Izingoma zabantu uMarina Devyatova zamanye ama-pores, nonkosikazi ojabulayo nonina. Umculi washada eminyakeni emithathu edlule, kwathi ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezalandela ndodakazi u-Ulyana.
- Marina, impilo yakho yaguquka kanjani ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane?
- Lapho kuvela ingane yokuqala, kubonakala kimi ukuthi lona wesifazane uzelwe kabusha: Uguquliwe futhi wamazi naye okusha ngokuphelele. Ngoba sonke isikhathi sakhe samahhala sizinikele enganeni. Esimweni sami, kwakungelula: Bengicishe ngibe nekhefu lokuya esikhathini, ngahamba esiteji ezinyangeni ezimbili. Angizange ngibe nomsebenzi omncane, kepha impilo yomndeni yaceba. Futhi-ke, oshade naye waphendukela kwizinsizakalo zeNanny, ngoba ngaphandle kwalo muntu esingenzi nje. Umama wami uhlala nathi, uyasisiza.
- Ukuzalwa kwengane kuhlelwe noma kwenzeka ngengozi?
- Kwamangaza ngathi nomyeni wakhe. Ikakhulu kimi njenge-worparchik. Kubukeka kimi uma ngabe lesi simanga sengenzeki, ngabe ngihambe isikhathi eside, ngenkathi ngisesimweni somkami, hhayi omama. Thina no-Alexey sazana isikhathi eside, ebudlelwaneni bethu behluke. Sahlangana, sahlukana, saphinde sahlangana futhi. Sadlula, mhlawumbe, yonke imibuthano yokuthuthuka kobudlelwano bendoda nowesifazane. Kepha ukuzalwa kuka-Ulyana kakhulu kwashintsha umyeni wakhe, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi u-Alexey usenendodakazi emshadweni wokuqala. Kepha kwathi lapho uSasha ezalwa, wayeneminyaka engamashumi amabili, manje, lapho amashumi amane, ukubonakala kwengane kuthathwe ngendlela ehlukile. Banobudlelwano babo, imidlalo yabo. Kepha into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi banokuxhumana, leyo ntambo, lapho ngizwa khona injabulo enkulu.
KuMarina noyise, umculi odumile uVladimir Devyatova, iculo lesintu laba yibhizinisi lomndeni
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- Alexey isikhathi eside yena izinkambo?
- Lapho sihlangana, ngangiyintombazane endala ngokwanele. Benginesoka elincane empilweni yami, futhi ngabona bonke abantu bami abasebasha njengabesilisa esingaba khona. Mina uqobo ngingumuntu othandana naye. U-Alexey uyindoda enokwethenjelwa, enhle, eyakhulela emndenini ohlakaniphile. Ngeshwa, umama wakhe muva nje, ubani, ngicabanga ukuthi ngangingumkhwekazi omuhle kakhulu. Kwakungumngane wami wangempela. Futhi ngakho-ke anginaso isifiso esikhethekile, ukuze u-Alexey wafunwa. Wayenendaba, njengoba ayekwazi, ngenxa yamakhono akhe. Ngokushesha saqala ukuhlala ndawonye. Mhlawumbe kwenye indawo abakwenza amaphutha, kepha ngasikhathi sinye ngiyaqonda ukuthi amakhona abukhali azama ukudlula ephathini.
- Siyini isimo sakhe sengqondo mayelana neqiniso lokuthi ungumculi odumile?
- Ngihlala ngithi kuye: Awushadanga ngowesifazane, kodwa kumculi, ezilalelini. Akalula, ungowesilisa ojwayelekile futhi onomhawu namadoda afuna ukunginika izimbali, ukwanga, ukwanga. Kepha uyakubekezelela konke, uyakuqonda ukuthi unomfazi - umdwebi.
- Wena ebusheni wacabanga ukuthi yini okufanele ube yindoda yamaphupho akho?
- Umyeni wami akazange ahambisane nalomqondo. Esikudonsela imicabango kuphela. Ngabona amakhathuni, izinganekwane ezinhle kakhulu futhi manje sesilindele ukuthi i-romeo izoqala ukucula ama-serenade ngaphansi kwefasitela. Kepha ngingumuntu wokudala, ngidinga i-knight ezokuza kimi ngehhashi, kuzonqoba inhliziyo yami. Bengihlala ngiyize enjalo. Futhi le micabango iphazamisa kakhulu. Isibonelo, kwesinye isikhathi kubukeka kimi ukuthi konke, nowokuqala wonke umyeni wami, kufanele acabange njengami. Futhi amadoda ngokwemvelo angabafo abasebenzayo. Umyeni wami uthi: Yebo, ngitshele, udinga ini? Futhi i: "Kanjani, Kanjani! Kufanele uqagele! " Kepha amadoda azama ngendlela ehlukile. Futhi amadoda amahle, kanye nabesifazane, kubonakala ngami, akwenzeki.
UMarina Devyatova noMama nendodakazi encane ngesikhathi sephulelo esivela esibhedlela
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- Uthi ngijwayelene umyeni wakho isikhathi eside, futhi lapho umzuzu ufika lapho uqonda lokho okwenzelwe omunye nomunye?
- Angithandi ukukhuluma ngendlela abantu badalelwa ngayo omunye nomunye. Imishado enamandla kwesinye isikhathi iyahlukana. Sonke senzeka: siyaxabana, futhi siyafunga, ngikholwe kimi, ngingumgibeli onzima kakhulu empilweni yomndeni. Futhi, futhi, njengeTaurus yangempela, ezalwe ngonyaka kaBaran, ngokuvamile, umuntu owayehlaselwe kabili. Futhi mina njengowesifazane ohola iqembu lakhe futhi akulula ukufika ekhaya futhi uthambile futhi uthambile. Umndeni uliloloni lokulungisa ukulungiswa, lapho wonke umuntu esebenza khona okokuqala ego. Ngoba sonke i-egoISists, sifuna ukujabulela: nabanye, nabo, indawo ezungezile. Futhi okokuqala, kunjalo, udinga ukufunda ukwazisa usuku nsuku zonke. Ngiyaqonda ukuthi u-Alexei wanginikeza kimi ngezimfanelo zami zikaNkulunkulu, futhi yena, nezimfanelo zakhe, naye wayenzima kakhulu, wanikeza umfazi ohlabelela. Sinomehluko omuhle eminyakeni yobudala, umyeni umdala iminyaka eyishumi, ngakho-ke endaweni ethile ehlakaniphile, thile thile. Futhi u-Alexey ungubaba omuhle. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, sinakho, yi-Ulkean Alekseevna yethu, ekhula umculi wangempela wesikhathi esizayo.
- Ngakho-ke usuvele uyibona kuyo?
- Amawolintshi ngeke azalwe e-Osinka. Futhi lewolintshi, ngombono wami, ngathola ubuciko kakhulu. Njengoba umama ethi, u-Ulyana uyikhophi lami. Uyadansa, abaculi bakhe abathandayo - umama kanye nomkhulu. Futhi uma kungazelelwe kuzwakala izingoma zabantu, ngeke kumdanse. Unezingubo zekhonsathi, ubheka abadansi bami ngezinkulumo zami nangezinye zezimoto zabo zokuphindaphinda kwethelevishini. Ngo-Ephreli nganginekhonsathi eKremlin, futhi u-Ulyana wavela phambi kwezilaleli, ngolaka ngokuzolile wenza izimbali zikanina, akazange ezethule: kwakhala abantu abangu-5700, wafika ekhaya lakhe. Ngacula konke ukukhulelwa, futhi i-Ulyana ayikaze ingikhiphe, angizange ngishaye. Lapho ikhonsathi enabayisikhombisa kuya kwabayisishiyagalolunye kwaqala ndawo ndawo, ingane yathula, wayehlala enginika ukuba ngikhulume. Futhi manje kufanelekile amakhonsathi avela kwabayisikhombisa kuya kwayisishiyagalolunye, uhlelo lwakhe lwedwa. (Ehleka.)
"Umama uthi u-Ulyana uyikhophi lami. Uyadansa, usevele unezingubo zokukhohlisa"
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- Uma kunamantombazane amabili amahle emndenini, khona-ke ikhabethe, mhlawumbe, likhulu? ..
- Ngazalelwa eSoviet Union, lapho kwakungekho lutho. Sesivele sahlala ngokwanele lapho abazali behlukanisa, umama waqala ukusebenza ngemisebenzi emithathu. Zonke izingane zaseSoviet zishiya izingubo zabafowethu nodadewethu asebekhulile. Futhi, ngokusobala, lokhu kusilela manje ngicela u-Ulyana. Ngitsheliwe: Ingane isidingo esiningi! Kepha ngizama ukuzisebenzela. Yize ekuzivikeleni ngingasho ukuthi nginomuntu ozokunika lokho esingakugqoki.
- Ubaba wakho odume uVladimi Ninzatov wasabela kanjani lapho ngizalwa umzukulu?
"Ubaba wami wayelinde isikhathi eside lapho ngiba umama." Uvame ukuthi: "Marina, wenzani? Zonke lezi zingoma, vakashela ... Yebo, odinga le miklomelo! Kuyadingeka ukusungula impilo yomuntu siqu, ukushada. " Futhi lapho ngizwa ukuthi ngisesimweni, ngangijabule kakhulu. Kubukeka kimi ukuthi uBaba ushintshile kamuva nje, waqala ukungikhathaza. Futhi lapho u-Ulyaashka wazalwa - ngakho-ke. Okufanele uthenge ukuthi uBaba osemncane, udadewethu uneminyaka emine, futhi wazi kahle ukuthi yiziphi izingane, ama-diaplex ... Sinobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu, sihlala sithintana naye.
"Awuzange ucabange ukuthi umfowethu noma udadewenu?
"Mina nomyeni wami sithemba ngempela ukuthi umzalwane noma udadewabo uzovela e-Ulyena Alekseyevna. Kuhle kakhulu, ngoba nginodadewethu omdala uCatherine Catherine. Sonke sobabili, futhi, kunjalo, lo mehluko weminyaka eyisikhombisa awuzwakali nhlobo, singabangane abahle kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi ube nomfowethu noma udadewethu, ukuqapha kwendabuko.
- Marina, umyeni wakho amakhonsathi akho avame ukuvakasha?
- Uvame ukukhala. Kubukeka kimi ukuthi manje uLesha wazalwa kabusha, ngabe waba ngumculi. Ngokuvamile ungumphathi wezemidlalo ePole Emping, wahlanganyela kwezemidlalo, kepha manje umculo usuphenduke umsebenzi wakhe: Uno-Ulyashka unikezwe isiginci. Ngaphambi kokujwayelana nami, akazange aqonde ukuthi iculo lesintu liyini, futhi manje uqhakaza kunoma yisiphi inkantolo ye-cossack eyiqiniso efana ne- "Black Crow". Lapho nginamakhonsathi eMoscow, ubavakashela nendodakazi yakhe.
UMarina no-Alexey bajwayelene isikhathi eside, futhi ebudlelwaneni babo bekukhona izigaba ezihlukile. Bahlangana, bahlukana, kodwa ekugcineni baba imindeni
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- Alukho ulwazi oluningi mayelana nomshado wakho. Wahamba kanjani?
- Sasingenamshado, sagijimela ehhovisi lokubhalisa - bengivele ngisesimweni. Umdwebo osuselwa ochungechungeni oluthi "Ngindiza izolo ngisuka eMpumalanga Ekude, kwathi kusasa ngindiza eChelyabinsk." Asitshelanga muntu ngakho, abangane bethu baze bacasuke kancane futhi becasukile, kusihlwa kuphela ababebuthene omama futhi vele ngokuqondile esidlweni sakusihlwa bathi bapendiwe. Ngakho-ke sasingenawo umshado omkhulu nomuhle. Mhlawumbe siyoke sisebenzise le ndaba enjalo, kepha manje akwanele ukwenza lokhu. Manje sidinga ukwakha indlu. Ngenkathi sisusa indlu futhi sesivele siqonda ukuthi sizizwa kahle kangakanani isiyaluyalu sedolobha. Lesi seza sesivele sikhona, sayithenga. Ngendlela, lesi ngesinye isigaba sobudlelwano: Yakha indlu, yenza ukulungiswa futhi uphathe ngakho konke lokhu ngaphandle kwesehlukaniso. (Ehleka.)
- Manje abaningi baxakeke nje ngempilo enempilo, ukondliwa okufanele. Ingabe uyayithanda?
- Ngingumthambimi wemifino esele ngineminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu, kepha lokhu akuyona ucingo, kepha indlela yami yokuphila yenziwa ngokuyinhloko ukucatshangelwa kobuntu. Ngokuqondene nefomu ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, kubonakala kimi ukuthi amakhilogremu ami angezekile amahlanu asanawo. Futhi kunzima kakhulu kimi ukwehlisa isisindo ngenxa yendlela yokuphila yokuvakasha. Ngizama ukulawula isisindo, ukukhulisa umdlalo empilweni yansuku zonke futhi uhlangane nezidingo zakho. Akuhlali iphumelela. Ngilahlekelwa kakhulu isisindo ngevolumu kunakumakhilogremu, izazi eziningi ezinempilo zithi zingcono kakhulu. Kufanele ngizizwe ngisendaweni yesehlakalo. Ngokuvamile, angikaze ngibe mncane, futhi emndenini wethu sinciphile. Ngizama ukulalela umzimba wami: Uma umzimba ulungile - kusho ukuthi siphila ngokuqhubekayo, uma kungenjalo, ngizama ukudla okuntekenteke ngokwengeziwe, okuphuza kakhulu futhi ngidlale imidlalo. Landela ukudla futhi ugcine idayari empeleni anginaso isikhathi.