Kunzima ukucabanga ngokugcwele umntwana ngaphandle kokufunda imikhuba emihle. Ake sinqume ngemiqondo: Imikhuba Emihle - Kuyini?
Ngokuyinhloko:
- Ukunemba (ukuhlanzeka komuntu siqu, isimilo setafula, isimo sokuqapha ngokucophelela ngezinto, ukususwa kukadoti).
- Inkulumo Enhlonipho (Khombisa, yivama, thokozela, Cela intethelelo).
- Uzwela (ukuncipha kwabancane, isilwane).
- Ukubekezelela (isimo sengqondo esinhlonipho nenhlonipho kulabo abangafani nawe: abantu bomunye ubuzwe, izinga lemfundo, ingcebo, njll.).
- Isiko lokuxhumana (ukuhlonipha abadala, kowesifazane, amandla okunikeza usizo lwabo).
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bathi ukuqwashisa kubaluleke kakhulu ezenzweni zabazali. Ukuxhumana nengane, kwanele ukugcina izimpendulo zemibuzo emibili ekhanda lami: "Ngenzenjani?" Nokuthi "Kungani ngenza lokhu?" Manje kungani udinga imikhuba emihle, kungani kubaluleke kakhulu ukugoma esemncane? Njalo ngonyaka emphakathini wethu ngokwengeziwe abantu nabanye komunye nomunye. Uma umuntu esemnyakeni yokuqala efunda ukuba nomusa, ukulandela izinkambiso zokuziphatha, okulula ukuveza kahle ngemikhuba emihle, khona-ke ngokuzayo kuguqulwa kalula kunoma iyiphi indawo yenhlalo, kuzokwazi ukwakha a Ubudlelwano eqenjini, buzoqiniseka.
Futhi banjani? Ukubukwa kukaKaleidoscope
Iningi labantu bakwamanye amazwe linenhlonipho ekhethekile, abalwela ukuyisa ezinganeni zabo. Isibonelo, ingane eyodwa nohhafu owodwa ovela eBerlin yazi ngokuqinile igama elilodwa - uDanke (ngiyabonga). Ubaba ojwayelekile weScotland ufundisa nendodakazi yakhe uSophie, unezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye kuphela ubudala. Kepha akunandaba, ngoba angakwazi ukutsheka ikhanda nokumomotheka. ULeonardo oneminyaka emibili ubudala waseVenice, ebuka abazali, usevele ufunda ukuphathwa ngemfoloko kanye nommese. U-Alexander oneminyaka emibili waseSri Lanka afundise ukuthi awekho amadivaysi kuphela, kodwa futhi ezandleni zawo. Bamukelwa kakhulu. ESri Lanka, izingane ezinama-diapers zifundisa ngokucophelela ukwelapha yonke into ephila, zama ukungacasuli muntu. Kukhona futhi okufundwe ukuhlonipha abadala. Ngakho-ke, bonke ogogo lapha bayigama le-ACCHI, akunandaba, ingane yakhe ingane noma cha. EJalimane, omama bavame ukuphendukela ezinganeni zabo besebenzisa umklamo wesikhashana onemibandela (Konjunktiv II). Kuvela ukukhanga okunenhlonipho ngokweqile, kuzozwakala okufana nokuthi: "Ungakususa amathoyizi akho?". AmaJalimane ajwayele ukukhulumisana futhi akuvamile ukuba abuzane ngokuthile ngqo.
Imikhuba emihle eqala ngezinhlayiyana "ayikwazi". Nasi ubuncane bamazwe omhlaba esihlokweni se- "Little Genlend noma Lady". Akunakwenzeka:
1. Khetha ekhaleni.
2. ekhaleni ekhaleni.
3. Ukugula okuthile ngaphandle kwezipikili.
4. Imilenze evulekile etafuleni.
5. Khuluma ngomlomo ogcwele.
6. Skat esihlalweni.
7. Yilwa ngaphandle kwesizathu.
8. Khetha amathoyizi.
9. Ukuthatha izinto zabanye abantu zifuna.
10. phazamisa ukukhuluma.
11. Khuluma kakhulu ezokuthutha, xoxa ngabagibeli.
I-Russia: Omama bathi
Bonke omama, engikwazile ukuvota, bahlanganyele nento esemqoka: kuyadingeka ukuthi uqale ngokwakho. Akunakwenzeka ukufundisa ingane ukusonga amathoyizi akhe uma izimbiza zikamama nezimonyo zihlakazeka efulethini. Omama abaningi bakhuluma ngendlela yokufundisa imikhuba emihle kunzima ukuhlukanisa nokukhuliswa kwabo bonke. Emini, uma umama ehlala ngokuhlangana nengane, uzohlala enaka ukuthi usula kanjani imilenze yomnyango womnyango, lapho udinga khona ukuphonsa inganekwane nokuthi yini uyothuka lapho uxohla. Kunengqondo impela ukufundisa ingane ngemithetho engamukeleki ngaphandle kokuphoqelela, okuthinta ngokuziphatha kwakhe ngezikhathi ezithile.
Izingane zihlala zijabule uma zikhuluma ngezinganekwane kuzo. Ngakho-ke, omama badlula olimini lwezindaba ezingokomqondo nezomlingo. Noma baphendukela usizo kochwepheshe, ngoba isihloko sendlela enhle sidale izindaba eziningi ezifundisayo, izinkondlo, amakhathuni kanye nokwenza izinto. Lezi zinketho zilungele ngokuphelele i-reoxoites, kusukela eminyakeni emithathu kuya kweyisikhombisa. Kukhona nalabo omama abazethembayo: akudingekile ukushesha imvelo yengane - njengoba ukuqhamuka ubuchopho, kuzofinyelela konke. Kubalulekile ukuthi bakha isimo sothando olungenamibandela nokwamukelwa. Benza uhlaka luvunyelwe ukungabonakali, ungaphazamisi ukuvezwa kwanoma yimiphi imizwa. Ngegama, ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo aziphuli umntwana futhi ungayishayeli ngaphansi kwezindinganiso. Abazali abanjalo, bakha yonke imibandela yentuthuko, suka eceleni. Babheka ngokucophelela ukuthi ingane yabo iphenduka kancane kancane yaba ngumuntu ofundile ofanayo, njengazo.
I-workshop. Amathiphu wabazali abanolwazi
Qala ngokwakho. Naka indlela oziphatha ngayo nokubukeka kwakho, ekhaya, ebudlelwaneni bakho nomyeni wakho nasekhaya. Izidingo zezingane ziqala ngezidingo zazo.
Sekela konke ukuqala kwengane. Umngani wami uThimothewu uneminyaka engu-3.5 kuphela, kodwa yena usiza umama wakhe ngenjabulo ukuba apheke: ashaye amaqanda, aqhakaza ngokhilimu wekhekhe ekhekhe. Untanga yakhe yeSvyatoslav - ngokwakhe uthatha i-mop. Lezi zingane azikaze ziphendukele ezine, kepha ziziqhenya kanjani izindaba zabantu abadala! Phezu kwengane yakho, umlande umsebenzi emphefumulweni wami. Futhi ekugcineni, dunyiswa, kungakhathalekile umphumela.
Izinganekwane, amakhathuni, okwenziwa. Kubalulekile hhayi nje ukufunda, ukukhombisa, ukuthatha, kepha futhi ukuxoxa. Ngubani iqhawe elihle elingelona iqiniso? Ngabe ingane izofika kanjani endaweni yomlingiswa ophambili? Ngemuva kwalokho yonke into ebonwa ifunda kangcono. Ngokwesibonelo:
Ukudlala "Euseik kanye namagugu amahlanu omlingo" kuzohlanganisa amagama anhlonipho ezingqondweni zengane.
Umdlalo we-Fairy Tale-Game "Alfabheneta of incess" uLyudmila Vasilyeva-Gangnus uzosiza ukugxilisa amakhono okuziphatha asenkulisa emphakathini. Umbhali uheha ingane nakumzali.
Amakhathuni ngeCota Leopold - isibonelo esihle somusa nobungani.
Ifilimu (noma incwadi) v. Suteva "isikhwama sama-apula" sizofundisa ingane ukuba iphanzise, hhayi ukuhaha.
Isifundo senkondlo sikaS. Marshak "ubuwunhle" ungafundwa yinhliziyo futhi uvote ngezikhathi ezifanele.
Hlela amaholide. Kunoma yisiphi isihloko, yithi "usuku lweqabunga lokuqala eliluhlaza". Ngenkathi kukhona ukulungiselela umgubho, ungafunda: ukuhlanza nokuhlobisa ifulethi, ukudla okuphekayo, insizakalo yethebula, izivakashi zemihlangano, imidlalo yezingane ejwayelekile. Okufakiwe okunjalo kuzofundisa ingane ukuba iziphathe nabantu, babambelele etafuleni, bathola izivakashi. Ngabonga amaholide anjalo, ngangilungiselela isikhathi eside, ngabonana nonina, weza nezimanga nemincintiswano.
Izindaba ezihlangene zizoletha uthando ngokusebenza enganeni. Kungcono lapho intombazane isiza umama, futhi umfana ungubaba. Isibonelo, indodakazi yami ihlala ingisiza ukuba ngilayishe futhi ngilayishe izingubo zangaphansi emshinini wokuwasha, ngiqala amabili ngomsila wonyaka. Amadodana nobaba angenza okuphakelayo kwezinyoni, alungise ishalofu eliphukile. Okokuqala, kwanele ukuletha nokugcina amathuluzi.
Nikeza ingane ukuba ivuthwe. UMaxim usuka eminyakeni emibili ubudala uletha isihlalo sikagogo lapho efika evakashele. UMama Maxim akakaze ambuze: Ukumbheka, umfana kancane kancane kancane uvumelana nohlelo ngokwakhe.
Izimo zemodeli. Wena nengane nizoba nomkhankaso wethiyetha noma ewela isikhathi eside, lapho isimo esingajwayelekile futhi kunemithetho yokuziphatha. Noma ngezikhathi ezithile kunciphise izingane esizeni. Ke ngale ndlela ngawe. Splash umbhalo womcimbi olandelayo, bese uwudlala ngezindima.
Khumbula ukuthi izingane zivame ukuziphatha ngokufanele lapho zingenanaka. Yize kunzima, qhubeka nokuzola kwangaphakathi, hlangana neqiniso lokuthi ingane izoziphatha kahle. Yiba yinto ebalulekile. Ngoba ingane ingakhohlwa ukugeza izandla zayo uma igcwele ukuvela kokuhamba, akudingeki ukuthi ihlanze amazinyo ami ekukhathaleni. Nikela ukuze ususe amathoyizi ndawonye, imvamisa ingane enenjabulo nayo ihambisana nabazali bayo. Noma yini oyikhethayo, ungalindi ukuthola imiphumela esheshayo. Thanda ingane yakho futhi ungakhohlwa: Wesibonelo esiyinhloko kuye.
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