Buyini ubuhlobo obunzima emndenini? Yini ababoniswa ngayo?
Ubudlelwano obunzima emndenini buphakama lapho izinhloso zokuba abalingani bakho ngokuzihlalisana noma ngokungazi ngokuhlala ndawonye, baqala ukungahambisani nabo kuqala, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bobabili abalingani bengasebenzi NJALO NOKUPHAKATHI NABANYE BABO BASEBENZISI ASISEKELWA UKULUNGA NOKUFUNDA IZINHLOBO ZAKHO KWAMAHHALA ZOMUNYE. Isibonelo, unkosikazi kudala wafuna ingane futhi akasasekulungele ukulinda kuze kube yilapho umyeni ethola imali efulethini, yize efuna ukuba nengane, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Akasasandile kuze kube yilapho umyeni efinyelela emgomweni, futhi ngokwakhe unquma ukubeletha ingane. Noma esinye isibonelo, unkosikazi kudala wayefuna abazali bakhe bathuthele bayohlala ekhaya labo elivamile nomyeni wakhe, futhi umyeni wakhe akakufiki ngalokhu, yize kungakhulumi ngqo ngakho.
UMikhail Burniesh
Izinsizakalo Zokushicilela Izinsiza
Yiziphi izinto eziseRussia zanamuhla zivame ukubangela ubunzima obunjani ubudlelwane bomndeni?
Izici ikakhulukazi zifana nangaphambilini. Abantu bafana nabantu, kuphela bababachitha umbuzo efulethini - umbuzo wokuntuleka kwesikhala semindeni yomndeni, okuhlala njalo kwezinkinga zomndeni, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ezinganeni. Ezinye izinto ezijwayelekile uthando onxantathu kanye nama-polygons futhi, kunjalo, ubudlelwano babalingani nabazali babo.
Inkinga yomndeni - Ukuphelelwa yithemba nokuphela okusondele noma kukhona ithemba lokusindiswa "kweseli lomphakathi"?
Inkinga yomndeni akuyona isikhathi sokulingwa kuphela, kepha futhi nethuba elikhulu lokushintsha kube ngcono. Iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20, ngempelasonto eyodwa ngenyanga ngihola "inhlekelele yothando", lapho sindawonye namakhasimende ami efuna izindlela ezinhlobonhlobo zezinkinga ezahlukahlukene zomndeni. Ngalesi sikhathi, amakhasimende angaphezu kuka-5 000 awazange abhekane nezinkinga zemindeni yawo, kodwa futhi athola nemisindo emisha yobudlelwano bomndeni, abangazange baphuphe ngisho. Kepha indida ilele eqinisweni lokuthi ezingeni elisha lobudlelwano kunezinkinga ezihluke ngokuphelele, kepha zixazululwa.
Ingabe kulula ukuthola ubuhlobo obuvumelanayo emndenini? Kudingeka yini lokho?
Ubudlelwano bomndeni obuvumelanayo buwumsebenzi wansuku zonke kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni: Abalingani, abalingani, abazali. Okokuqala, kunoma yisiphi isimo senhlekelele, udinga ukukhuluma ngenhlekelele, futhi uma uthule, konke kukhuliswe kwande. Kuliqiniso, izinsizakusebenza ziyadingeka ukuxazulula le nkinga, futhi uma kungenjalo, khona-ke kufanele uzibheke. Uma kukhona ukukhiya (inkinga), khona-ke inqaba ihlala inesihluthulelo (isixazululo). Njengoba kungekho okhiye ngaphandle kwezinkinobho, akukho nkinga ngaphandle kwezixazululo.
Ngabe ukuqeqeshwa kusiza, imidlalo ekusebenzeni "nabalingani bezinkinga"? Yiziphi izindlela ezibonisa ukusebenza kahle okukhulu?
Izitimela zikhombisa ukusebenza kwazo okuncane ekusebenzeni nezinkinga zalombhangqwana. Uma abashadikazi besebenza ngokwehlukana, lokhu, kunalokho, kuholela ekutheni kwahluke kakhulu kule nhlekelele, futhi kuvame ukuqhekeka kobudlelwano. Uma umuntu oshade naye esebenza ngesisombululo, kanti omunye akayona, khona-ke kwandisa isimo kuphela. Lesi sinqumo siholela ekwelashweni kokubhangqa, lapho bobabili abashadikazi (umlingani) beza ekwelashweni, bekhuluma ngokweqiniso imizwa yabo, imizwa, izinhloso, imikhawulo, ndawonye bebheka izinsiza, zisekelana. Izindlela ezisheshayo nezisebenzayo zokulashwa okuhlelekile kwamabili, amalungiselelo agxile kumakhasimende, ukwelashwa ngokocansi okuhleliwe.
Kungani kungenzeka ukuthi kuwohloka ubudlelwano emndenini kungcono ukuxhumana nodokotela wezengqondo? Yini ongayifisa emindenini lapho "kungenjalo konke kuhamba kahle"?
Uma kwenzeka inhlekelele emndenini, ukuxhumana okujwayelekile kuvame ukwephulwa futhi kuvame ukuphinda ngokungazi uhlobo oluthile lwesimo esingesihle esidlule nokungaphakathi kwalesi simo cishe akunakwenzeka ukukubona futhi kuphuma khona, nodokotela wezengqondo obonayo Ubudlelwano nge-pair kusuka ohlangothini futhi lugcina ukungathathi hlangothi ngokushesha babona umnyombo wenkinga. Kukhona isisho esaziwayo: "Esweni lomunye umuntu, ngabona uhlobo, futhi ku-log yami ayiboni." Ukuba senkingani asiboni lona log, okubonakala kahle kuchwepheshe onolwazi. Futhi imindeni esenhlekelele ingafisa ukuqala ukulalelana, iqale kusuka emizuzwini engama-20 ngosuku. Imizuzu yokuqala eyi-10 ithi umlingani oyedwa, kanti omunye ulalela yena kuphela, khona-ke okuphambene. Ngikufisela inhlanhla!