Ngaphezu kwesisodwa kule kholamu, abantu bathumela imibono yabo yokuthi amaphupho ama-harbinger ento embi, embi futhi ebabazekayo. Kunezimpawu ezihlukile zokulala "okungalungile" kufanele zitshelwe ekuseni ukuze zingafezeki.
Asiqondi amaphupho, futhi sifuna ukuxhumana kwawo ngeqiniso lephupho. Ukwelashwa kweGestalt kusho ukuthi yonke into ngaphandle kwezithombe zamaphupho iyingxenye yobuntu bethu obuhle. Futhi, njengaku-Google Play, siyabona ukuthi lezi zingxenye ziholwa kanjani ngezingxoxo nomunye.
Lapha, ngokwesibonelo, elinye lamaphupho alindelekile, abaphendukela kuye:
"Sihamba nomyeni wakhe ngemoto, kodwa endaweni kaLenin, enye imoto indiza futhi iwela emfuleni. Ngikhala nomyeni wami ukuthi ngu-Ivan (umngani wakhe). Siyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama, futhi umyeni wami uyama. Ugxumela emfuleni, bengilokhu ngiphuma. Ngemuva kwalokho ngibona umyeni, kuphuma ebumnyameni - eyodwa nayo yonke imanzi '.
Uma sisebenzisa imigomo ye-Gewalt Therapy, echazwe ngenhla, kuvela ukuthi umyeni owaphuthuma ukukhipha umngane ovela emotweni yizinhlangothi zamanye amaphupho. Futhi umngani ondiza ngemoto ungene emfuleni uyafana. Ngisho neLenin Square, izimoto nezinye izimfanelo zokulala zinemiphefumulo ethile.
Ngokusekelwe kule ndlela, kungashiwo ukuthi ukulala kuveza ukwethuka kokulahleka kokulahleka phambi kwenkosikazi yakhe. Kwezinye isihloko, uvame ukuphelelwa amandla futhi andize amafreyimu abo (lesi sithombe somngane ondiza emotweni emfuleni).
Olunye uhlangothi luthambekele ekubambeni konke okulawulwa. Futhi usephusheni, futhi umyeni ophuthumile ekusindisweni, kodwa uphume emanzini amanzi nanye.
Ngendlela, isithombe samanzi angokomfanekiso siyimizwa. Uma ubheka kuleli phuzu lokubukwa, khona-ke amadoda, abesilisa - ahlobene nemizwa, nemizwa yokushaywa nokwethuka. Abesilisa yilabo "abacwilisa" ngephupho kulezi zinhlango (bobabili amadoda ephusheni - bandiza bagxumela emfuleni).
Ngiphakamisa ukukhombisa kulo mbono. Ukulala akukona ngomuntu nomuntu. Amaphupho ethu azosuka nangathi, azame lapho asuse khona ukulawula nokuhlangenwe nakho kokuhlangenwe nakho, asivumele ukuba sisho iqiniso lethu.
Kepha-ke, ngabona esimweni sokuthi ukuhunyushwa okunembe kakhulu okungokombhali wokulala.
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin