Kubukeka sengathi, ekugcineni, kutholakala - "indoda" efanayo. Ubonisa izimpawu zokunakwa, zivame ukubiza futhi ngokuvamile ziziphatha njengendoda yangempela. Futhi, kaningi kwenzeka, nokho, ekuqaleni, indoda enhle kakhulu ingaqagela ngokuzumayo, futhi ikwenza emva kwakho "kwenzeka". Futhi umfazi akakwazi ukuqonda lokho akwenza okungalungile. Lutho. Umlingani wakho omusha nje wayenentshisekelo kuwe kuphela emthanjeni osondelene naye. Ungaqonda kanjani ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho abufiki ngokulandelayo? Sizamile ukuthola.
Ngokushesha uphuthuma "ngaphandle"
Indoda engakubheki njengomlingani isikhathi eside, izozama ukuletha umbhede ngokushesha okukhulu, futhi kulokhu kuzofanela ukusho umsebenzi omkhulu: vele ngosuku lwesibili kuzophula imingcele yakho yangasese , izokwanga futhi, mhlawumbe, ukwenza amacebo angathandeki. Le nto ukuthi akesabi ukwenqaba kwakho, ngoba noma kunjalo kufanele afune owesifazane omusha.
Amanga. Amanga amaningi
Asikhulumi ngama-picpers ochwepheshe, kepha izeluleko zabo zifana nokusebenzisa amadoda amaningi afuna ukuzijabulisa amasonto ambalwa. Ngakho-ke enye yezinhlelo ezifakazelwe "emsebenzini" we-picper iyindaba ephuphayo, evusa imizwa yangempela, esiza ukuthola amaphuzu ambalwa ukuzethemba ngokushesha. Indoda enjalo izohlala ithi idumazekile ebudlelwaneni futhi ingabe isakholelwa othandweni, owesifazana angacabanga: "Kuthiwani uma ngingobani ozokwenza kujabulise?" Futhi ugijime ebudlelwaneni, hhayi ukuqonda ukuthi kwavela ukuthi "ku-hook".
Hlola ngokucophelela ukuziphatha kwakhe
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Akazihluphi ngemizwa
Icebo elilandelayo liyingqayizivele laya ngaphezu kwengxenye yensikazi, kepha amadoda ayazi kahle, kufanelekile ukuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi nengxenye enhle kakhulu. Indoda, ibale ocansini ngesikhathi esifushane kunazo zonke, izozama ukuguqula iphupho lakho endodeni, kodwa ke ... inyamalale isikhashana. Ngokwemvelo, ngokwethuka bese uqala ukuyifuna. Futhi usebenzisa lesi sikhathi ukuthi "athathe". Imvamisa, ngemuva nje kokuba umhlangano ongazelelwe, owesifazane ufuna izindlela zokubambezela lo muntu ukuze anganyamalali emehlweni isikhathi eside, futhi amnikele ngocansi. Empeleni, wafuna lokhu.