Ubulili obuhle kungenzeka kuphela uma bobabili abalingani bevuseleleka ngokuphelele futhi banikezwe ngokuphelele inqubo. Ngakho-ke ngokuzethemba kungashiwo ukuthi kungashukunyiswa kungaphazamisa amasu akho ngobusuku obuhle uma omunye kini engakulungeli ukwembula ngaphambi komlingani. Sithole izizathu eziphambili zawo mantombazane, okungukuthi, amantombazane ajwayele ukuzwa iziphazamiso ecansini, akakwazi ukujabulela ukusondelana nokuthi ungalwa kanjani nayo.
Akukho okufanele kukuphazamise
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Intombazane kunzima ukuyibona ukubukeka kwayo
Yebo, yebo, ukungaqiniseki kakhulu ngokubonakala kwakhe konakalisa yonke imizwa futhi kwephule amacebo ethu ngobusuku obulandelayo. Owesifazane angahle abonakale sengathi owesilisa uzokuphawula nakanjani uzobuyisa amakhilogremu ambalwa noma azocubungula ukuthi mangaki amamaki amasha avela emzimbeni wakhe kusukela emhlanganweni wokugcina.
Zama ukujabulisa ngokwengeziwe, ukubukeka okunempilo emaphutheni kufanelekile inhlonipho, kepha ukugxekwa okuthuthuka kube ngamagama okuzenzela kuphela.
Isipiliyoni esingathandeki esikhathini esidlule
Ngeshwa, imvamisa okulindelwe okuvela ekusondeni kokuqala akuhambelani namaqiniso: ngokwesibonelo, umlingani kungenzeka angabi mnene ngendlela engingathanda ngayo, futhi esebenzisa nolaka lwenqubo kule nqubo. Ukuze uthole i-psyche esheshayo, ingaba yindawo yokuqala ukuthuthukiswa kwama-clamp ahlukahlukene wengqondo. Noma ingabe le ntombazane ayizange ikhulume emndenini ngesihloko sobulili, ngenxa yokuthi inqubo ngokwayo ingeyento eyayingaphezu kwemvelo noma yenqatshelwe.
isithiyo kungaba yinto engemnandi esikhathini esedlule
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Abazali nethonya labo
Emindenini engaphelele, lapho umama nobaba ehlukane futhi ngamunye wabo ufanela impilo yomuntu siqu, ingane ingakhuthaza ingane ebuntwaneni ukuthi wonke amadoda (noma abesifazane) awakufanele ukuzethemba, okusho ukuthi kufanele kugwenywe. Ebudaleni, ukufakwa okunjalo kungaba yinkinga enkulu ekwakheni ubudlelwano, kepha odokotela bezengqondo abanolwazi bazosiza ukubhekana nakho, into esemqoka akufanele babambezele ukuvakasha.
Ukungaqondi ngokuphelele kwe-anatomy yabesilisa
Emncane, akubona amantombazane amaningi aqonde ukuthi yini okufanele abhekane nakho kokuqala kwezocansi, futhi lokhu yize konke ukutholakala kwalolo lwazi. Ngenxa yalokhu, intombazane ayikwazi ukubhekana nenjabulo, engavumeli ukuphumula.
Dala umoya owufunayo
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Okufanele ngikwenze?
Dala umoya owufunayo
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke okufanele ukwenze konke ukuze ukhululeke futhi akukho lutho olunamahloni ukunyakaza kwakho. Lungiselela ilineni elihle lombhede, susa igumbi, ukuhlobisa isidleke sakho ekunambithekeni kwakho, ngakho-ke uzokwehlisa izinga lokukhathazeka. Ukuphumula okwengeziwe, ungamisa amakhandlela amnandi.
Hlala wedwa
Zama ukwenza noma ngubani efulethini akukho muntu efulethini: ungavuma, akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumule, lapho udonga ekhishini lulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa noma ubaba nabangane bakho abagulayo. Akukho okufanele kuphazamisekile.
Ucansi ngesimo esihle
Akukho lutho olukhungathekisayo olusondelene nosizi kanye nokungezwani emzimbeni wonke. Mahhala Usuku lokumnikela kuye ngokuphelele: Iya ku-salon, vakashela i-massage noma iseshini yokusonga. Njengomthetho, ukwelapha izinqubo kuyathambisa futhi usuku lonke uzozizwa musha.