Ngokusho kwezibalo, ngaphezu kwengxenye yamadoda athanda ubulili obungazelelwe, ikakhulukazi amadoda ashadile, ubulili buqala kancane kancane waba inqubo eyisibopho, okumele yenzeke kumbhangqwana oshadile. Kungakho ukusondela okuzenzakalelayo kuyindlela enhle yokunyakazisa ubudlelwano. Sizosho ngemithetho eyisisekelo ezokusiza ekwenzeni ukusondela kokuhle nokuphephile.
Ahlole kahle umkhathi
Kwenzeka futhi ukuthi isifiso esingenzi ezindaweni ezifanele kakhulu kulokhu, ngokwesibonelo, azikho izinhlaka ezihlala isikhathi eside noma unquma ukuthi "ukuhlanganisa" ezinambuzane ezifana nesihlabathi, lapho kuzokwenza khona izinambuzane ukusondela kwakho ukukhumbula kepha kungathandeki kahle. Thatha umeluleki kwinduduzo yakho nenduduzo yomlingani wakho.
Ukuthenga Lubrikant
Enye yezinkinga eziphambili zocansi olusheshayo ngumkhawulo wesikhathi emikhawulweni yokuqala: Abesifazane abaningi abakwazi ukuvusa ngokushesha ukuvusa ngokushesha, okusho ukuthi ubulili obungazelelwe buzoba ukuhlukunyezwa kwangempela ngaphandle kokuphela kowesifazane ojabulayo. Kuyafaneleka ukucubungula lo mzuzu, futhi nganoma yikuphi "izinsolo" zokuxhumana okusondelene ngosuku oluthile lwe-lubricant, ukunakekela okuthengwayo kwe-lubricant ephezulu, okungcono noma ukungacabangi ukuthi uzoshiya amathrekhi ezingutsheni.
Gcina Ukulawula Isimo
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Thwala nami ngibulala amagciwane
Uma kwenzeka ungumuntu onolwazi ngocansi olungazelelwe, kungenzeka ukuthi uqonde ukuthi ucansi ngezimo ezingelula lusho ukwabiwa okungahlala ezingutsheni, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuwasusa ngesikhathi. Ngalezi zinhloso, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka ama-wet napkins noma ijeli lokuhlanza esikhwameni. Kubalulekile futhi ukukhumbula ama-antiseptics, angahlala ewusizo uma uthatha isinqumo sokuya ocansini ngezimo ezingajwayelekile.
Akukho ukwephulwa
Zilungiselele Ukukhetha Indawo Yomphakathi Yocansi, ungabanjwa futhi ukhishwe "nge-hooliganism encane", lokhu usebenza ngokuyinhloko ngemithetho yaseRussia, kepha uma uhlela ukuzama ukuvakasha kwelinye izwe, qiniseka ukutadisha imithetho , kusukela kwamanye amazwe, ubulili ezindaweni zomphakathi bungatholwa isikhathi sangempela. Asicabangi ukuthi imizuzu embalwa yezobumnandi kubiza amacala, futhi kude nasekhaya.
Gwema utshwala
Njengoba sonke sazi, ukusetshenziswa kotshwala ngokweqile akuvuli hhayi amaqembu ethu amahle kakhulu. Okokuqala, ungalahlekelwa yikho konke ukulawula, okudingakalayo nje esimweni lapho unquma khona ukuthi uphinde unqume ngocansi olungazelelwe, okwesibili, ungahambisa umlingani umuzwa ongathandeki ngesizathu esifanayo - ukulawulwa kokulawulwa. Uma ungakwazi ukumelana, phuza ngemuva kocansi, kepha hhayi ngaphambili hhayi ngesikhathi. Zinakekele.