Kaningi, thina ngokwethu siyimbangela yalezo zehlakalo ezingemnandi ezenzeka ezimpilweni zethu. Kodwa-ke, iningi liqinisekile ukuthi inkinga isemhlabeni wangaphandle. Futhi nokho noma yimuphi umuntu kudingeka aqale izinguquko kuye, futhi sizotshela ngezimiso eziyinhloko.
Thola lowo ozokugqoka ezandleni zakho
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Yenza ngokwezifiso okuhle futhi ungamelana nengcindezi
Abantu abajwayela kahle izimo kulula kakhulu ukuphila. Ake sithi uthole umsebenzi omusha. Vele, lokhu kuyingcindezi, noma kunjalo kufanele uzilungiselele empumelelweni futhi ungacabangi ukuthi ubhekene kangakanani nenqubo yokuzivumelanisa nezimo, ngokushesha nje uvumele imicabango elula, iqiniso lizoqala ukushintsha.
Isimo ngasinye esingesihle senzeka, kepha kuphela emandleni akho okusabela kubo: kufanele usethemba umphumela omuhle kakhulu.
Kuvelaphi okungalungile?
Ukuxhumana kwethu okubalulekile kwenzeka kwenzeka kubazali, ngokwemvelo, uma benobutha emhlabeni, ingane yabo izosola.
Ukuba mdala, ingane ithola okuhlangenwe nakho kontanga yabo bobabili ubulili, futhi laba xhumana nabo abubizwa ngokuthi banokuhle, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ebudlelwaneni bothando.
Ungawushintsha kanjani ukubukwa kwakho?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi impilo yethu imfushane kakhulu, futhi uma uyisebenzisa ngezingxabano ezingaqondakali kanye nentukuthelo kubantu abasebenza ngokhonkolo nasemhlabeni wonke, futhi awunaso isikhathi sokujabulela zonke izici zokuphila okukunika zona.
uhlele ukuphuma kusuka kumagajethi
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Silwa ne-negative
Cishe inkinga evame kakhulu ezakhamuni eziningi zamadolobha amakhulu - okungapheli okungapheli kanye nengcindezi, ezizalwa ngenxa yohlanga olungapheli lwemiphumela emihle kakhulu.
Qala okuthile ukuze ushintshe empilweni yakho. Umsebenzi udinga imizamo yakho enikezwa kanzima kuwe? Shintsha umsebenzi esikhundleni sokukhononda futhi ungaphansi kokucindezelwa komphakathi okuqhubekayo. Ngabe umyeni wakho akakuhloniphi? Thola omunye umuntu ozokugqoka ezingalweni zakho, futhi ungakubekezeleli ukuthotshiswa njalo. Imvamisa siba izitha ngokwazo lapho singafuni ukuthatha noma yiziphi izici ezingasiholela ekushintsheni okuhle.
Yehlisa ingqondo
Abaningi bajwayele ukuphelelwa amandla nokugcwala ngokweqile, okukhulisa kakhulu impilo yethu ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Vele ume futhi uthathe umoya ojulile. Lapho nje uqonda ukuthi ubuchopho bugcwele kakhulu futhi usesimweni esinjalo isikhathi eside, thatha ikhefu. Thatha iholide lakho bese uya emvelweni ngaphandle kwamagajethi nezindlela zokuxhumana okungenani izinsuku ezimbalwa. Lapho, ungazibuka, uqonde izifiso zakho futhi unikeze ukuphumula ingqondo yakho. Hlela ukukhishwa kosuku okungenani amahlandla ambalwa ngesigamu ngonyaka.
yenza okufunwa njalo
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Ukukhishwa kwecala
Akusho nhlobo ukuthi kudingekile ukuba inciphe ekuziphatheni kokonile. Hhayi. Khipha bonke oxhumana nabo nalo muntu futhi ungavumeli imicabango engemnandi ehambisana nesimo esingesihle kusukela esedlule. Ngenkathi ugcina ubuhlanya bakho, ibhalansi yakho yengqondo ngeke ithole ukuthula. Khipha isimo, shintshela kokuthile okuhle.
Zitholele izinto zokuzilibazisa
Cabanga ukuthi yini oyithandayo. Lapho siba mdala, siya ngokuya sigxile kulezo zinto, empeleni, singasilethelenga lutho: siyaxhumana nabantu abangasithandi, ngoba udinga ukusebenza emsebenzini ongashintshi, ngoba abazali noma umyeni kulokhu kugcizelela , sihlangana nalabo abalingani abavumela imvelo nokunye. Lahla konke ukubandlulula. Uhlale ephupha ukudweba? Bhalisela izifundo zokupenda. Uphuphe ukuze uDance? Ekukhetheni kwakho izinkulungwane zama-studio. Futhi unganaki labo abagxeka ama-hobbies akho: Ukwaneliseka kwangaphakathi kuwukuphumelela okuphezulu kakhulu komuntu.