Indoda ingaphonsa ngokungenayo impumelelo yakhe, akunandaba - ochwepheshe noma uqobo - komunye, noma yimuphi ummeleli womuntu wesilisa ulwa kanzima: Njengoba uqonda inkulumo ngocansi. Cishe yilowo nalowo muntu, kubalulekile ukuvela phambi kowesifazane osekuhle kakhulu, yingakho umlingani wakho esengozini enkulu ngokwempilo esontayo, ngoba ukwesaba ukwehluleka kuhlala kungaphishekela amadoda ethu.
Yiba ngeqhingi
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Ukwehluleka ngesikhathi esifanele kakhulu
Ukwesaba okunjalo akuveli kusuka ekuqaleni: mhlawumbe kanye, esikhathini esedlule nendoda, kwakusekuvele kwaba ngamahloni, kodwa futhi okwakhe. Sekwanele nje isikhathi esisodwa ukuze le ndoda iqale ukungabaza amabutho ayo wesilisa.
Ungawenza Kanjani Owesifazane
Okokuqala, akukho ukugxekwa, uma indoda ithandekayo ngempela. Zama ukuthola abalingani abaphumule nangemva kwesikhashana ungazama ukuphinda. Into ebi kakhulu ongayenza ukuqala ukuxoxa ngesimo samanje, kholwa ukuthi akusona isikhathi manje. Kodwa-ke, uma ngabe izinkinga zokuhamba nge-potency zihambisane nendoda yakho isikhathi eside, zama ngobumnene ukubona ekuvakasheni uchwepheshe, ungayenza inkampani, uzokwazisa ngokunembile ukusekelwa.
Indoda izokwazisa ukwesekwa kwakho
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Ukwesaba Qeda kuqala
Eqinisweni, izizathu zokuthi kungani umuntu ama-cums asheshe kunalokho obonile ukuthi kwenzeka konke, futhi lokhu kungaba yimikhuba eyodwa nezimo ezihlotshaniswa nenkinga ehlukahlukene emzimbeni wendoda.
Njengasesimweni sokuqala, manje akusona isikhathi sezingxoxo ezinemininingwane yenzeka, indoda nokunye ukuthi ku-Platoon ngenxa yokuthi abanaso isikhathi sokukuthola: "Futhi Imvamisa kanye nawe? " Uma indoda ivame ukuba ngaphambi kwakho, ungaqala ukukhathazeka, kepha ngenxa yamacala amaningana acasulwe ukucindezelwa noma ezinye izimo zangaphandle, akufanele wethuke. Mhlawumbe kuyisici somzimba nje.
Wesaba ukudumaza
Lapho le ndoda isethandweni ngezindlebe, ayikwazi ukuhlola kahle amakhono ayo: kubukeka sengathi ayimihle kangako ukuba ikhethwe yakhe, noma ngabe ayinankinga kwi-auntent shere, noma ngabe ayinankinga yokuzethemba. Emehlweni endoda, ukwehluleka kwakhe embhedeni kubukeka kuyinhlekelele, ngoba akukho lutho olubi ukubona ukuthi awenelisi owesifazane wakhe.
Uma ubona ukungavikeleki kwanje yendoda yakho, zama ukuhlela ukuthi uyamangaza, ngaleyo ndlela ekhombisa ukuthi uyahlanya ngaye nangezenzo zakhe. Izimanga ezifanayo ezimnandi zandisa ukuzethemba komuntu ezulwini.
Hlela ukumangala kothando
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