Imicabango engemihle enobuthi ubuthi futhi ungavumeli ukugxila kokubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Kodwa-ke, akuyena wonke umuntu ongalwa ngempumelelo nezikhathi ezingezinhle, futhi aphinde avuselele ukwazi kwakhe okuhle. Sinqume ukukutshela ngochwepheshe abaklanyelwe ukusiza ukubhekana nobubi, uma uthatha isinqumo sokushintsha impilo yakho kube ngcono.
Ukwehluleka okugcwele
Izazi zezengqondo zeluleke wonke umuntu ohlangabezane nemicabango emibi ebabazekayo, azame lo mnikelo olandelayo: Uvele "unqume" lo mcabango. Kule nqubo, ungazami ukucabanga ngale ndlela engemihle, vele ungene esikhundleni salo mqondo ongemuhle komunye, okuhle. Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi kudinga ukwenziwa okwamanje lapho kuvela khona kuphela.
Ube ngumqaphi wesithathu
Enye indlela ephumelelayo ukubuka imicabango yakho kusuka ohlangothini. Zama ukususwa ngokwengqondo ekubonisweni okunzima bese ubheka isimo njengokungathi. Ngakho-ke ungahlola isilinganiso senkinga futhi ungabona indlela engalindelekile ukuyixazulula.
Ungazihluphi ngendlela engemihle
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Chaza inkinga yakho
Kwesinye isikhathi ukudluliswa kokuhlangenwe nakho okusephepheni noma kwi-laptop yayo kunciphisa kakhulu i-voltage ebangelwa yimicabango emibi. Udinga ukukhetha isikhathi lapho kungekho okukuhluphayo, futhi uhlale phansi ephepheni elihlanzekile. Chaza inkinga yakho imibala, zizwe ukhululekile izinkulumo, ngoba akekho ozokubona. Zama ukuguqula konke okubi kusuka ekhanda ephepheni. Uma uqeda, ungashisa yonke into ebhaliwe, ngenxa yalokho wenqaba ukuthatha i-negative.
Phikelela
Imvamisa imicabango emibi iya ephazamisayo hhayi abantu abazethembayo, ngakho-ke sizolwa nale nkinga. Lapho nje ufuna ukucabanga: "Hhayi-ke, cha, ngeke ngikwazi ukubhekana nakho" ngokushesha "shintsha" Kancane kancane, ukwazi kwakho kuzolungiswa ukuthi uzoqiniseka kunoma yisiphi isimo ngamakhono akho, futhi kulesi simo okungemuhle kungakuthonya ngandlela thile ukukuthonya. Zama.