Izazi zezengqondo ziyabhekana nezikhalo zabantu abaye baba izisulu ze-blackmail, futhi lokhu kukhanya akuhlali kususelwa ekuzuzeni okubonakalayo - Ochwepheshe abaningi basebenzisana nemiphumela ye-Blackmail ye-Psychology ukuze bakhe ubudlelwano Njengoba kuzoba lula. Sinqume ukuhlela izinhlobo zokukhohlisa kwengqondo ngemininingwane eminingi.
"Ngizokwehla uma ungenzi njengoba ngikubuza"
Ekuhleleni kokuqala, isimo esingembangele ngokuphelele. Kepha okokuqala. Imvamisa, abesifazane baphendulwa ekukhohlisweni kwenhlamba - amadoda kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi "bathatha i-hook", ngakho-ke basheshe baye ezimeni zozakwethu, yize le nhlelo isebenza ngakokhola. Vele, kunoma iyiphi inhlonipho kunezikhathi lapho icala lichazwa ngokuphelele, kepha yize kuphela kuze kube yilapho kuba yisikhathi sokuthola indlela oyifunayo. Njengomthetho, ngemuva kokuthi isisulu - isisulu siqonde ukuthi kuphethwe kanjani, ngokushesha kwephula ubudlelwane obunobuthi, ngakho-ke akudingekile ukucabanga ukuthi uzokwazi ukutakula ezinkingeni zecala eliqinile.
"Nginguye, kuyini, ngithathe"
Yebo, akunakwenzeka ukuguqula umuntu omdala, siyavuma ebuhlotsheni, samukela abalingani nazo zonke izinzuzo nezinzuzo zako, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umlingani eqala lapho umlingani wesibili eqala ukungaphatheki kahle ebudlelwaneni. Ngokuvamile lapho ungezwa kusuka engxenyeni yesibili: "Masithathena sinaso" futhi kungabonakala - ngobuhlakani - kodwa kungekudala nje lapho ucacisa umlingani nalokho ongakwaneli, uzokukhumbula masinyane le ngxoxo : "Sivumile, angenqabe ukuthi ngithathe?" Nakho konke okusemoyeni onjalo. Esimweni esinjalo, kunzima ukwenqaba okuthile okutholwe yi-manipulator.
Ukuthukwa - indlela yokuthola okufisayo
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"Ngizoba nawe, kepha kufanele /" ... "
Umthetho oyinhloko wobudlelwano obuvumelanayo - Umlingani akakwazi ukwenza izimo ukuthi izintshisekelo namalungelo engxenye yesibili angahlupheka. Ngaphandle kwalokho, i-manipulator ithola cishe amandla angenamkhawulo phezu komlingani - kusuka ekwaneliseni imicabango yocansi eyanelisayo lapho umlingani engekho khona amancane asekhaya, efa impilo yalo mbhangqwana.
Njengomthetho, ngakho-ke umlingani okhohlisayo uzama ukugxila ngenxa yomlingani obuthakathaka ngokomoya, futhi kulokhu kukhombisa isigaba esiphezulu esingakhishwa ngeqiniso. Qaphela.
Uma uqaphela ukuthi ukufakwa okunjalo kuyinto ejwayelekile kubabili bakho, akufanele ungazinaki, ngoba kungekudala ubudlelwane obunjalo uzokuthola kube lula ukuphuma. Akunakwenzeka ukubiza ubudlelwano obunjalo obunempilo, ngakho-ke zama ukubonisana nodokotela wezengqondo womndeni, kanye lapho ungazama khona ukuthola isixazululo senkinga futhi ufunde ukuthi ungakubonisa kanjani ukuhlaselwa kwe-Blackmail, uma ngabe yindlela ethile ethile ayikho ukulungele ukuphula lobu budlelwano.