Izifundo eziningi ezenziwa muva nje zifakazele ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane abaningi abaneminyaka engaba ngu-30 bakhala ngokukhathala ngokukhathala. Hhayi ngomzimba, kepha ngokuziphatha. Ngakho-ke, ukukhathala okungamahlalatha kwathola ukuthandwa okunjalo, okuvele kube yisifo sekhulu leminyaka. Kuyiqiniso, wahlupheka phambilini, kuphela kwabizwa ngokuthi "Neurasthenia", kwathi kwangitholela ikakhulukazi emantombazaneni athuthumela ahlushwa ukungasebenzi. Kukholakala ukuthi indoda ehlala imatasa njalo, i-priori ayinakuphelelwa yi-hypochondria. Manje lesi sifo samba wonke umuntu. Ngisebenza. Ngisho nabesilisa. Kuliqiniso, lokhu kungachazwa ngeqiniso lokuthi umsebenzi wanamuhla uhlukile kakhulu kusukela ekugcineni: ngaphambi kokuba abantu bekhathele, bakha ubuciko bobuciko bomhlaba noma ukwakha amaphiramidi aseGibhithe, manje - uhleli usuku lonke ngaphambi kokuqapha ikhompyutha.
Kulezi zinsuku, umsebenzi wokuphakama usushintshile: akusadingeki ukudala okuthile ikhulu leminyaka, udinga okungenani nje ugcine impilo yakho engokomoya. "Isifo saseJapan", sasifaka isizukulwane esineminyaka engamashumi amathathu, futhi ukugeleza okungapheli kwama-lownshift kusikisela ukuthi abaningi bethu bamane nje abakwazi ukuzithola kulokhu kuphithizela futhi bathole ukuthula kwengqondo.
Ososayensi babiza lesi sifo esinjalo ngesifo sokukhathala okungamahlalakhona. Futhi inkulumo lapha ayikho ngokwesimo somzimba. Yize kunjalo, ukukhathala kokuziphatha kubeka i-Imprent yayo: umzimba wehlisa amandla, ingcindezi yehle, isifiso sokudla siyanyamalala. Yebo, futhi uthole ukuthi enye imbangela yesifo esisha somphakathi ingakayeki. Kepha, ukwahlulela ngokuvota, okuhlelwe yizenhlalo, kungaphethwa ngokuthi ukukhathala kokuziphatha okuvame kakhulu "ukuhlaselwa" kulabo abangagculisekile ngempilo yabo noma umsebenzi wabo, kubhala iTata.ru.
Uvelaphi ukunakekelwa okunjalo? Okokuqala, kusukela eqinisweni lokuthi sonke sihlala emphakathini onenombolo enkulu yama-stereotypes, futhi iningi lethu la matekisi azolalela intando. Sikhona ngaphansi kwengcindezelo yangempela kakhulu: Sithola imfundo kuphela ngoba kuyadingeka, ngoba ngaphandle kokuthi "uqweqwe" lomsebenzi ojwayelekile manje abahleleli; Bangabi nalabo abafuna ukuba yikho, nalabo abafuna ukubona abazali bethu; Siphendukela emncintiswaneni wezinhlokodolobha, ekugcineni okuba yimali kuphela yemali etholwayo. Kepha okubi kakhulu akukho kulokhu. Okubi kakhulu ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umqondo onjalo awusebenzi ngokuphelele - ngolunye usuku uzovele ukhathele. Futhi, kuzoqaphela isimo sethu "esihle" kulokhu, cishe okuphelele kwemikhiqizo esezingeni eliphakeme kanye nendlela yokuphila ephansi. Voila! Futhi sinakho esinakho :)
Kubo bonke labo abafuna ukwelapha ukukhathala okungamahlalakhona, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zitusa into eyodwa kuphela: zama impilo yakho. Yenza okuthandayo, sebenza kuphela lapho engizibuza khona, uhlala kuphela nalabo abathanda. Lawa maqiniso edolobha azokuvumela ukuthi uphile ngempela!