Umuntu ngamunye kukho konke impilo ucabanga ngayo yonke inqwaba yezinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi:
- Ngingubani"?
- Kungani ngiphila?
- Uyini umqondo wokuphila?
- Ngizoshiya kuphi ngemuva kokufa?
Umbuzo wokuphila nokufa wathumba izingqondo zabantu amakhulu eminyaka, kodwa kwatholakala impendulo? Yize kunjalo, abantu bayaqhubeka besaba ukufa.
Umuntu ukuphela kwesidalwa esiphilayo emhlabeni wethu, okufanele acindezele ukwesaba impilo ejwayelekile. Kepha isimo semvelo asisivumeli ukuba sikhohlwe ukuthi konke kuyaphela, ngakho-ke sibuyela embuzweni waphakade futhi futhi.
Futhi okuhlangenwe nakho okuqinile ikakhulukazi kuba nobudala. Indoda endala, kulapho acabanga khona kakhulu uma ukufa kuyimpela ukuphela kobukhona bomuntu siqu, kukhona yini ngemuva kwalo? Uma kunjalo, khona-ke yonke imigomo yethu yasemhlabeni ingabonakala ingenalutho futhi ayinanjongo.
Kepha abantu abaningi bangaphakathi babonisa ukuthi ngokufika kokufa, konke konke akukwazi ukuphela. Bese kuphakama eminye imibuzo:
- Ingabe kukhona umphefumulo?
- Uphi umphefumulo ulandela ukuphi impilo?
- Ingabe kulinde ukujeziswa kwethu kwezenzo ezimbi?
- Ngabe sizohlangana ngemuva kokufa nalabo abasondelene?
- Ingabe ukhona uMdali futhi uyamiswa ukuhlangana naye ngemuva kokufa?
Polina Sukhova.
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Ngasikhathi sinye nemicabango yokufa, sivame ukucabanga ngezinye izingqinamba ezihlobene nezimo nezinkinga ezinzima zokuphila:
- Kungani kubonakala sengathi kudilizwa?
- Kungani ngingedwa?
- Kungani ngesaba amakamelo angokwemvelo noma ukuphakama?
- Kungani umzimba ubonakala omunye?
- Kungani mina ngiphonswa futhi wakhashelwa?
Yonke le mibuzo indala, njengabantu uqobo, futhi abaningi bethu abanakukwazi ukuthola izimpendulo ezanelisayo kubo.
Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngemuva kokufa futhi uthole izimpendulo zeminye imibuzo? Kimina, konke lokhu kusobala.
Umphefumulo uhlala uphila emva kokufa!
Singabheka ngokwethemba ngokwengeziwe ngokufa sibonga ngocwaningo oluningi lwe-regrese hypotherotheredors. Isibonelo, ngendlela yokuthola kabusha i-Hypnosis lbl "impilo phakathi kwezimpilo", ezasungulwa yi-hypnotherapist uDkt Michael Newton avela e-United States.
I-Hypnosis yenza kube nokwenzeka ukuthi azi ngokwakhe, ubuyisele izinkumbulo ezingokomoya, ngenxa yokuthi asibona nje amagobolondo omzimba, singukuqwashisa kwaphakade ohambweni lomuntu. Lolu lwazi lusiza abantu ukuba bathole ukuthula kwengqondo, ukuzethemba kanye nencazelo eyengeziwe kunanoma iyiphi imikhuba yenkolo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinkumbulo ezingokomoya zinikeza impendulo yombuzo wokuthi kungani ububi obuthile buvela nathi. Isibonelo, umuntu oyedwa akakwazanga ukuthola izinkinga zikanina isikhathi eside, kwabonakala kuye ukuthi uyamzonda futhi afune ukuletha ukuzibulala. I-Hypnosis yamsiza ukuba athole lokho empilweni edlule wayengumnikazi wezigqila, futhi umama wakhe wamanje - inceku, eshonile ngephutha lakhe. Wakwazi ukuqonda lesi sifundo, wamukela lolu vivinyo, wasungula ubudlelwano nonina nempilo yakhe jikelele.
Iseshini yenza kube nokwenzeka ukuqonda umuntu ukuthi kungani kudingeka aqhubeke nokulingwa, yiziphi izifundo ezimnika indawo. Emcimbini ngamunye kunenhloso ethile, kudinga kuphela ukuqashelwa futhi kuqashelwe. Kubonwa kwenza ukuthi kube nokwenzeka ukuthatha isimo sempilo esinzima kunazo zonke, thethelela abenzile bese uvumela okungalungile. Emva kwalokho, umuntu ufunda ukuphila enjabulweni nasekuvumelana nani. I-Hypnosis eguquguqukayo isiza ukwenza impilo futhi iyishintshe ibe ngcono.
Izinkumbulo zezimpilo zangesikhathi esedlule ziyakwazi ukuhlanganisa abantu, zinikeza amandla namandla okufeza okusha. Yize kunjalo, impilo yethu yamanje iyisigaba kuphela endleleni engapheli yomphefumlo waphakade. Ungakuqonda futhi ukuthi empilweni yamanje ungaphoqa ukuthi ungakwazi ukunqoba noma yiziphi ubunzima.
Ngiphendula imibuzo eminingi encwadini yami entsha "Imithetho yomdlalo wendawo yonke". Ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukuthola impendulo: "Ngani?" Futhi funda ukuphendula ngokuzola kunoma yiziphi izinkinga nokucindezela empilweni, kufundwe.