Vele, ukuzithuthukisa kuhlale kusiza ukufeza imiphumela olwela kuyo, futhi noma ngabe ukhula nzima kangakanani. Kodwa-ke, umjaho wempumelelo kwesinye isikhathi ungaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu kwi-psyche yethu - kwabanye abantu ukuchitha ihora lonke, ubheke ividiyo ekhanyayo ngoba uyayithanda, kepha angenzi nzuzo yakho Ukuthuthuka komuntu - nje akumukeleki futhi akunangqondo ngokulangasha isikhathi esivuthayo. Indoda isekelwa ngokoqobo ukufuna okuthile. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi kungani kwesinye isikhathi silwela ukuthuthukisa, kodwa kungcono ukungabi yikho.
Wonke umuntu uyakhuluma ngakho
Siphila emhlabeni wokuncintisana unomphela, ikakhulukazi le ndlela ijwayelene nabantu abahlala emadolobheni amakhulu. Sihlala sisikhumbuza ukuthi ngisho nehora elengeziwe esilisebenzisa embhedeni ukuze sijabule, lingacishe lisilahle emuva eKarrunovnik, "ngenkathi ulele, kungenzeka uphumelele kakhudlwana" - Cishe uzwe le nkulumo engaphezu kwesisodwa. Yima ucabange, isifiso sempumelelo isifiso sakho noma awufuni nje ukuthola ukungamukeleki nabangane kanye nozakwabo?
Impumelelo ibalulekile kuwe noma endaweni ezungezile?
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Sifuna ukuba ngcono kukho konke
Futhi kunengozi yokulahlekelwa ukubona lelo cala, elihlukanisa ukuphelela okuphelele esifisweni esibuhlungu sokuba ngcono. Ngokwezengqondo ngokulinganisela kwezengqondo, cishe uhhafu wamakhasimende abo asebenza ezinkampanini ezinkulu, ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa ethola isikhundla, zonke izifiso ezibukhali - zonke izifiso ezingezinhle, kepha kwesinye isikhathi ezingenakwenzeka, kodwa abaqeqeshi bebhizinisi baphikelela ku- okuphambene, okuholela ekukhathazekeni okungokomzwelo umuntu okhipha izintambo, kepha akatholanga mphumela, ngaphandle kwemiphumela emibi kwi-psyche yakhe.
Kudingeka sazi esikuthandayo
Ukuphila emphakathini, kunzima ukungazinaki izifiso zakhe. Ngamunye wethu uyakwazi noma cha, esigabeni sokuqonda ubuhlakani kufuna ukuthola imvume yabantu abagunyaziwe ezindaweni ezithile. Futhi njengoba sazi, yimali kuphela ethanda wonke umuntu. Uma ungayeki ukulwela ukuthola ukuvunywa unomphela, ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa yesimo esishubile, uzowela esihlalweni sesiguli ehhovisi lesazi sezengqondo.
Silwela ukubonakala siphumelele futhi asifuni ukulinda
Ngokuvamile, imibono yethu ngaye ngokwayo ayihambelani namaqiniso, futhi lokhu kungaholela ekubambeni okukhulu. Lapho singakutholi ukusabela esilindele ukwenza noma yini, isifiso sokwenza okuthile okulandelayo kungathenjiswa isikhathi eside kakhulu, yile nkinga okuvame ukuba yinto eyinhloko, lapho umuntu efuna ukuphumelela ehlelweni lakhe, Kepha umphumela wokuphila ngokudumaza. Umuntu uyama futhi uyayeka ukwenza okuthile, kube sengathi akasondelene nempumelelo. Akufanele ulinde ukuthi abantu babone masinyane imizamo yakho - khombisa ukubekezelelana okwengeziwe futhi uzobona umphumela.