Mhlawumbe, empilweni ngayinye yethu kwakukhona umuntu obezosenza sikholwe ukuthi amadoda abheka abesifazane njengento engenangqondo futhi akukho okunye. Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kepha amadoda anjalo ahlangana, kepha awahlali abona kalula. Sinikeza izibonakaliso ezi-6 zokuthi le ndoda ayinayo inhloso enkulu kuwe, nokuthi ikwenze kanjani - Qhubeka nobudlelwano noma uqedele - kufanele uzinqumele.
Uthola imiyalezo kuyo futhi izingcingo kuphela kusihlwa.
Imvamisa indoda engahleleli ukufaka ukuxhumana kwesikhathi eside nowesifazane, inikeze amahora athile, ake sisho, uxhumana kuphela ekugcineni kosuku olusebenzayo ngezinsuku zesonto - uphawu olubi kakhulu, uma ubale okuthile okungaphezulu kwalokho umbhede nje.
Akuwona wonke amadoda asike umlingani ohlala njalo
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Uhlala enawe othandana naye
Vele, kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana kukhona amahlaya "ngaphansi kwebhande", noma kunjalo, lapho izingqikithi ezisondelene ziba yingxenye yanoma iyiphi ingxoxo yakho, kufanelekile ukucabanga ukuthi ngokuvamile phakathi kwakho. Ngendoda elungiselelwe kanzima, kuhle kakhulu ukuba nentshisekelo kungeyona kuphela lokho okugqokayo ngaphansi kwengubo, kodwa nokuthi ufudumale kangakanani ngaphambi kokuphuma endlini.
Awukaze ube nosuku lwangempela
Yebo, akubona bonke abantu abathambekele embonweni, abaningi nje kunzima nje ukuveza imizwa yabo, noma kunjalo, ngisho nabesilisa 'abayinkimbinkimbi' bazokunika ukuba baqonde ukuthi ubaluleke kakhulu kuye, enye into yilapho umlingani engakheki khona Wena kunezinhlelo ezihamba phambili, kuleli cala nezinsuku zokusebenzisa imali eyengeziwe yesikhathi nemali.
angazama ukuhlala kude
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Akafuni ukuba nesidlo sasekuseni
Uchitha usuku oluphelele olungapheli ubulili obuhle kakhulu, kepha esikhundleni sokukumboza futhi ngikufisela okuhle, le ndoda iqala ukusikisela ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhlonipha nokuhlonipha ukwazi. Isizathu singaba noma yimuphi: ekuseni kakhulu ukusukuma, thatha ugogo kudokotela, umfowenu ufika ekuseni - noma yini, ukube nje uhambile. Uma lesi simo siphindwa ngezikhathi ezithile, khuluma nendoda ngokungathi sína.
Awukho "kubangani" kunoma iyiphi inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu
Uma owesilisa engakujabulisi "kuma-akhawunti akho, mhlawumbe akafuni ukwazi okukuzungezile ngawe. Isinqumo esingajwayelekile lapho abantu bekha ubuhlobo obungathi sína. Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu akayona umsebenzisi osebenzayo we-Instagram efanayo, kuleli cala kungaba izaba. Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi unabangane nomndeni empilweni yangempela, lapho okungenani kanye, kepha kufanele uwele, kepha uma lokhu kungenzeki, buza umbuzo ngqo.
Akangeni ezindabeni zakho
Uhlangane ne-cafe: ube nesonto elicebile futhi ngeke ulinde ukutshela wonke umuntu wakho, kepha esikhundleni somuntu othakazelayo uthola ukubukeka okunesithukuthezi, uhlala ebheka iwashi, kube sengathi likuthatha isikhathi esithile sakho bavunyelwe ukuthi "balandise". Ngeke akubuze imibuzo ngomndeni wakho, abangane, akunandaba. Cabanga uma udinga ubudlelwane obunjalo.
Uma engangenisi abangane bakhe - uphawu olubi
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