Izingxabano ezibhangqa zingenzeka hhayi kuphela ngesisekelo sokungabikho kocansi, kodwa futhi lapho izifiso nomsebenzi kutholwa. Ozakwethu beLibido ehlukahlukene benzeke isivivinyo samanje, bezama ukulungisana. Kepha yini isidingo sezocansi ancike kuye nokuthi yiziphi izinto ochwepheshe babela? Kulokhu sazama ukuthola.
Obani "abaningi
Ososayensi abathathwa baphikise ukuthi isifiso esikhanyayo siye kwenzeka kwamaqembu athile ezenhlalo namasiko, kepha kukhona izibalo ezithile "ezigcizelela" abantu abazinzile kakhulu, futhi ngasikhathi sinye basebenzise inzalo kusho cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwaqhutshwa nokuvota, imiphumela yayo yahlatshwa umxhwele ngochwepheshe: Kwavela ukuthi abesifazane bafuna ucansi oluhlatshwe kabili kunabesilisa, yize kukholakala ukuthi kunzima ukwenza ngaphandle kwengxenye yezocansi.
Ngaphezu kwezici zangaphandle, kukhona nezinto eziphilayo ngazinye ezingancishiswa.
Funda ukuqonda isimo somunye nomunye
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Ingemuva le-Hormonal
Ukuheha ngokocansi kungenxa yebhalansi efanelekile ye-NeuroTransmitters, ngokwesibonelo, izinga le-Dopamine lithinta ngqo isifiso somuntu ukuthola umlingani wezocansi. Ngokuvamile, umuntu ngamunye ufuna ukukhulisa i-dopamine ngezindlela eziningi, izivuseleli eziningi kakhulu ziyimikhuba emibi. I-testosterone isebenza njenge-testosterone, ne-oxytocin, okusonke ndawonye yenza igazi livele likhanyise, ngalowo mzuzu lapho injabulo yezocansi ifinyelela inani eliphakeme.
Ukuqina Komjikelezo
Uma inqubo yokuvusa emadodeni yenzeka, njengomthetho, ngokwesikimu esifanayo, ukuthi nabesifazane abakulolu hlelo bavame ukuba nzima - ukuhlukunyezwa kokuya esikhathini kungenzeka kunganciphisi i-libido, kodwa futhi 'ubulala' isifiso. Ngokusebenza okujwayelekile kwezitho zokwakha ama-hormone, isifiso esikhulu sowesifazane sivela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwe-ovulation, kepha uma kunezinkinga ezithile ngomjikelezo, futhi ngenxa yalokho aphuthume ukusunduza umfazi ukuthintana, ngakho-ke ku Isimo esinjalo umfazi angakhombisa ukubanda kumlingani wakhe ojwayelekile, angasaphathwa oxhumana nabo abangahleliwe.
Indlela yokuphila engenampilo
Ibhayisekili elingafi ngesilinganiso senani le-vodka ngobuhle besifazane liya ngokuya liphenduka inganekwane. Yebo, "ngaphansi kwezinga elithi" Sizizwa sikhululekile, kepha i-Union Activation ayiqinisekisi okuhlangenwe nakho okuseqophelweni eliphezulu. Le nto ukuthi utshwala bunciphisa izinga le-testosterone, lo mzuzu uthintwe kakhulu yile ndoda, ngoba injabulo yayo iboshelwe kakhulu ezingeni laleli homone. Uma kunotshwala embhalweni wakho - into evamile, kepha impilo yakho yezocansi ihlushwa kulokhu, chitha iziphuzo futhi unikeze iziphuzo ezishisayo okungenani izinyanga ezimbalwa - uzobona ukuthi zimbi kangakanani (ngendlela eyakhayo) kuzoba izinguquko .