Izibalo zemithombo yezindaba yolimi lwesiNgisi "Solleywealth.com, ngokusho kocwaningo luka-2017, zithi ngokusobala zithi: Abesifazane 70+ bathola ukwaneliseka okwengeziwe ngocansi kunabesifazane abaneminyaka engama-40 +. Vuma, le mininingwane ayijabuli? Imvamisa, izinkinga zivela ngakonke ngenxa yezinkinga zempilo - abantu babo balwela ukwelapha okuningi. Ukungaqondi cishe amaphesenti ayikhulu amacala akhuluma ngokungakwazi ukukhuluma ngamazwi ngomlomo. Amacebo, imizamo yokuyenga, ukuvakashela izifundo zobulili - konke lokhu akusizi ngalutho uma ungamdingi umlingani ngasikhathi sinye. Kulokhu kwahlukaniswa ngezeluleko - ukuthi ungakulimazi kanjani ukuziqhenya komlingani, ekhuluma naye ngocansi.
Ngiyincwadi yokuqala yezinhlamvu
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sifunda ukucabanga abanye futhi sizidele. Lokho kumane nje kungxoxo nomlingani ngaphandle kokuthi "Mina" okuyisisekelo ngeke ngikwenze. Qala ngencazelo yemizwa nezifiso zakho, hhayi izikhalazo mayelana nomlingani. Ukumangalelwa kuhambisana nemizwa yokulahla, ukwedelelwa noma ukunganakwa - noma imuphi wabo uzokhungathekisa umuntu omthandayo, ozomgqugquzela ukuthi azame ukuzama. Noma yisiphi isicelo singavezwa ngothando nangesifiso senjabulo ejwayelekile: Ngokuya kokudideka kwakho okuhle kuzofundwa ngaphansi kwezinga elizwakalayo. Esikhundleni sokuthi "Ugugile futhi ungacishe ungangeli kimi ngesikhathi sesandulela," Ngitshele "Ngiyakuthanda, ngakho-ke ngifuna ukuthola isisa esithe xaxa - ukwanga kuzongikhipha kaningi?".
Gxila emizweni yakho
Khuluma ngokuqondile
Ngisho nokutholakala kakhulu emibuzweni mayelana nokusondela kumuntu kuyamangaza lapho ekhuluma ngocansi hhayi umlingani wesikhashana, kepha labo abathanda ngempela. Ukuze ingxoxo ibe nomphumela, buthana namabutho futhi uchaze ukuthi awugculisekile kanjani. Ukwenza isibonelo, "Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, izicubu zami ezisondelene azizange zifike ephungeni ngokujulile kunokujwayelekile ... Ake sihlole amathoyizi?" Kungcono kunokuba usho ukuthi awuzizwa lutho ngesikhathi sex - lapha isizathu singalimala ezintweni ezahlukahlukene. Ukuba nenkinga ethile, wena nomlingani uba lula ngokwengeziwe ukuyixazulula ngemizamo ehlanganyelwe.
Ungaqhathanisi muntu
Cabanga nje ukuthi umuntu wakho owuthandayo ungowokuqala empilweni yakho. Lokhu ukwamukela kuwusizo kulabo abathanda ukukhumbula ababambisene wangaphambili komunye nomunye. Qhathanisa lo makhasimende kuphela naye owedlule nowamanje. Bheka ngemuva kokuphela koMthetho owuthandile: Yisho ngokuzwakalayo, ukuze othandekayo wakho baqonde ukuthi "yini" ebibiza imali yokufaka isicelo futhi, nakulokho okufanele ukwenqaba. I-Flirt ekhanyayo enjalo ingahumusha ingxoxo yakho ezindikindisiko ezimbi kakhulu.
Shiya izingxoxo ezisondele kakhulu zokuxhumana komuntu siqu
Gcina ulimi lwakho lwamazinyo
Futhi amantombazane nabafana isono bakhuluma ngocansi nabangane abaseduze. Kuyinto eyodwa, uma uhlala ushintsha abalingani - engxoxweni baba "abangenacala" futhi bayizindaba ezinhle kakhulu zengxoxo yenkampani. Umbuzo ohluke ngokuphelele yilapho ungobudlelwano obuhlala njalo: Akunakwenzeka ukuthi owesilisa wakho ajabule ngokwazi ukuthi izintombi zakho ziyazi ukuthi yini ethandwa yilokho okudonsela kuyo. Uma uvulekele engxoxweni yezihloko ezisondelene, nokho, imibukiso yokuzijwayeza: Abantu bathanda ukushiya izingxoxo ezinjalo ngemuva kweminyango yefulethi labo.