E-United States, ngokwemiphumela yocwaningo lweWilliams Institute, cishe ngo-4,5% wabantu phakathi nocwaningo lomphakathi batshelwa ukuthi umphakathi we-LGBT ungowamphakathi we-LGBT. Kudala kudala wabona kudala - uthando lwezocansi olujwayelekile futhi wavumela imibhangqwana enjalo ukuba ishade, yamukele izingane futhi iphile kanye nabanye abantu. Sichaza ukuthi kungani kubalulekile ukwamukela umuntu nabanye ngokukhamuluka kwakho nokuthi ungakwenza kanjani.
E-US nakwamanye amazwe kuyinto evamile
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Ukuqondiswa okungajwayelekile - hhayi ububi
Awudingi ukubona ukunxanelwa kwengane kubantu bobulili babo njengesifo noma umphumela wemfundo engeyinhle. Lesi yisici sakhe nje, okufanayo okufana nama-freckles ekhaleni noma umbala othile wamehlo. Iqiniso kuphela elibekwe ngathi, hhayi ama-Omnipote omndeni, izinga lemfundo, imvelo, njll. Kepha ukungabekezeleli emphakathini we-LGBT kuphela kuwumkhakha wezenhlalo, okungalungile esicini esikhulu: akekho olungile ukwahlulela labo ababazungezile ukuze bathande izintandokazi zabo.
Siza ingane ukuba ivule
Njengoba esekhulile emphakathini wezinzalamizi nomqondo owutholayo wokulethwa komndeni, umuntu onokuqonda okungajwayelekile ngaso sonke isikhathi kuhlale kunzima ukukhuluma iqiniso. Esondele kakhulu oyazisa futhi athanda kakhulu. Ukube ubusondele enganeni ngaphambili, akunzima ukuqonda ukuthambekela kwakhe futhi ukhulume ngobumnene ngakho, echaza ukuthi bayamthanda noma ngubani futhi akanalutho olunamahloni. Awudingi ukusikisela ukuthi uzobe ungathandeki eqinisweni futhi ungathanda 'ukwelapha'. Vele uqonde ukuthi ingane yakho ukuqhubeka kwakho, kepha hhayi wena. Mnike ithuba lokuphila impilo ejabulayo ezizimele.
Uthando luhle kunoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa
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Ungahambi
Yebo, cishe uzoba nzima ukuthatha leliqiniso, ikakhulukazi uma ungatholanga izici ezinjalo ngaphambili. Kodwa-ke, qiniseka ukuthi uzigcina usezandleni zakho futhi ungavumeli intando enemizwa, elandelwa ngokuzisola ngokuzalwa kwengane noma usongo lokumyisa kudokotela. Chaza ukuthi akulula manje, kepha uzozama ukubhekana nezinzwa futhi uzisebenzele. Makangitshele ukuthi waqaphela kanjani ukuqwashisa ngezimpawu zakhe nokuthi wayenolwazi lobudlelwano nabantu bobulili bakhe.
Qikelela abanye
Noma ngabe kwaba lula ngawe ngemuva kokukhuluma, ungaphuthumi ukukhuluma ngakho nxazonke. Ezweni lethu, ngeshwa, hhayi imfundo eyanele kule ndawo. Abantu abaningi bahlelwe kabi emphakathini we-LGBT futhi abafuni ukubona abamele bakhe eduze kwabo, ngaphandle kokuba nezizathu ezizwakalayo ngalokhu. "Susa inhlabathi" ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngokuthanda kwengane kubafowabo nabangane bakho. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abanye bazungeza futhi kuphela labo abathanda ingane ngokweqiniso bayohlala beseduze futhi bayakwazi ukuxhumana naye - kufanele kube.