuwe. Sizokutshela ukuthi kufanele ukhumbule, ube sesimweni esinzima kangako.
kube lula kakhulu ukubolekisa okubi
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Le ndoda yayingeyona ehamba phambili
Ngokuvamile, cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthola umuntu ofanele ongakufanela ngokuphelele kukho konke, noma kunjalo kudingeka alwele ukuhwebo okuthengiswayo nalabo bantu onethezekile futhi uzizwa uphephile.
Uma uhlukane, kusho ukuthi bebengeke bakwazi ukuthola ukulingana emkhakheni owodwa noma ngaphezulu kwempilo, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele uzame ukuthola ukuvumelana, kepha vele nomunye umuntu.
Uma kunzima, khona-ke walwa
Khumbula ukuthi abaningi baphonsa konke futhi bahambe, ngaphandle kokuzama ukusungula ubudlelwano. Iqiniso lokuthi wawungasakhulumi ngentando yakho yentando nothando lwangempela, okumangazayo, abanamandla. Yebo, umphumela uyadumaza, kepha umzamo uhlala ubalwa kuwe ngokuhlanganisa.
Ungayeki ukufuna umlingani ofanelekayo
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Musa ukudonsa okwedlule ebudlelwaneni besikhathi esizayo
Kufanele kube nesikhathi esithile ngaphambi kokuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ukubopha impilo yakho nomuntu othokozisayo. Abantu abaningi abakwazi ukuziza kubo, bayeke isimo, futhi kanye nalesi sikhwama bangena ebudlelwaneni obusha, okuvimbela ukwakhiwa kwenjabulo ngokwemvelo.
Shiya ubudlelwane obuhlulekile lapho indawo isenkumbulo yakho. Izikhalazo ezingapheli ngokuthi zazinjani zinhle nawe kanye, akunakwenzeka ukuba zithokozise i-SoulAm yakho entsha.
Kuphila kuphela lapho ufuna
Isimo esidumile lapho owesifazane ezama ukuguquka kakhulu ukukhumbuza i-ex-mayelana nokulahleka kwakhe futhi adale ukuphelelwa yithemba kuwo, kepha akukufanele ukwenza lokhu: Kungenzeka, umuntu usevele uphendule impilo entsha, ngakho-ke Imizamo izosetshenziswa ngokuphelele. Kungcono ukusebenza ngalezo zimfanelo zokuzenzela ezingafaneli kuphela.
Igebe lingazembula izinhlangothi zakho ezingezinhle zomuntu
Kukangaki lapho sizwa izindaba ngomngane ohluphekayo noma umngani ongakwazi ukumelana nokuhlukanisa futhi waqala lonke ithuna: Nansi impilo yocansi yezocansi, utshwala nakho konke okunengqondo ngokwanele.
Khumbula, kunoma yisiphi isimo okudingayo ukuze uzigcine ezandleni zakho, ungasusa labo bantu abangakunika ukwesekwa kwangempela kokuziphatha kwakho okuphambene.
Igebe - hhayi ukuphela komhlaba
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Uzobona umnyombo weqiniso wabangane bakho
Abantu bahlale bedonswa lapho kunobumnandi khona futhi abanandaba, kepha bambalwa abantu abakulungele ukusondela kumuntu oze wangena esimweni esingesihle. Abangani abaningi abafuni ukubona ukuthi uba kanjani inguqulo edabukisayo yomuntu owayeyinto ende kakhulu nomuntu oqondile, ngakho-ke zama ukugwema ukuxhumana. Kodwa-ke, kungukuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo okuzokunikeza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi uzoqhubeka nobani indlela yakho.