Imbongi yase-Ireland Robert Lind yake yathi: "Ekubuleleni phakathi komalume, umshana wabo kanye nabashana babo kukhona okuthile ngokuphelele ngokungafani nabanye. Le nkampani inomshana wayo kanye nomshana wabo bayazi ukuthi bangamalungelo abantu abanelungelo. Isikweletu sesikweletu ngandlela thile sibuthaka: abanazibopho ngaphandle kokuba bajabule. " Futhi ngempela! Ngenkathi abazali bephula amakhanda abo ngendlela yokwenza isifundo sengane e-top esihlanu futhi kukhona iphalishi lesidlo sasekuseni, okuwukuphela komsebenzi wezihlobo eziseduze umnikelo wokuphepha nothando oluzungezile. Nawa amanye amathiphu, ukuthi ungawakha kanjani ubudlelwano obuhle nabashanali:
Ukuxhumana ngokulingana
Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokusungula ubudlelwano nezingane ukuthola umbono wabo. Ake sithi umile ewindini lesitolo nge-ayisikhilimu futhi awukwazi ukukhetha phakathi kwama-sitrobheli noshokoledi. Buza umshana oneminyaka emihlanu ukuthi uzokweluleka ukuthi uthathe futhi ulandele ukukhetha kwakhe. Uzobona amehlo engane etholwa ekuziqhenyeni. Izingane ngenxa yobudala zivame ukungabukelwa phansi, ngakho-ke uma ugxila ekululekeni zawo, kwakha ubuhlobo obuseduze phakathi kwakho nokwethenjwa.
Funda ukuzilibazisa kwezingane ngenzalo
Thola isiko elihle
Uma abalandeli bemishana bakho abavela eHarry Potter, bamnikele ngochungechunge lwamafilimu ndawonye. Hlangana ngezimpelasonto, pheka i-popcorn bese uphuza ulamula - ukwehla kwesikhashana kwemodi yokulala nemithetho yamandla kuzosiza isimo sengane. Ngamantombazane okupheka amaphayi kanye ne-leopame chafts kusuka epulasitiki. Umsebenzi ungaba yinoma yimuphi, into esemqoka ukuthi nobabili nithole injabulo eqotho kuyo. Landela iqiniso lokuthi ufunda ngentshisekelo, abuke futhi alalele ingane, khona-ke nakanjani awulahlekelwa ngamathikithi ekhonsathi yomculi wakho owuthandayo noma ifilimu kuma-movie wakho owathandayo noma ifilimu kuma-movie.
Thintana nabo mathupha
Uma izihlobo zakho ezincane zihlala kude, lesi akusona isizathu sokukhonjwa nabo kuphela ngosuku lokuzalwa. Ukuxhumana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, xhuma ekuxhumaneni kwevidiyo bese ubhala izinhlamvu zamaphepha. Awukwazi ukucabanga ukuthi kuzoba nengane eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala ukuthola incwadi yangempela enikelwe kuye ngesandla. Zama ukuthola okungenani izinsuku ezimbalwa ukundiza ukuze uvakashele futhi uvame ukubabiza eholidini lakho. Ngenkathi ungenazo izingane zakho, kubalulekile ukukhokha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka kulabo abadinga ukwesekwa ngempela - umshana omncane.
Kuvame ukubiza izingane ukuthi zivakashele
Ube yintombi engcono
Hhayi njalo ezinganeni ezivela ekwakheni ubuhlobo obuseduze nabazali. Uma umncane emndenini futhi udadewabo wakudala noma umfowabo omdala uzokhulisa izingane, kungenzeka ukuthi ungaba umhlahlandlela ngenxa yomehluko omncane wobudala. Lapho abasebasha bezokhuluma ngemfundo yezocansi, izinyembezi zezocansi, ngemuva kwenoveli engaphumelelanga futhi basize bafunde i-algebra ezondayo, ungakwenza lokhu ngenxa yokuthola okusha kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kulezi zinkinga. Ngikholwe, izingane ezinjengakho zizokhumbula usizo lwakho futhi zimbonge.