Umndeni we-Psychotherapy uqoqe ulwazi lokuthi umlando wokhokho bethu uthinta kanjani zonke izizukulwane ezilandelayo. Idluliselwa ngendlela yezinganekwane, izinganekwane, onkulunkulu, ama-lullabies ezingane, kancane kancane ziqhutshwa yithi ezimweni ezithile.
Isibonelo, uma uhlola umlando wohlobo lwakho, singabona ukuhlangana okungajwayelekile:
Abesifazane bashada futhi babelethe izingane ezinokuphumula okufanayo ukuthi omama babo, ogogo nabo nogogo omkhulu;
Amadoda ngenye indlela eyinqaba enezimpawu ezifanayo zomlingiswa, imikhuba kanye nezifo;
· Emndenini ezizukulwaneni eziningi, akekho ongeke ube nemfundo ephakeme kungenzeka angahlangane, yize kungekho okholisayo futhi awenzi izingane zifunde.
Kungenzeka singazi nezeningi zalezo zehlakalo ezenzeka kokhokho bethu. Futhi ungalokothi wazi uma kungewona amaphupho ethu.
Ukulala kuyilo ulwazi oluqondile esiluthola kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu okuqongelelekile kanye nensimu yomndeni jikelele ongazi lutho.
Ake sibheke ndawonye iphupho lomunye wabafundi, owavuka, yi-Association abopha leli phupho ngezihlobo zabo.
"Mina nomyeni wami siya olwandle, siyahamba umntwana womyeni wami emshadweni wakhe wokuqala. Kepha ngasizathu simbe ingane ifihle ingane. Emijahweni kukhona isitimela, namakhanda alo, okungukuthi, i-diesel locomotive, ngasizathu simbe. Wayefihliwe.
Akekho owaziyo ukuthi ukuphi.
Isitimela sikwelinye lemigqa, futhi ingozi yenzeka emugqeni olandelayo ngakwesokudla. Umshayeli walesositimela, owangena ngengozi, ejele ejele.
Izinhlangano zithi: Umugqa wesitimela uluhlobo lwami, futhi umshayeli ungumkhulu oxhumene naye okuthile. "
Sizoqala ukuhlaziya iphupho ekusungulweni kokulala kanye nemicabango yephupho ngalesi sihloko.
Okokuqala, ukulala kufakwe ngokuthile okufihliwe. Ngesizathu esithile, ingane iyacasha, bese ifihla i-locomotive yedizili. Ukulala kunombhalo wokuthi kwenzekani kuwo kufanele kube yimfihlo.
Umkhuba wokwelashwa komndeni uthi izimfihlo eziningi zikopishe isizukulwane esedlule, izehlakalo ezinjalo zizophinda kulokhu okulandelayo. Isibonelo, abesifazane abaningi kunzima ukukhulelwa futhi bakhuthazelele ingane, futhi uma ubheka udaba lwabo, kuvela ukuthi umama wakhe noma ogogo bakhe babeyizinto ezingezinhle abangazikhethile abangazikhulumeli.
Ukusuka kulokhu kulala, umnyombo wemfihlo awuqondakali, kepha wonke amaphupho angeziwe akhombisa ukuthi uxhumene nobani.
Okulandelayo - isithombe esiqinile: isitimela ngaphandle kwe-locomotive yedizili, ngaphandle kwekhanda lakhe.
Futhi kolunye umugqa isitimela singena ngengozi, futhi umshayeli uhleli ejele.
Lokho wukuthi, induku eyodwa (isitimela) ayihambi ndawo, njengoba kungekho ugandaganda, kanti umzuzwana ubekezelela ingozi ngenxa yephutha lomshayeli. Iphupho lithi kuyo yonke imigqa ejwayelekile "ekhanda", isb., Ikhanda lohlobo alukho noma lwenza into engamukeleki.
Futhi i-granidian yabhala ukuthi isitimela sinesitimela ngakwesokudla. Ukwelashwa komndeni kubopha uhlangothi lwesokunene lomzimba wethu noyise, kwathi kwesobunxele - kanye nonina. Lokhu kumane kuyasebenza: izifo ngakwesokunene somzimba zibonisa ukungqubuzana noma izinhlungu maqondana nobaba, nangakwesobunxele - ebudlelwaneni nomama.
Ingozi emgqeni yenze umshayeli ngakwesokunene, ngakho-ke kungacatshangwa ukuthi le "ingozi", uhlobo oluthile lwenhlekelele, lwenzeka emndenini kaYise.
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UMaria Zemskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wezengqondo womndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kokukhula komuntu siqu kweSikhungo Sokuhweba uMarika Hazin.