Ukukhula kwemisebenzi kunikezwa abesifazane ubunzima kakhulu kunamadoda. Akekho umuntu ophikisana nalokhu, ngoba sonke siyaqonda izici nobunzima bokwakha umsebenzi ezweni lethu. Futhi lesi akusona isitatimende sevoti, kuqinisekiswa ngocwaningo oluningi lapho abantu baphawula khona ukuthi abantu baphawula abantu, hhayi ubulili obulungile, maningi amathuba okuba akhuphule ileli lomuntu.
Izimo ezinjalo zivame ukuholela ekuqubukeni komuzwa wokungakwazi ukusiza nokuzethemba kokungakwazi kwabo ukuthola ukwanda. Kepha akunjalo, noma yimuphi umfazi angaphumelela emsebenzini wakhe uma uzozilungiselela kahle.
Zibeke umgomo
Isinyathelo sokuqala esiya emsebenzini ophumelelayo ukubekwa okuyikho komgomo. Amadoda nabesifazane abaningi awawunaki lo mthetho, sichitha isikhathi esithe xaxa ekuhlelweni kweholide noma sihamba ngosuku, kodwa cishe asicabangi ngalokho esifuna ukukufeza enkundleni yethu yobungcweti.
Umsebenzi wakhiwa njengesakhiwo, futhi kudinga uhlelo olucatshangwe kahle futhi luhlanganiswe iphrojekthi, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuba kwenzeke kuqala. Udinga ukuphendula imibuzo yakho:
- Yini ofuna ukuyithola ekugcineni?
- Uyini umgomo wakho?
- Iziphi izinyathelo ezidinga ukukwenza ukufeza lokho okufunayo?
Kufanele ukwazi ukusondela kwinhloso, unikezwe amakhono akho. Uma namhlanje usebenza njengesikhonzi, khona-ke emavikini amathathu kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ube ngumphathi wendawo yokudlela.
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Nquma ukuthi kungani udinga impumelelo
Lapho amacebo okuthola impumelelo emsebenzini ayakhiwa, kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi ufuna ukuphumelela kanjani. Izizathu zokufisa impumelelo zingehluke kakhulu:
- Isifiso sokuthola isimo esisha nokuqashelwa;
- Isifiso sokuthola imali eningi ukuthenga imoto, amafulethi noma ukuthola ithuba lokuhamba njalo emhlabeni jikelele;
- Isifiso sokuvela emkhakheni wabo, ungaphezu kwemisebenzi eyisidina, sebenza kumaphrojekthi athokozisayo;
- Isifiso sokukhombisa zonke izimfanelo zalo futhi sibe ngumholi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi ufune ukufisa impumelelo kanye ngenxa yokugcwaliseka ngokwawo, okungenzeka uqobo.
Empeleni, kuhlala kunezizathu ezimbalwa, futhi lapho zikhona, zinamandla ushukumiseleka ukuba uphumelele, impumelelo oyifezile ngempela ehlombe.
Ukuqonda ukuthi yini enikushukumisela ukufeza impumelelo, ungalungiselela kangcono ukukhuthaza izitebhisi zomsebenzi, ngoba uzoqonda ukuthi kungani udinga ukwenza imizamo.
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Lungiselela impumelelo
Owesifazane ngamunye udinga ukulungiselela impumelelo futhi athathe umthwalo wemfanelo womsebenzi ophumelelayo. Impumelelo empilweni yamadoda nabesifazane bayehluka kakhulu izinto. Uma umuntu egxila ezibonelweni ezibonakalayo, owesifazana akakwazi ukukhohlwa yena. Kudingeka azizwe ejabule, ngoba, ukungakhohlwa ngezinhloso zawo, kuyadingeka ukugxila kuye, izihlobo zabo kanye nabathandekayo. Abantu abathandekayo akudingeki bazizwe bekhohliwe futhi benesizungu ngenkathi ukhuphuka izitebhisi zomsebenzi. Futhi akufanele ukhohlwe ukubukeka kwakho nempilo yakho.
Le mpumelelo ifika kowesifazane lapho ethanda kuphela umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa futhi uqobo, izimpilo, ezihlala ngokuvumelana nomzimba kanye nabathandekayo bakhe, zijabulela inqubo, futhi ayithathi indima yendoda.
Inkinga enkulu endleleni eya empumelelweni ibuye ibe nezimo zengqondo nezinhlelo eziningi zokuvimba, sivimba ukwesaba ukuphumelela. Ngamunye wethu wabhekana nokwehluleka okuningi okukhona kukho konke, sasijwayela futhi singasinda kubo, kepha impumelelo yangempela ingamayunithi kuphela. Kepha kufihlwe ngempumelelo hhayi nje kuphela, ukuzibona kanye nezinzuzo ezibonakalayo, kepha nezikhathi eziningi ezingemnandi:
- Ukwesaba ukulahlwa, okuvame ukuqhathaniswa nokwesaba ukufa;
- Ukwesaba ukuvumela amaphutha;
- Ukwesaba ngaphambi komona, njll.
Owesifazane kufanele akhululeke kuzo zonke izingidi ezivimba indlela yakhe eya emsebenzini ophumelelayo. Lapho wazi ngokuvimba ukufakwa, kulula ukukuqaphela ngokwakho, ukuze uqaphele futhi uzisuse. Kulokhu, ukufezekiswa kwempumelelo kuzoba lula futhi kuzothatha isikhathi esincane.