Umndeni uhlelo, futhi, njenganoma yiluphi uhlelo, ulalela imithetho ethile. Le mithetho ayibonakali futhi ayinangqondo, kepha ukwephulwa kwayo kuyabonakala kakhulu. Lokhu kuncenga ukwephulwa kokuziphatha okujwayelekile kusuka kokujwayelekile, kanye nezinga eliphakeme lamandla kagesi / i-alamu emndenini, kanye nokukhohlisa njengendlela yokuxhumana, futhi, njengezinga lezezimali, okungukuthi, ukuvezwa kwengqondo (izifo zamalungu omndeni, kubandakanya nezifo ).
Eminye yemithetho yokuba khona kanye nokusebenza kwezinhlelo kuwumthetho we-hierarchy, umndeni unamalungu amadala ohlobo oluthile, kukhona okusemqoka, futhi kukhona omncane.
Imindeni ihlukaniswe:
--Buphakathi (a) umbhangqwana oshadile ngaphandle kwezingane; B) Umama, ubaba, izingane / izingane)
— Enwetshiwe (Umndeni wenuzi + abazali babalingani futhi kwesinye isikhathi kubandakanya nabazali babazali).
Njengomthetho, izingane zivame ukukhokhwa emndenini onwetshiwe, yize kwenzeka ukuthi ngenuzi.
Ngani? Ngoba emndenini owandisiwe, izinga eliphakeme kakhulu lobukhosi. Ake sizame ukuthola.
Njenganoma yimuphi umthetho, kunezinto eziningi / izindatshana eziningana emthethweni wabaphathi.
1.1. Umndeni wenuzi ubaluleke kakhulu wandiswa, okuhlukile, uma umndeni osemusha uqukethe abazali.
1.2. Abazali bahle kakhulu kunezingane (!)
1.3. Okwengane, izixuku eziphambili ngumama nobaba.
Lapho ingane ikhombisa umama kanye nogogo (kakhulu), lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abantu abadala ngokwabo abanqumi ukuthi ngubani induna, izingane zifundwa ngokungaziwa lolu lwazi futhi zilusebenzise ngezinhloso zazo.
Okwengane, okuyinhloko - umama nobaba, ekungabikho kwawo, abazali banikezela la mandla komunye umuntu (umkhulu / umkhulu, umhlengikazi, kungakuhle ukuthi ulisho lokhu ngengane. Isibonelo: "Umama utshela indodana yakhe:" Ngenkathi ngizokwethembela emsebenzini, uzoba nogogo. Kuwo wonke imibuzo xhumana naye. Lapho ngingekho ekhaya. " Okulandelayo, esigabeni, kungaba kuhle ukuqeda inqubo, futhi nengane. Umama ugogo: "Mama, ngiyabonga ngokungifaka esikhundleni sangihlala ngihlale nendodana yami."
Ngakho-ke, ingane ngeke idideke ekhanda, futhi kuzoba namathuba amancane okukhohlisa.
Buyisela igunya lengane akuphuze isikhathi! Ungesabi ukumtshela ukuthi abantu abadala babaluleke kakhulu nangaphezulu. Izingane zidinga indlela ecacile yobuthongo nokuzilibazisa, umzila ojwayelekile nokudla.
Ngokuthuthuka kwayo, ngaso sonke isikhathi 'bazozama' ukwandisa ithonya labo kanye nendawo yomuntu omdala ukunciphisa umkhawulo wengane, uma kungenjalo izinkinga emphakathini azinakugwenywa, ngoba izingane zithatha imodeli emndenini ukuxazulula kwazo imisebenzi nasemphakathini. Njengoba esebeke lasebenzisa umndeni, ingane iyokwenza ngokungazi engadini, nasesikoleni, nasempilweni yabantu abadala.