Usuvele ubonile unyaka njengoba oke efunda nabo ekilasini bashada, badilizwa, futhi ngalesi sikhathi bazama ukuthola okungenani okuqukethwe okukodwa okuqhubekayo ngosuku, umcabango uyisidididi - mhlawumbe kukhona okungahambi kahle kuwe? Sihlazisa izizathu eziphambili zokuthi kungani kunzima kakhulu kuwe ukusungula impilo yomuntu siqu.
Usola bonke abantu ngaphandle kokuhlukile
Lapho enawo wonke umhlangano nendoda umbulale ngokubheka nje, akafuni ukukubiza. Khumbula ukuthi isitezi esinamandla sikhangwa abesifazane abavulekile nabanobungane abaxhumana ngokukhululekile futhi ngokuvamile baziphatha kalula.
Noma ngabe esikhathini esidlule wawunokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle kokuxhumana nabobulili obuhlukile, lokhu akusho ukuthi wonke amadoda adinga ukubizwa esigabeni sezimbuzi. Kunabo abafanelekile abazongenela ukhetho lwengxenye yengxenye yakho yesibili.
Vula Ukuxhumana
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Ucashe ngaphansi kwemaski
Imvamisa, ukuze sijabulele le ndoda, abesifazane baqhubeka kakhulu, kubandakanya nalabo abangaqali ukwakha. Kodwa-ke, kunengozi yokuthi ngolunye usuku kuzokwambulwa, ngoba ngeke ukwazi ukwenza unomphela. Ungesabi ukuvula, kuphela imvelo yakho yangempela engasiza ekutholeni umuntu ofanele.
Awunikezi umuntu osondelene naye
Abesifazane abaningi bayazethemba ukuthi imvelo yabesilisa isho ukufuna izimayini ebusweni bowesifazane, kepha akudingekile ukubona lesi sitatimende kanjalo. Yebo, indoda iyathakazelisa ngokwengeziwe uma uvuma ukuvala ubudlelwano hhayi ngosuku lokuqala, kodwa futhi ungakufanele ukukufuna, indoda ingavele ilahlekelwe yintshisekelo.
Susa "imaski"
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Uhlala ungajabuli njalo
Futhi, embuzweni wesimo sengqondo sokuphila: Uma umuntu engahambelani nokuthile, ezimweni eziningi, inkinga ixazululwa, ungawushintsha umsebenzi wokunande, ushintshe imfundo yokuxhumana, ukuthola imfundo elahlekile. Kepha ukusesha komuntu ozofika axazulule zonke izinkinga zakho zichithwe ngaphambi kokwehluleka. Indoda eyanele ifuna umdlandla onothando nowesifazane ofanayo nokwanele.
Uzoziphatha ngokwemvelo
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