Ukuqhekeka kobudlelwano kuhlale kungumcimbi obuhlungu, imiphumela abaningi abayithandayo yokuminza ukuphuma nenyunyana entsha yothando, kepha kuvame ukubizwa kanjalo. Izazi zezengqondo zincoma ukuthatha isikhathi sothando, futhi sathola ukuthi kungani.
"Cha" esedlule
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi okwenziwa kocansi nalowo mqondo wakho wehlise umoya, ngeke alethe impumuzo, futhi awukwazi ukukhuluma njengakuqala, ngokumane wenqabe ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo. Uma usufikile ukuxazulula lobu budlelwano, yeka noma yimuphi othintana naye kwangaphambili, noma ngabe ucacisa kanjani lobu bulili "obunobungane. Thola amabutho ukuze uphoqelele leli khasi empilweni yakho futhi ubuyisele amandla enoveli elandelayo.
Qaphela okulindeleni ngezinsuku
Noma ngabe isikhathi esanele siphasisiwe futhi uzizwa ulungele ubudlelwano obusha, hlaziya ukuthi iphutha lakho ligcine nini (noma izikhathi) lapho uphutha kumuntu. Mhlawumbe ungazikhethanga labo abalingani abangathanda, noma ukulandela umbono wabangane nezihlobo, ukuhlola umlingani ongaba khona wobudlelwano besikhathi eside namehlo abo. Ngenkathi ukhululekile, qonda ukuthi yini oyidingayo ngempela.
Zinike isikhathi sakho
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Funda ukulalela ngokwakho kuphela
Njengoba sikhula futhi sithola okuhlangenwe nakho, sivame ukuqala ukwamukela imibono nokuziphatha kwabanye abantu, okungenzeka kungahambisani nezifiso zethu. Akumnandi kakhulu lapho umbono womphakathi uthinta ukukhetha kwempilo ye-satellite. Khumbula ukuthi kuzofanele uphile nalo muntu ukuthi uzoba nalo, hhayi intombi yakho, okuthi emhlanganweni ophelele okudonsela ngaphansi kwetafula, uveze ukunganeliseki kwakho nomlingani wakho. Lalela ngokwakho.
Vula okusha
Lapho enye isihloko ihlala ihlala imicabango yethu, ukuqaliswa kwayo kubambezelekile isikhathi eside. Ngokumangazayo, kepha iqiniso. Zama ukushintshela kokuthile okusha, ngokwesibonelo, bhalisela, ekugcineni, izifundo owawungenaso isikhathi ngaphambi, noma uthole umdlalo omusha. Umgomo wethu ukushintsha ukugxila kokunakwa. Kodwa-ke, ngaso sonke isikhathi lungiselelwe imihlangano emisha, ungayenqaba ukuqomisana futhi uzobona ukuthi "umuntu wakho" uzokuthola ngokwakho.