Namuhla, isimo yilapho usuku lokuqala lokuqomisana luvame ukuphela kocansi, kwaba cishe okujwayelekile. Ukutholakala kocansi "kuvaliwe" ngamehlo amaningi ezingozini zokuthi ukuxhumana okunjalo kungaletha. Yebo, ngandlela thile kuba yi-adventure, kepha imiphumela ingaba kude nenjabulo, yibo ochwepheshe abasixwayisa ngawo. Namuhla siqoqene nezinganekwane eziphambili lapho abesifazane abaningi bevumelana ngokokuxhumana okungazelelwe.
Inganekwane # 1. "Uma egula, kuzobonakala."
Ukutheleleka ngocansi kuphela kumacala angavamile futhi agijimayo avela ngaphandle, kwezinye izimo awusoze waqagela "isixha" sokuthi umlingani ongahleliwe angakunika lona. Kepha indoda engavamile iya ephathini yephathi futhi ikhombise intombazane yayo efana. Ngisho namadoda abukeka epholile kakhulu angaphandle kude nobuntu be-ASocial kungaba abathwali besifo esiyingozi. Akufanele uthembele ezwini elithembekile lendoda ehlebeza amagama amnandi kuwe kusihlwa, ligijimela egumbini lamahhala - ungazikhohlisi.
Inganekwane # 2. "Akekho umuntu okufanele akhathazeke ngokuphepha?"
Cishe wonke umuntu wesifazane uyaqiniseka ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu onikela ngocansi, empeleni uthathe ikhondomu naye. Kepha nakhu yiliphi ibhizinisi: Indoda, nayo, inethemba lokuthi lona wesifazane uphuza "amaphilisi omlingo." Ngenxa yalokho, bobabili abazilungiselele ukuba wedwa, kodwa futhi benqabe ukuxhumana okungavamile ukuthi ngubani ozovuma. Ngenxa yalokho oxhumana naye ongavikelekile - isigqebhezana kudokotela we-veveEdologist. Uma umuntu enqaba ukushayela ekhemisi ngezindlela zokuvimbela inzalo futhi ngokunethezeka ngokusondelana, anikele "i-adventure" enjalo, ngoba impilo yakho ibaluleke kakhulu kunokubalekela injabulo.
mayelana nokuphepha kufanele bacabange zombili
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Inganekwane # 3. "Masinyane kuzocaca uma ngibhekana"
Futhi ngeke sivume. Noma ngabe ngesinye isikhathi ukwazile ukugwema ukutheleleka noma ungakhulelwa, akekho ozonikeza isiqiniseko sokuthi ubulili obulandelayo obungahleliwe ngeke bunikeze "umlilo ongafanele." Kwesinye isikhathi ukuya ocansini nomlingani waphakade kuza, kuphoqelela ingxenye yesibili ukuba ifune ukuzijabulisa ohlangothini ngokuqiniseka okugcwele ukuthi lokhu kufika kuhlale kunganakwa. Ngenxa yalokhu, itheleleke ngabo bobabili "ofuna i-adventure" kanye nomlingani wayo unomphela, futhi zombili zingase zingakuqapheli ngakho. Akunasidingo sokudalula le ngozi yakho nothandekayo wakho, ngakho-ke noma ngabe awuyena umbhangqwana, ubulili obungahleliwe kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kuphephile.