Esikhathini, lapho owesifazane ezizwa ezimele kunanini ngaphambili, kusenamantombazane okulingisa okusindayo, futhi "kuyasiza" kulo lonke imvelo yethu: umndeni, abangane, ozakwethu. Sizame ukuthola ukuthi owesifazane oneminyaka engu-30 ubuphila kanjani emhlabeni wonke amakhosikazi nabamama abajabule babusa kanjani.
Umphakathi ubuyela ngokungenacala izimo
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Ukwesaba okungapheli kokulahlwa
Ivila kuphela elingasho lutho olwalusho intokazi lapho kungekho "umndeni ojwayelekile", kufanelekile kuphela ukuthi ungenze kuphela ongceleni oneminyaka engama-30 ubudala. Kodwa-ke, zivuma bona - futhi wamangala ngabantu abajwayelekile ababengatholi imali ebambisene nabo kanye nezingane eziningana eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Manje usungazizwa lesi simo kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
Uma 'unenhlanhla' nezihlobo, emehlweni lapho umndeni ukuphela kwenjongo yowesifazane, hlala usulile kakhulu. Ngo-20, awukakayeki ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ngomshado. Hhayi. Uqala nje ukufunda impilo yabantu abadala, kepha eduze nenjabulo enkulu yomndeni: Umama wakho uqala ukunqoba izihlobo ezinde ngokuzisola kwezenhlalo: "Yebo, cha, cha, cha, cha, Futhi umama usanda kushiywe ukuzokuvikela phambi kwezihlobo. Kepha ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, kuzoqala ukukhathazeka ngombuzo wesizungu sakho, kanye nengcindezi ngaphakathi embuthanweni osondele kakhulu wokumelana nobunzima kakhulu.
Ungazitholi ngokwakho
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Ngalesi sikhathi, ngalesi sikhathi angifuni ukunikela ngesikhathi sakho komunye umuntu: Uqhakaze, ungakwazi ukukhokhela ukuzungeza umhlaba, uthenge konke okubonayo. Futhi umuntu ake aphuze impilo yakho?
Esimweni lapho umhlaba wonke ungafuni ukukuqonda, akunakwenzeka ukuthinta ukufakwa kwakho. Izihlobo zama-collotal kanye nabangane kungenzeka bangazi konke: Mhlawumbe uthole izandla nezinhliziyo eziningi kangaka, bangaki abantu abangaphumanga, nalawo nalowo nalowo lawo madoda avele ngesikhathi esifanele. Futhi ngubani ongaqinisekisa injabulo emshadweni? Akekho owaziyo ukuthi ngubani ozoba ngumuntu othule futhi onokuthula ozotshela ehhovisi lokubhalisa. " Futhi uzohlupheka kulobu budlelwano uzoba, futhi ungavali, okwakuzama ngenkuthalo ukukushada.
Isizungu kungenzeka ngendoda
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Lapho umcabango womshado uzokuhambela ngaphandle kokungenelela kwangaphandle - kulokhu kuphela lapho ungaqala ukusesha okuhlosiwe kwendoda. Ikakhulu kusukela manje akuyona inkinga nhlobo, kufanelekile ukubuka futhi uzokwazi ukubona amanzi, ngasizathu simbe awunakanga nhlobo. Yenza intando yenhliziyo futhi ungavumeli abanye baphile impilo yakho.