Abantu abaningi bakhala ngokuthi kunzima ukuhlukanisa imicabango nezinkolelo zabo kwabanye. Azenzi ngisho nalokhu, sibiza amagama amakhulu eziqubulo, umsuka lapho ukwazi kwethu kungaba nemvelo ehlukile.
Isibonelo, "imali enkulu ihlala ingeye ukweba", "uthando lweqiniso lungukuphela komuntu", "ubungani phakathi komuntu nowesifazane akwenzeki" - imvamisa alikasekelwanga ngokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu. Lokhu kutshele umama noma ugogo.
"Amadoda aqamba amanga", "izingane azikwazi ukubamba eziningi ezandleni zazo, bese siyahlukana," kuhileleke lokho, "kuhileleke.
Sivame ukuqondisa lezi zinkolelo, futhi siyasisiza. Kepha ngemuva kwakho konke, amacala ajwayelekile kakhulu lapho sifuna ukwenza okuthile noma sisho, kepha bayasaba ukulahlwa kwabathandekayo nabangane. Cabanga ukuthi impilo yakho ibingabukeka kanjani ukube awubhekwanga iqiniso lokuthi abanye bangase bacabange ngawe okubi?
Futhi lokhu kungumbala we-polbie kuphela! Kufanele ngizwe njalo ukuthi abantu abazi ukuthi bafunani, ngoba abakwazi ukuhlukanisa izifiso nezidingo zabo kwabanye. Abesifazane bahlala ezinganeni zabo, abayeni babo. Abesilisa benza konke kubafazi, baphonsa imisebenzi yabo. Ungaba kanjani-ke?
Iphupho le-heroine yethu liyisibonelo esihle kakhulu somsebenzi wokuqokwa kokungafani kwezifiso nezinkolelo zakhe nezinye. Akadingi ukuhumusha. Vele uwathande ukuthi umsebenzi wokwelapha futhi omuhle esingenza kanjani ephusheni, thina singabaphatha ngokucophelela kangakanani nezinhloso zethu.
Ngakho-ke, ukulala: "Ephusheni, ngihola inkhulumomphendvulwano nami. Ngithi: "Baningi kakhulu, nginemicabango eminingi, imibono, amacebo. Yini eyami, akunjalo? Ungahlukanisa kanjani? " Futhi ngiyaziphendula: "Konke kulula! Ake sichaze imicabango ngemibala ehlukene: obomvu - abangabazi, nohlaza okwesibhakabhaka - okwami. Ngizungeze umoya, ngibona imicabango yami ngimbone ngaye. Bese uqala ukudweba. Okubomvu - Abafokazi, Blue - Okwami. Futhi kuvela ukuthi kunemicabango ebomvu engahleliwe ehambelana nami, kepha luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kwakhiwe endaweni yeleli noma endleleni. Futhi ngiqala ukuhamba ngalo. Ngalokhu ngiyavuka. "
Hhayi-ke, uthini? Isingathekiso esimangalisayo samaphupho ethu. Umfokazi, obonakalayo, ohlukunyezwayo ulahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwawo eduze kwemisebenzi nasezinhlelweni zawo. Futhi-ke yimi ukuthi eminye imicabango yabanye abantu bangempela. Ngempilo yabo, bangaphandle.
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UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin