Akuyona imfihlo yokuthi le ndoda ikhetha umfazi amthandayo ngaphandle. Ngemuva kwalokho, uqala kancane kancane abone umlingiswa wakhe, izintshisekelo zakhe, imikhuba, futhi ekugcineni zithandana. Nabesifazane, konke kuyinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Cishe yonke intombazane inohlu lwezimfanelo zowesilisa azosesha endaweni enokwenzeka. Iziphi izimfanelo zabesifazane abazibheka kaningi? Ake sizame ukuthola.
Owesifazane udinga ukunakekelwa
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Ukunakwa nokunakekelwa
Mhlawumbe, kwasekuqaleni kowesifazane ngamunye umi amandla okuqonda nokunakekela. Umuntu olungiselelwe ukufunwa kowesifazane othandekayo, ayeke athenge ikhofi lakhe esimweni sezulu esinemvula, avusa inhliziyo cishe kunoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane. Kodwa-ke, amadoda amaningi kakhulu alethwa ngezimo eziqinile zokwanele, lapho amukelwa khona ukuveza imizwa, ngakho-ke amadoda anjalo akholelwa ukuthi owesifazane wangempela ngakho-ke kufanele asebenze empilweni yawo, kepha akusebenzi empilweni yangempela. Owesifazane uzonikeza umuntu othanda ukuhlinzeka induduzo yengqondo futhi angatholi igebe lokubonisa imizwa njalo.
Uyahlekisa
Noma ngubani kunzima ukusinda emphakathini wethu onzima ngaphandle komuzwa wokuhlekisa, kodwa uma kukhulunywa ngesosi sowesifazane kowesifazane, okugcina, njengomthetho, anikeze amadoda ahlekisa futhi adonsela isimo sawo sengqondo esihle. Uma kukhona ukukhetha, i-HICT HURD HORTOM ihlose ukunqoba owesifazane kune-beech eyisidina.
Ukuququlela
Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi abesifazane baheha imali engenayo kuphela kanye nesikhundla emphakathini. Kuyiqiniso, kukhona nabamele abanjalo, nowesifazane ojwayelekile, isifiso somuntu sokufeza izinhloso sibaluleke kakhulu: ukwakha ukuzethemba nokuphakama kokuma cishe endaweni yokuqala, ngakho-ke kowesifazane le mfanelo inganquma. Kodwa-ke, umuntu akufanele adideke nge-onyquacy ngokukhuthazela okwanele kunalokho okuvame ukuthulisa abafana abazethembayo kakhulu.
Yenza izincomo ngaphandle kwesizathu
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Ukubonakala
Akuwona kuphela amadoda abheka izinwele ezinhle nezinwele ezinhle, ukuze kube nengxenye enhle yokubonakala umlingani ongaba khona udlala indima ebalulekile. Noma kunjalo, kukhona ukungafani okuncane: Owesifazane akadingi ukugqokwa nenaliti, ngokucophelela ngokucophelela futhi wazigcina esesimweni, kanti amadoda anqunywa ngamantombazane amangalisayo angaziqhayisa ngaphambi kwabangane.
Ungavumeli "ukubanda" ebudlelwaneni
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Ubuhlakani
Ukuba nomusa ngokomzwelo, intombazane ifuna impendulo efanayo evela kumlingani. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza izincomo ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi embhedeni ungapheli amandla. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuvikela "ukubanda" ebudlelwaneni. Ngakho-ke ungazinaki izinsuku zothando nobusuku obukhanyayo - umfazi ngeke akuyeke uhambe noma kuphi.