Ngiyakujabulela futhi, abahumushi abathandekayo bamaphupho.
Umbuzo othokozisayo mayelana nokuphindaphinda amaphupho engisanda kuvela muva nje kusuka ku-One Reader isihloko.
"Ake ungitshele ukuthi yini engasho iphupho eliphindaphindwa kanye izinyanga ezimbalwa. Eqinisweni, imvamisa kunzima ukuyilandela, kepha ngokushesha nje lapho ephupha, ngiyakhumbula ukuthi sengimbonile. U-De Mie Vu Vu ephusheni ... Ngemuva kokuvuka, ngiyakhumbula ukuthi ngifuna okuthile emgwaqweni onesihlabathi kanye ngesikhathi, angitholi indlela. Bazungeze abantu, kepha banjengenkungu, angikhulumi nabo. Ngibheka izinyawo zami ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngizama ukuthola okuthile. "
Okokuqala, iphupho lithakazelisa kakhulu. Ngokungangabazeki, okuqukethwe kwalo ngokwawo kungaphezu kokusobala. Ukuphenduka kwethu okungazi lutho phambi kwethu ukupenda kokufuna impendulo ethile. Ukube besinephupho nale ntombazane, bengizocubungula imibuzo enjalo: "Benzani abantu? Bangobani? Pofantaziruy, kungani ukhathalela kuphela ukusesha? Iziphi izimo empilweni yakho ebukeka kanjani? ".
Kodwa-ke, manje asikwazi ukuthola izimpendulo eziqondile zale mibuzo. Ngakho-ke, sibheka into enjalo njengamaphupho aphindaphindayo.
Abakwa-Ativide Reagers bakhumbula ukuthi iphupho lisethulo semisebenzi yethu engalungiswa nezingxabano ezenzeka ngokungazi. Ngakho-ke, singasho ngokuphephile ukuthi iphupho eliphindaphindwayo liyisikhumbuzo somsebenzi ongalungiswa.
Iphupho elinjalo kufanele lithathwe hhayi kuphela ngosizo lwengxenye enengqondo, njengoba senze ezigabeni zokuqala zendatshana, kodwa futhi sihlole ukuthi yiziphi izimo zokuphila ezihambisana naleli phupho.
Naka ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakho, ebudlelwaneni bakho nabathandekayo noma osebenza nabo, lapho kungazelelwe uqala ukubona amaphupho aphindwe kabili.
Mhlawumbe kuvela ukuthi i-cyclical ayigcini nje ngamaphupho, kodwa futhi nezimo abazihambelayo.
Isibonelo, omunye wabantu engijwayelene isikhathi eside waphupha ngemishini yezempi ehlukahlukene: amachweba amathangi, imikhumbi, izindiza zamasosha amancane amanoni. Ephusheni, wabuka la maparadesi asohlangothini, engabambeki kunoma yini, ngokuthanda nje ukubonwa. Ngemuva kokuhlola izehlakalo zangaphandle ngokuningiliziwe, kwafika esiphethweni sokuthi amaphupho aqhamuke ngokuphila kwakhe ngeqiniso lokuthi waphakamisa amandla nezikhali zokuxhumana nabantu abathandekayo. Ukuhlaselwa kakhulu, okunamandla, kunamandla, wadala umbono womuntu ongenakunqotshwa futhi ongafinyeleleki.
Iphupho eliphindaphindwayo lasiza ukumbusa ukuthi likugwema ukuxhumana nabantu bomdabu, becashele izembatho zakhe, futhi kufanele bafudumale futhi babebiza kakhulu.
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