Lapho ukukhulelwa okulindelwe isikhathi eside kungenzeki, owesifazane unemibuzo eminingi: Ingabe kufanelekile ukukhathazeka noma ungalinda ukuthi axhumane nobani nokuthi uzoqala kuphi inhlolovo? Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngaphambili ezinkingeni zokuzala, bekuyisiko ukusola owesifazane. Kodwa-ke, kuvezwa inqwaba yezici namhlanje, okungeyona ukusungulwa kokukhulelwa, okuhlobene ne-potency yabesilisa.
Izizathu eziholela ekungangeni kokuzala, uhlelo oluningi futhi lwenhlolovo lwakhiwa ngendlela yokuthi kancane kancane, kusukela kokulula kuya kokuyinkimbinkimbi, hlola zonke izinto ezingenzeka. Isikhulu se-CEO se- "Republican Center ukuze sikhiqize umndeni wabantu nokuhlela umndeni", u-Andrei Stepanovich Hakobyan, ubhekele imibuzo mayelana nezinkinga zokudideka kwabesilisa.
- U-Andrei Stepanovich, yimuphi umbuthano wemibuzo ongatholakala vele ekwamukelweni kokuqala? Isibonelo, indoda noma umbhangqwana womndeni, owabonakala ngomshado oyinyumba?
- Umuntu waseSoviet kuMthethosisekelo unelungelo lokuthola izifo eziningana ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke uhla lwezinkinga namathuba wocwaningo lubanzi kakhulu. Futhi ngokungathi sína, ochwepheshe bakhethwe eminyakeni edlule benegunya, isipiliyoni kanye namathuba ahilelekile. Sizama ukusuka ezidingweni zomuntu, hhayi emikhubeni yezikhungo kanye nokusebenziseka kwabasebenzi. Kuyakhathaza kakhulu, kepha kunikeza imiphumela ephezulu. Umsebenzi wodokotela ukukholisa abantu ukuthi uma kukhona umndeni, umbhangqwana obozekile, khona-ke yonke eminye imibuzo ehlobene nokukhulelwa nokuzalwa kwengane ekugcineni ekugcineni kuzoxazululwa. Isayensi yezokwelapha kanye nokuzilolonga sekuqongelele ulwazi olwanele, ukusebenza kokwelashwa sekukhuphukile eminyakeni yamuva nje, umphumela usebunjiwe ngokwengeziwe. Ngokuxilongwa okuyisisekelo, indoda inokuhlolwa okwanele, ama-spermograms, ama-ultrasound nohlolo lwe-hormonal. Ngale datha, ukuxilongwa kwenziwa ngezinga eliphakeme lokwethenjwa.
- Uma umbhangqwana ungazalwa ingane, mhlawumbe kukhona uhlobo oluthile lwencazelo ephezulu kakhulu?
- Izimpikiswano ezifanayo azivumelani nesayensi. Ukuzala kwabantu kungahlukahluka, ukuhambisana kokuzala kwabantu kuphakeme kakhulu ngisho nasezingeni elithile. I-genotype i-kaleidoscope yama-amiino acid axhumeke ngokulandelana okuhlukile. Uma umbhangqwana ungenayo yingane iminyaka eminingi, kusho ukuthi akazange abhekane kakhulu nalo mbuzo, noma akazange alethe ekwelashweni kuze kube sekupheleni, noma izindlela zokwelashwa zasetshenziswa, izimo zemitholampilo ezinganele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzala kanye nokungabi namntwana akufanele kudideke.
Isici esibalulekile sokuzala yiminyaka yowesifazane. Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-28, ukwehla okubushelelezi ekukhuleni kwalo kokuzala kuqala, ngemuva kwamashumi amane - ingozi yokuguqulwa kwezakhi zofuzo iyakhula. Empilweni, ama-95% omkhundla avela ngonyaka wokuqala wobudlelwano bezocansi walombhangqwana ngaphandle kokuvikelwa, ngakho-ke ngemuva konyaka wokuphila, kuyavunyelwa ukukhuluma ngokuthi "umshado ongenazithelo." Phambilini, leli cala lalilingana neminyaka emi-2, nase-USA namanje - iminyaka emi-4.
Umkhuba ophambili ukufezekiswa kokukhulelwa okudingayo ngokushesha okukhulu kusukela ngesikhathi sokujikeleza kwegazi. Yize imiphumela emihle yokwelashwa ingafinyeleleka futhi kwabesifazane iminyaka engama-45-50. Okomuntu, isici sobudala asibalulekanga kangako, yize amadoda asebekhulile avame ukuzalwa kwezingane ezinokukhubazeka kwengqondo, ikakhulukazi, nge-autism. Umbono ophumelelayo wokuthi ngeminyaka "yekhwalithi" yezingane iphakeme, ikhuthazwe ukuvuthwa komuntu siqu nezombusazwe kwabantu, ukulungela kwabo umzali, ikhono nesifiso sokudlulisela okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo nolwazi. Ucwaningo lweminyaka yamuva lukhombisa ukuthi amandla okuzalwa asanda kuzalwa athuthukiswa futhi athe xaxa kunalokho obekubhekwa ngaphambili. Ubuchopho bosanda kuzalwa buyi-matrix eyingqayizivele yemininingwane yokuqoshwa kwerekhodi okugayiwe kusukela okokuqala kwisithwali "esihlanzekile". Emindenini nabazali abadala, izimo zengqondo ezibhekise ezinganeni zinenhlonipho ngokwengeziwe, zilingana. Izingane zizwela kakhulu kulezi zimpawu.
- ERussia, ingxenye yabesifazane beminyaka yokuzala ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, kufaka phakathi ubungane bezocansi, abanabalingani bezocansi, phezulu. Yini odokotela beluleka kulokhu?
- Ingane eyodwa owesifazane ufuna ukubeletha kunoma yikuphi, kungakhathalekile ukutholakala komlingani, ukuphepha, izindawo nesikhathi sokuhlala. Yebo, kanye nokwehluka okukhulu enanini lamaqembu ezocansi abesifazane kanye nabesilisa bathinta kuphela iminyaka yobudala. E-Russia, imithetho elawula ubuchwepheshe bokuzala, okukodwa okunenkululeko emhlabeni, namuhla ibona ilungelo lowesifazane onesizungu ukufaka ubuchwepheshe bokusiza bokusiza ngaphandle kwesimo somshado. Ngokubona kwami, kufanele kusizakale ngokuvela kwanoma iyiphi ingane efiselekayo nenempilo. Konke okunye - okwesibili, ama-Dares. Futhi umuntu uzozalwa.
- Ake sibuyele emadodeni. Uma udokotela etholakele - ukungabi namandla ...
- Amandla okuphila ngokocansi afakwa ngokusemthethweni ezindini "zekhwalithi yempilo" kungakhathalekile iminyaka yendoda. Ngokuqondene negama elithi "Ukungasebenzi", ngezizathu zokuziphatha kusuka kulokhu kubhekiswa kokuxilongwa, umuthi usenqabile isikhathi eside. I-Erectile dysfunction ilinganiselwa ku-5-interward yokuhlukaniswa, lapho u-0 ukungabi khona kokwephulwa, futhi u-5 ukuhluleka kokuya ocansini okuphelele. Ithi indoda: "Awunamandla" ungaba khona ongafundile hhayi onothando. Ngemuva kwakho konke, endodeni lapho konke kuhamba kahle nge-potency? Lapho efuna ukuhlala lapho enemali, unentshisekelo, uyazibona. Futhi lapho enesimo se-shust, uxoshwa, kukhona ukwesaba ukujeziswa kobugebengu - kusebenza. I-95% yokuxilongwa kwemitholampilo, ehambisana nokuphazamiseka kwezocansi, yimiphumela yokudangala. Futhi ukubuyiselwa kuzothatha isikhathi.
Konke kuzoncika kulokho anakho indawo ezungezile, yimuphi umndeni, ukuthi yini i-psychotype, yisiphi isiko azothembisana kulo magazini.
Namuhla, ikakhulukazi ngokufika kweqembu elisha lezidakamizwa zokwelashwa kwe-dysfunction ye-erectile, amathuba okulondolozwa kokwelashwa anwetshwe kakhulu. Isibonelo, inani lemisebenzi yokuhlehlisa i-penis cishe izikhathi eziyishumi sehle, inani lezikhalo zochwepheshe ezinciphile lincishisile, iningi lezikhalazo eziyinhloko lidlula odokotela bemindeni, odokotela abajwayelekile. Le yinkambiso yomhlaba wonke.
Isayensi yekhulu le-XXI iba ukucindezelwa okuhambisana nezimo zokuphila komuntu emphakathini. Cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngamaphesenti angama-95 amacala, ukudangala kwamadoda kuhambisana nokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile: I-erection iwohloka, ukwesaba ukwehluleka ukulinda kuyanda. Ngokuvumelana nalokhu, inani labaxhumana ngocansi liyancishiswa. Nakhu okuvame ukuba mkhulu ngababili ababili kanye nodokotela ukubhala yonke into ku- "Prostatitis", "Ukugoma", "inselelo eneminyaka yobudala" nezinye izitembu ezinobudlelwano obuncane kuya koqobo, kepha vumela isikhathi esithile ukubambezela Isinqumo senkinga - noma ngabe kuyinkinga yezokwelapha emsulwa noma inkinga yobudlelwano bokubambisana kwezocansi. Kungokugcina kuqinisekisa amandla emindeni, amakhaya. Isici esinamandla sempilo yabesilisa singowesifazane uqobo.
- Mangaki amadoda aphendukela kuwe?
- Imibhangqwana yemindeni eyayihlala ndawonye isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka, ifuna ingane, kepha ayikwazi ukuyiqala, akukho mfundi. Yebo, iziguli eziningi ezinokukhubazeka ekuthuthukisweni, zinciphe ukusebenza kwezocansi, i-anomaly.
Manje u-Andraology, ukuzala, ukubizwa okuningi okubizwa ngokuthi "Ochwepheshe" bazibandakanye. Kepha, ake sithi, ichibi leziguli ze-andrological lihlakazekile kakhulu futhi likhomba ukuthi uCharlatan akulula, ngakho-ke bavame ukuthatha iminyaka emibili noma emithathu ngo "ukwelashwa" okungenamsebenzi ngaphambi kokuba kufike ochwepheshe. Ngokuvamile, njenge-arwimanimanate sphere, ama-40% kuphela kaSteam, atholakala athola ukungazali noma ukungabi namandla, finyelela kudokotela. I-15-20% yelashwa.
- Kepha banjani, ngiyaxolisa, baziphatha ngocansi, uma begula?
- Ngandlela thile shintshana. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukungakhethi kwe-edectile, futhi isici sengqondo siyasebenza. Owesifazane udlala indima enkulu: ngohlobo oluthile lowesifazane indoda lungakwazi, kodwa ngohlobo oluthile lwe - ngokwezigaba no. Ngine-athikili ngalesi sihloko, esibizwa ngokuthi "isici sowesifazane ekusebenziseni kwabesilisa." Konke kuncike kowesifazane, kusukela ngendlela yokuziphatha kwakhe, ukuqonda kwayo ngenkinga. Umthethosisekelo wezocansi uyinkomba entantayo.
Hhayi-ke, indoda iza ekwamukelweni, akakwazi wena, njengompristi, atshele impilo yami yonke?
- Kungenzeka. Imvamisa kwenzeka kanjena: unyaka wendoda noma izimpilo ezimbili emshadweni. Akukho ukukhulelwa, yize azi ukuthi abanye besifazane bekhulelwe kuye phambi kwakhe. Njengomthetho, owesifazane waqala ochwepheshe, wabheka, wayelungile. Watshelwa: "Indoda yakho kufanele ibe kudokotela we-andrologist, yesandla phezu kwesidoda." Futhi lapha kunezinkinga ezinkulu zengqondo zendoda. Ngani? Kuthiwani uma bethola okuthile? Kwabaningi, le yinhlekelele. Ngakho-ke, kukhona okokufaka kwesithiyo. Kepha uma lo mbhangqwana unesifiso sokuphathwa, khona-ke yonke imibuzo ixazululwa. Futhi ingane izoba, umndeni uyokwenza. Kepha kukhona abangamelana nalezi zivivinyo, ngoba bobabili bathule, futhi umbuzo uhlala ungaxazululiwe. Balala ndawonye, bavuke, futhi umbuzo usekhona. Futhi kusukela kulokhu ngeke uhambe nomaphi, iminyaka ihamba. Futhi imvelo, nabazali - wonke umuntu uyaqonda futhi athule kahle, kepha akukuhle emphefumulweni. Nokuzethemba endodeni kuyawa.
Uma lo mbhangqwana welashwa ngokuzala, okokuqala ngibacela ukuba bahlangane, bese ngithumela owesifazane ukuba ahlale egumbini lokuphumula. Ingxoxo nendoda nowesifazane bachitha ngokwahlukana.
- Kungani? Kukhona okuthile owesifazane akudingeki azi ngendoda yakhe? Yini izimfihlo?
- Iqiniso lokuthi bangumndeni abasasho ukuthi bayinto eyodwa futhi inetha. Akudingeki bazi izikhathi eziningi ngomunye nomunye. Isibonelo, ngikholwa ukuthi indoda ayidingi ukuba esibhedlela somama ngesikhathi sokuzalwa konkosikazi. Lokhu konke kuwubuwula obekwe yisiko laseNtshonalanga. Ingabe ungudokotela ohambisana nokuzalwa kwengane? Kukude nesiko lethu lobu-Orthodox, sinomqondo wesono, ububi, ukusondelana. Futhi emadodeni amaningi abona ukuzalwa kwengane, igazi, izinkinga zengqondo zaqala.
Lapho indoda ekwamukelweni ihlala yedwa, imbangela yezinkinga isethwe ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Kuthinta malini ukudonsa kwe-erectile kanye nokuzala ukuze usebenzise utshwala ne-nicotine?
- Akukho mqondo "ngokudidiyela". Imithi emithanjeni emikhulu nayo ingaba ubuthi. Yini, ayidingi utshwala? Isidingo, lapho udinga ukufudumala, ususe ukucindezela, ukuze uphumule. Ugwayi ofanayo ukwehla kwamazinga e-cholesterol, ukucindezelwa. Lapho udinga ukukhetha kusuka kuthukuthele kwababili, udinga ukukhetha okuncane.
Ngakho-ke, akunakwenzeka ukusho ngokungalingani ngezingozi zotshwala nogwayi. Uma lokhu kugcinwa yiMillennia emasikweni, khona-ke kunezincazelo ezithile.
- Uma umbhangqwana ungazalwa ingane, mhlawumbe kukhona uhlobo oluthile lwencazelo ephezulu kakhulu? Akufanele zibe ndawonye, noma ingane akufanele ize kulomhlaba?
- Lona ngumqondo we-loser. Zonke izizathu zingafakwa futhi ziqedwe. Ukuhambisana kokuzala kwabantu kuphakeme kakhulu. Uma umbhangqwana ungenayo ingane iminyaka eminingi - lesi yisimo sengqondo esingafundile ngempilo yakho. Vele, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ungacabangi enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu - iminyaka yowesifazane. Kuneziqongo zekhono lokuzala. Njengokulindelekile, eminyakeni engama-25, baphakeme kunaseminyakeni eyi-36-40.
- Futhi emva kwakho konke, u-Andrei Stepanovich, uphendule umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu: Kungenzeka yini ukuthi wenze isikhathi eside sowesilisa futhi yini umuntu okufanele awenze?
- Kuyadingeka hhayi kuphela indoda. Kuyadingeka kowesifazane. (Ehleka.) Okokuqala - kuyadingeka ukudla okuncane. Lesi yisici esiyinhloko, esibi kakhulu kunotshwala, okubi kakhulu ukubhema - i-hypodynamia kanye nokukhuluphala. I-testosterone, ekhiqizwayo futhi edingekayo yemisebenzi yezocansi nokuheha, iya ekondleni amanoni. Uma isisu sikabhiya sine-testosterone, ungabheki i-testosterone. Ngaphandle kwakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu hhayi ukwehlisa isisindo, kepha ungalulami. Abesifazane banemidlalo eyingozi ngesisindo. Okwesibili yinto ebaluleke kakhulu - lesi yisimo se-psyche. Isici sokuxineka siyanquma. Ukuqina kwesimo esisebenza emsebenzini, okukuhle kuzoba khona isilinganiso sama-hormone anikeza inqubo yokulawulwa kwe-smptogeneis. Ingcindezi ishaya yonke into yowesilisa. Owesifazane, ngendlela, angavusa ngaphansi komshini womshini. Lapha, yonke imibono yokuthuthuka yalesi sifo iqala, iNhloko yalesi sifo iyaqala: Waqala ukubhekela ekhanda emsebenzini, le ndoda ikhuphuka ingcindezi, iTachycardia yathuthuka, i-metabolite yaphonswa emzimbeni. Uma kuvuliwe, umzimba uzokwazi ukubhekana nalokhu, futhi uma kwenzeka ngokwenzeka kaningi, iminyaka, iqala ungqimba emzimbeni wabesilisa. Konke kudinwa ngokumelene nesitoko: Omunye ushesha ukwedlula ukwehla, othile uyahamba kancane. Kepha ngaphansi kwethonya lokucindezela noma kunjalo kuyafika.
- Futhi uma kungekho ngcindezi, indoda ibukele impilo yayo, ingabe ineminyaka emingaki athandwa ngabesifazane? Ingabe empeleni kuma-20 angokoqobo?
- Inqobo nje uma indoda ishaya inhliziyo, yena neminyaka eyikhulu namashumi ayisikhombisa kuzoba isikhathi eside sokoduna. Uyakwazi ukukhiqiza inzalo futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umuntu enempilo futhi engahlupheki, ikhwalithi "yenqubo" ayiguquki ngeminyaka. Kukhona ukwehla kwe-testtone, kepha hhayi ku-zero. Kodwa-ke, ngeshwa, umphakathi wama-asebekhulile ubhala futhi wadlulisela kumkhulu. EYurophu, amadoda aneminyaka engamashumi ayisikhombisa aphila empilweni yocansi futhi akhona lapho. Uma kungekho kudakwa okungapheli, indoda ayiguli, yena nasemnyakeni wamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye angakhulelwa ingane. Lokhu kuyasebenza nasekusebenzeni kobuchopho: Uma usebenze ikhanda lami impilo yami yonke, ke ngeminyaka eyikhulu yonke into izolunga ngokuhleleka. Kuyadingeka ukuqeqesha kaningi futhi konke kuzosebenza ...