Kusukela azalwa enganeni, abantu ababili abaseduze kakhulu abazali bakhe. Indlu iba inqaba yengane, lapho angazizwa ekhululekile futhi ecashe ngokuzolile emhlabeni wangaphandle. Uma kunesimo esishubile ngaphakathi komndeni, umuntu omncane ovela ekuvaleni kwezingane kusenesikhathi. Sichaza ukuthi kungani kubalulekile ukufunda ukuxazulula izimo zezingxabano ngendlela enengqondo.
I-Creek - I-Psyche blocker
Ingqondo yethu kanye nohlelo lwezinzwa lwezinzwa basabela kabi ngomsindo omkhulu, bazihlose ngengozi emzimbeni. Ngalesi sizathu, wonke amagama avezwe yithoni ekhuphukayo endiza edlula ezindlebeni. Ingane ibona kuphela ulaka oluvezwe ezshoselweni kanye nobuso, kepha akunakuqonda ukuthi kubangelwa yini. Uma abazali behlala bephendukela ekuziphatheni okunjalo esimweni sokungqubuzana, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubuchopho bukha ukuxhumana okusha kwe-neural - ukusabela okwethusayo kunoma yimuphi umsindo omkhulu nokuvimba umbono walo msindo. Kungaba yingozi uma ingane inge ngengozi ibe sezimweni eziphuthumayo lapho udinga ukusabela ngokushesha.
Abazali abavela emthonjeni wokuzalwa abazoba yingane yabo
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Kwenqatshelwe kwenqatshelwe
Akunakusho ukuthi ungazishayi izingane futhi ungalaleli abantu abazibekayo. Ngakho-ke uzosusa imizwa yakho engemihle, kepha isikhathi eside uzozisola ngenziwe. Thatha isibonelo esivela e-Europe - lapho ingane nakanjani izothathwa emndenini uma izinyathelo zethonya lomzimba zisetshenziswa kulo. Ngiseyingane, noma yimiphi imizwa ikhunjulwa ikakhulukazi - ungamangali uma sekudlule iminyaka eyi-10- 15, ingane ikhumbula ukushaywa kwakho, oyoba namahloni. Ngemuva kwanoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana, funda okungenani imizuzu emi-5 ukusuka enganeni: Khipha umusi nokubukeza ngokweqiniso lesi simo. Ngeke akuvumele wenze amaphutha ayiziwula.
Ukuzethemba kubo bonke
Isikhali esikhulu semfundo singumqondo obandayo. Funda izincwadi zezazi zezengqondo ukukhulisa izingane, zibone ingane njengomuntu olinganayo kuwe, ziqoke izimpikiswano zakho futhi zivumele ingane ithuba ukuba likhulume. Yebo, isixazululo esinjalo senkinga sithatha isikhathi esithe xaxa kunokubeka ingane e-angle noma ukuncipha okumnandi namakhathuni, kepha kunikeza umphumela ophumelelayo kokuqonda kwengane. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzokuqonda izinkambiso zokuziphatha futhi aqale ukulawula imizwa nezenzo ngokuzimela. Umsebenzi oyinhloko wakho njengomzali ukuyisekela kulokhu futhi unikeze ukuqonda ukuthi uyamthanda futhi uyahlonipha.
Ingane kumele ifunde ukuzithiba
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Ukuqeqeshwa - isibambiso se-psyche eyanele
Funda izincwadi ezinjengokuthi "CarkArms eziyingozi" ezidumile futhi uhlakaze izimo kanye nezingane, unikeze ingane ukuba ayichazele ukuthi iqhawe lomsebenzi alilungile yini. Naka futhi nokuziphatha kwezinye izingane kanye nabantu abadala ababheke ezinganeni. Kubalulekile ukukwenza ngendlela yokungathathi hlangothi, ngaphandle kokuthambekela ingane esitsheni maqondana nawe noma ukuziqhenya. Kumele aqonde ukuthi uma engakhaleli ngemuva kokuxabana nomngane wakho enkulisa, futhi bezama ukuxazulula ukungezwani, kepha akwenzi lokho okujwayelekile komphakathi ophucukile.
Phatha ingane yakho njengoba ingathanda ukukukhulisa ebuntwaneni. Ngaphambi kokuthi wenze okuthile, cabanga ngokuthi ungathinta kanjani impilo yesikhathi esizayo yengane. Alikho igama elibi, ukukhala noma ukudlula kwezandla ngaphandle kwe-trace. Ukuqonda lokhu, uphakamisela ukuzethemba nabantu abazungezile, hhayi i-neurotic.