Kukangaki sikhuluma nabanye empilweni esingafuni ukubamba iqhaza entweni ethile? Kwenzeka ukuthi ithule ngombono wakho ngenhlonipho ngomuntu noma okuthile okungacasuli abanye.
Umkhuba wokusebenza njalo ophikisana nezifiso zabo kanye nokuqonda kwabo ugxile ngokuqinile ekuziphatheni kwethu. Kodwa-ke, ephusheni, awekho umbono womphakathi ephusheni, akukho ukunqatshelwa kanye nemithetho yomphakathi ohloniphekile, ngakho-ke ephusheni singazibiza ngokwengeziwe ukwedlula impilo yangempela.
Ngiyavuma ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu onjalo, "noma kunjalo," amantombazane amahle "azoba nentshisekelo yokufunda izibonelo zamaphupho nokuhlaziywa kwazo.
Amaphupho aphupha ngephupho elifanayo.
Iphupho Lokuqala:
"Ngizibona ekamu elithile noma ekhaya lamaholide nabantu ongabazi. Futhi kumele kube khona umzuzu othokozisayo womhlangano lapho ngihlanganyela khona. Izimbambo ezizungezile zikuhlikihle bese zithi kuzoba kuhle kakhulu. Ngizizwa ngishaqisa ngaleso sikhathi, ngisho nokusongela. Ngitshela wonke umuntu ukuthi ngenqaba ukubamba iqhaza kulokhu, njengoba ngazi okuncane ngabantu abakhona, ngizizwa ngivimbile futhi angibethembi. Emva kwalokho, ngivuka khona manjalo futhi ngisesimweni esicacile kakhulu, kube sengathi ngiphuma nge-hypnosis noma "ngithambekele", noma ngakhululwa entweni ethile. "
Indodana yesibili:
"Ngiya emakethe futhi ngifuna ukuthenga amazambane. Khetha umuntu ozothenga futhi abuze owesifazane owayekade engangiqhubeki ngamazambane, ambonise. Uqinisekisa ukuthi amazambane alungile, futhi angikukholwa. Unika ummese, futhi ngiqala ukuhlanza amazambane athile. Okokuqala, amabala aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka avela, futhi lapho ngicoce amazambane futhi, khona-ke kungaphakathi konakele. Ngikhombisa lomthengisi wamazambane futhi ngimtshele ukuthi ngithe amazambane amabi. "
Bobabili ubuthongo buhlangene nesihloko esijwayelekile - ukungathembeki kwabanye.
Futhi uma empilweni ejwayelekile, abaningi babeyonga futhi bengakuvezi ama-alamu abo, khona-ke ephusheni i-heroine ikhuluma ngokusobala futhi ngokusobala isho. Manje kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amaphupho avame ukukhombisa isimo sangempela.
Ngakho-ke, kungacatshangelwa ukuthi kwelinye iqembu labantu, amaphupho enza umbono wakhe uwathande futhi iqiniso lokuthi wonke umuntu uyajabula ngokwenzekayo.
Ephusheni, intombazane ikwazi ukuveza imibono ngokwemvelo, okufana nokususwa kwesipelingi. Kulesi simo sokucaca, lapho i-heroine ivuse khona, bekuyodingeka ukusetha izinhloso ezintsha phambi kwakho, thatha izenzo ezizoholela ngqo ekuqalisweni kwephupho. Kungenzeka ukuthi yonke into ekhulelwe ngalolu suku izokwenziwa kalula, ngoba bekungadingeki ukucabanga ngokuthi kubukeka kanjani emehlweni abanye. Akunasidingo sokubonakale kukuhle futhi kulungile, vumelana nawo wonke umuntu - kubalulekile ukwenza nje.
Kepha okuthakazelisa ngokwengeziwe - kunesithombe sowesifazane ephusheni lesibili, ogama lawo ama-heroine awakholelwa.
Ihlala kuphela ukuphendukela kumlobi wamaphupho - lo wesifazane ahlotshaniswa nobani?
Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuxhumana "mayelana" namazambane abolile "kwenzeka empilweni yangempela ye-heroine.
Ungakuncoma kuphela ukuthi uhlaziye, ophikisana naye othatha ukholo ngaphandle kokuwahlola ngokoqobo.
Uma empilweni ejwayelekile, ngeke kube yintombazane "enhle" futhi izovuma ukuba ibone, isheke, ngikhulume ngezifiso zabo nokungabaza, izokwazi ukwenza kube lula ukuzivocavoca.
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UMaria Zemskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wezengqondo womndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kokukhula komuntu siqu kweSikhungo Sokuhweba uMarika Hazin.