Umbuzo wokuthi ungakwenza kanjani konke, abantu abakhathazekile isikhathi eside. Futhi hhayi kuphela omama, hhayi ngo-2020 kuphela. Kepha nokho, njalo ngonyaka kuya ngokuya kusebenza kakhulu komama abasebasha, manje okuvame ukunikela kuphela kukho konke ukuphila kwabo enganeni futhi bahlale ekhaya, kodwa futhi basebenze futhi benze noma yikuphi ukukhula kobunikazi babo. Ngakho-ke, ubukhali, le nkinga "Thinta konke" okusondela, kulapho kuxoxwa khona, kuvela imibono eyehlukene. Kepha ngizokwabelana nawe ngempela lezo zinto ezingisiza ukuthi ngikwazile ukwenza konke okuhleliwe. Nginomndeni, umyeni nezingane ezimbili. Nginomsebenzi, i-Intagram yami, edinga ukunakwa okuphezulu. Kanye neminye imisebenzi eminingi okufanele ihlanganiswe nakho konke lokhu.
Uhlelo
Qiniseka ukuthi wenza uhlelo losuku. Kungaba noma iyiphi ifomethi elula kuwe, idayari namanothi noma yiziphi izinhlelo zokusebenza ocingweni. Ekupheleni kwesonto, yenza isonto ngesonto yonke imicimbi ehleliwe ezobuyiselwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho inqubo yokuvela kwamanye amacala, qala ukulekelela uhlelo. Kepha kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kuyadingeka ukupenda kuphela ukusebenza nokuhlangana, futhi nesikhathi sokudla, ukondla ingane, ukuphumula, ukuhamba nengane nokunye. Kufanele unikeze konke ngokuningiliziwe nangehora. Kuphela lapho konke kubhaliwe, izindaba zakho ngeke zihambise noma kuphi futhi ngeke zindize lutho.
Kuyadingeka ukupenda kuphela umsebenzi nemihlangano, futhi nesikhathi sokudla, ukondla ingane, ukuphumula, ukuhamba nengane
Isheduli yenyanga
Ngendlela efanele, ngaphandle kwesheduli yansuku zonke, ulenga nekhalenda inyanga inyanga, lapho kumiswa khona eminye imicimbi namaholide omhlaba. Kungcono ukuthi walenga ndawo ndawo endaweni evelele, futhi akudingeki ukuba ube yikhalenda lokubhala elingenakuqhathaniswa. Manje kunomklami omningi ohlukile namakhalenda odonga onke onke azokwengeza ikhaya lakho kuphela. Ngakho-ke, phawula uhambo olukhulu, izinsuku zokuzalwa zabangani nemihlangano yomndeni. Mhlawumbe unazo izinto nengane, kodwa ngenyanga ezayo kuphela, umaka lapho. Ukuze ukwazi ukugxila ezenzakalweni ezibalulekile zomhlaba jikelele empilweni. Futhi wakhe amasu asuselwa kubo.
Ungenqabe Usizo
Imvamisa umama, efuna ukuchitha sonke isikhathi samahhala nengane, wenqabe noma yiluphi usizo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi awusiwo umfazi, futhi uma ngesikhathi sesimemezelo futhi uyasebenza, uyakhula njalonjalo, khona-ke akufanele ugweme imisho yosizo kubathandekayo. Uma abazali bakho befuna ukuthatha ingane ngempelasonto, bayeke bathathe. Ungazinikezela kulokhu futhi uphumule, noma uhlele usuku lothando nomyeni wami, izinketho eziningi. Uma uNkulunkulu wakhe enikela ukuhamba naye ukuze athulule kancane, kepha akufanele uthi "Cha." Ngenxa yamahora ambalwa ngaphandle kwakho ngesonto, ngeke akhohlwe ukuthi ngubani umama wakhe.
Ohlelweni lwakho kanye nezinhlelo udinga ukubeka izinto eziza kuqala
Setha Izinto Eziza Kuqala
Kuhlelo lwakho nezinhlelo zakho udinga ukubeka izinto eziza kuqala. Konke kulomhlaba ngeke kusebenze, noma ngabe muhle kanjani ukuphathwa kwesikhathi okungewona owakhe. Cabanga ukuthi yini manje ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe, futhi yini engahamba isikhashana. Okokuqala, ungumama, futhi lokhu kuqala kuwe, khona-ke uhlukanisa ucezu olukhulu lwesikhathi sakho. Okwesibili, wena, ngokwesibonelo, i-blogger, futhi ngaphandle kokunaka kwakho kubhulogi, izilaleli zizovele zihambe. Futhi lokhu ukulahleka kwebhulogi, kanye nokulahleka komsebenzi. Ngokuvumelana nalokho, unika iningi lesikhathi esisele. Okwesithathu, ngokwesibonelo, kudala wafuna ukuya emalungelweni. Kepha manje awunayo imoto, ucwaningo luthatha isikhathi esiningi. Ngakho-ke kungahlehliselwa unyaka noma emibili, kuzobuyela kulokhu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngoba manje elinye ibhizinisi libaluleke kakhulu.
zama ukusondela kukho konke njengoba unembeza, funda ukuzizwa futhi uzithande kuqala
Zizwe
Uma uqonda ukuthi ukhathele - phumula. Uma uqonda, "kukhona okungalungile", yeka ucabange ngakho konke. Sivame ukugijima, sithwebula inkulungwane kanye nomsebenzi owodwa empilweni yakho, ngoba "ngakho-ke adinga." Okwani? Uma ungathandi okuthile, wenqabe noma ushintshe. Ngaphandle kokuphumula futhi ngokungajabuli ngeke ufeze imiphumela emihle hhayi kwenye yemikhakha: hhayi kubaba ngumama, noma emsebenzini noma empilweni yomuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke, zama ukusondela kukho konke njengoba unembeza, funda ukuzizwa futhi uzithande ngokwezifiso.