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Yini imfihlo?
1. Ubuhlobo obujabulisayo bomndeni lapho abashadikazi bengalalela futhi bezwane. Sikhuluma, sixoxe futhi silalelane. Ungasiqonda noma yisiphi isimo ngezindlela ezihlukile, kepha ukunquma ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani ukuphila, udinga ukwenza isenzo ndawonye, unikezwe izintshisekelo zawo wonke umuntu.
2. Udinga ukuhlonipha umbono nezintshisakalo. Kithina, ukuthula okuyinhloko kwengqondo emndenini nasenhlonipho mutual, hhayi komunye nomunye kuphela, kodwa futhi nasezinganeni nasezizukulwaneni ezindala. Asisoze saba nezingxabano ezikhona.
3. Kuliqiniso, ukuhleka kanye nomuzwa wokuhlekisa ebudlelwaneni kungenye yezinto eziphambili zempilo ejabulisayo. Sihleke ngaso sonke isikhathi, sagxuma, sibunjiwe, sinikeza amandla. Ngamahlaya, ungasinda kunoma yikuphi ubunzima. Lapho abantu abanamahlaya nokungathathi babhekisa empilweni, kulula kubo.
4. Ekuphakamiseni kwezingane ukunamathela kulayini ofanayo. Musa ukudlala ephoyisa elimnandi futhi elibi, nokuthanda nokufundisa izingane. Zisizane kanye nezingane.
5. Ukuzilibazisa okuhlangene, izinhloso zibaluleke kakhulu emndenini. Uma izinhloso zabalingani zivuma, zifuna ngokushesha okukhulu. Kubalulekile ukuba nokuzilibazisa okuhlanganyelwe: ezemidlalo, isiko elithile, ukuhamba ngezinyawo ezintabeni noma kuma-movie ngezimpelasonto, into esemqoka ukuyenza ndawonye nangokuthokozela.