I-Ajulter, ukuvukela komuntu umlingani - umcimbi ongathandeki kakhulu, kodwa kunalokho evamile, ikakhulukazi ezinsukwini zethu nasemphakathini, okungaphansi kwezindlela zokuziphatha zendabuko.
Kodwa hhayi kuphela ukuthi umphakathi uguquke, futhi isimo sethu sengqondo ngokuvukela umbuso siyashintsha: Manje akusikho kangako ubufakazi bokubi, hhayi ubugebengu, kepha inkomba yokuba khona kwezinkinga nge-pair.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu abaningi, eshintsha umlingani, bazisola ngokweqiniso lo mthetho futhi bafisa ukubuyisana, babuyisele ukuzethemba. Okokugcina kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ihlazo alibi kakhulu njengokuzethemba okulahlekile. Uma umlingani engakwethembi futhi, akaboni i-satellite ethembekile kuwe, lesi yisinyathelo sokuqala sokuya ekugcineni kobudlelwano.
Kungenzeka yini ukubuyisa ukuzethemba komlingani ngemuva kokuvukela umbuso?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi hhayi umlingani kuphela oguqukile okufanele acabange, "Ngingaqala kanjani ukwethembela futhi?", Okungukuthi, kufanelekile ukwenza umzamo omkhulu, ukubandakanyeka neqhinga lokuzama ukuletha ukwethenjwa kozakwethu. Vele, uma ubudlelwane bumelela inani nokuvukela umbuso - isiqephu.
Imvamisa, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziyexwayisa umbhangqwana oshayisana nokuvukela komuntu oyedwa noma bobabili abalingani, hlala phansi futhi ukhulume zonke izinkinga, thola izimbangela zesenzo esinjalo. Lokhu, yiqiniso, kuyadingeka kakhulu kanye nezeluleko ezifanele, kepha kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi kuphela abantu abacabanga kakhulu futhi babheke impilo, "nezinzwa zensimbi" bayakwazi ukuqala ngokushesha izinkinga ezifana nengculazi yengqondo efana nesemina yezengqondo . Iningi labantu liyasabela ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele: Okokuqala - ukuthuthumela, ukumangala, kanye nolaka, ukuziphindisela, ukungakunaki. Abanye bagijimela ngokuphuthumayo ukuze bazishintshe, ukuze bangalimazi. ", Abanye bakhala noma bashaya, abanye abanaki noma" bashiya umama. " Lokhu futhi ukusabela kwemvelo ngokuphelele. Kepha umbuzo uphakamisa: Ungaphila kanjani.
Isazi sezengqondo u-Alena al-ace
Futhi nakhu kungakuhle ukuhambisa igxathu negxathu, uma lo mbhangqwana usanquma ukungahlukani.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokubuyisela ukuzethemba - Ukuqashelwa kweqiniso lokuvukela umbuso kanye nokwenqatshwa komugqa ongalungile ngokuphelele ukukhombisa umlingani wesibili ukuthi unecala kulo mvuzo. Siyavuma, bagula abaningi ngayo, bavikela, bahlasele ukwedlula ukuvala izipikili esivalweni sobudlelwano. Ungasho ukuthi kunezinkinga ngempela, kepha awukwazi ukusola umlingani wesibili eqinisweni lokuthi kwakungukuziphatha kwakhe kwabangela ukuvukela umbuso. Umlando Womshado uzosiza, usinde ngempumelelo yilesi simo esibuhlungu.
Isigaba esilandelayo - Ukufaka umugqa wokuziphatha okunjalo ukuze umlingani aqale ukwethemba futhi. Kuyakwazi ukukhombisa ukunakwa okwengeziwe, khipha "ukubambezeleka emsebenzini", okwesikhashana - kanye nemihlangano nabangane noma nabangane, ngokuvamile - noma yiziphi izenzo ezikhombisa ukungaziphathi kahle ngokungaziphathi kahle.
Ngasikhathi sinye, akudingekile ukudinwa ukuhlazisa ukuhlazisa ngaphambi komlingani wesibili, cela intethelelo emadolweni nokunye okunjalo. Ngeke kusize ukubuyisela ukwethembana, kepha kunalokho izokukhombisa umuntu onokukhohlisa, umdwebi okwaziyo noma yimuphi shutwa wokuthinta, ukufeza nje lokho.
Isimo esihle sengqondo singalapha noma yimaphi amanxeba. Futhi ngakho-ke kufanele ukhohlwe ngezikhalazo mayelana nomlingani mayelana nemali encane noma ongazihlambi. Zama ukukhombisa ukunakwa okuphezulu, ukwethembeka okuphezulu, wenze izinto ezinhle kakhulu, kepha ukuze ungagcizelele umzamo we-banal ukukhokha: bathi, kuwe i-iPhone, bese uqeda ukukhuluma ngakho. Indlela enjalo isebenza kuphela uma ekuqaleni umlingani wakho ekuvumela ukuthi uvale amehlo akho ekuvukeni kokwenza ezinye izinzuzo - imali, ubulili obuhle, isimo senhlalo, njalonjalo.
Kubalulekile futhi ukukhombisa ukuthi umuntu obongelwe ngu-Tro'ason asho lutho, wabonakala kuphela kwasekuzini futhi waya noma kuphi. Ubufakazi obubaluleke kakhulu balokhu buzoba igebe eliphelele nalo muntu, futhi kufanele ubonise ukulungela futhi uyeke emsebenzini, futhi ushintshe nendawo yokuhlala uma imihlangano yakho yesibili ingabaza ukuthi imihlangano yakho iyababuza ukuthi imihlangano yenu iyababaza ukuthi imihlangano yakho iyababuza ukuthi imihlangano yayo imile.
Futhi okunye: Yebo, ukuvukela umbuso kungenzeka empilweni yabo bonke, futhi isinqumo sakho kuphela ukuthethelela noma ukunqamula umuntu empilweni yakho.
Uma esithombeni sakho somhlaba wezwe akumukeleki ngokuphelele, ubhekene nobuhlungu obungokomzwelo obuqinile futhi akusondelanga ukuze uthole indlela, noma ngabe unazo zibe yisikhathi, ungazivumeli wena. Ngoba kwesinye isikhathi kulula ukunqoba ngemuva kokuhlukana kunaso sonke isikhathi sokuphila ebuhlungwini ekukhasheni (uma ukuvunywa yi-TRUSAS YAKHO KUPHELA UKUTHENDULA).