Izibalo zesehlukaniso eRussia ziyadabukisa: Ngo-Januwari nje - ngo-Ephreli walo nyaka, cishe imibhangqwana eyizinkulungwane ezingama-150 zancibilika ngokusemthethweni umshado, njengoba imibiko ye-RT idlulisele ngokubhekisisa eRosstat. Akukaziwa ukuthi kwashukumisela labo bantu ukuba bayeke ubudlelwano, kepha into eyodwa icacile - isehlukaniso iba yizinga elibi kakhulu lomndeni. Uma bobabili abantu benesifiso sokugcina inyunyana futhi balondoloze omunye komunye, bese kuthi ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwengama-40, bayobhekana ngokumamatheka, hhayi ngentukuthelo. Uyakwazi ukuthwala uthando ngomlingani ngemuva konyaka.
Ube abangane abangcono
Ubudlelwano obusondelene, izinkanuko ezigcwele nezifiso, ngokungangabazeki, kuhle. Kuliqiniso, ngaphezu kocansi, empilweni yakho kufanele kube nesikhathi sezingxoxo ezingasho lutho futhi kuxoxwe ngezinto ezenzeka ngosuku. Ubungani buqinisa ngokuqinisekile umshado: Akunangqondo ukuguqula umlingani futhi ashiye umuntu owazi ngenhliziyo. Lapho uchitha isikhathi ezingxoxweni, ukusondela kuba khona maqondana nomunye - funda ngezinkinga, imibono nezifiso zomlingani. Kuyasiza ukuhlala kugagasi elifanayo futhi ungachithi isikhathi ku- "sikging" okushiwo amagama ozakwethu lapho ungambuza "Ngabe usho ukuthini?" ngqo.
Thola isikhathi somunye nomunye ochungechungeni lwabadali bomndeni
Bukela ukubukeka kwakho
Ukuheha ngokomzimba ukuthi into yokuqala iyasiheha komunye nomunye ngesikhathi sokuthandana. Gcina umlilo ovuthayo omude, uxhasa ubuncane besimo nobushelelezi besikhumba. Izimpawu zokuguga kungekudala noma kamuva zikufice, kepha uma isikhathi somhlangano nazo zingashukunyiswa iminyaka eyi-10-15, kungani ungakwenzi? Bamba iqhaza ejimini, gijima emoyeni omusha, lisangisa isikhumba futhi uhambe njalo uye e-beautician. Ngokubambisana nobuchopho obuthuthukile nomphefumulo ohlanzekile, awusoze waphelelwa yintshisekelo kuwe, futhi ngenxa yalokho uzoba nentshisekelo kothandekayo. Yebo, futhi akekho okhansela umhawu njengesigqugquzeli entukuthelo: Ukubona ukunaka wena kwamanye amadoda, othandekayo wakho uzokunakekela ngokwengeziwe.
Thola izizathu zokuziqhenya
Dumisa lowo oshade naye imfucumfucu futhi wageza izitsha, njengoba omagazini besifazane bavame ukweluleka, ngoba ngeke sikufundise, ngoba ukunakekelwa kwendlu nezingane kungumsebenzi wakho ojwayelekile. Kepha ukuveza ukubonga ngesixha sezimbali ezingezelelwe ngokungazelelwe noma ukuqhosha kwakho, mnene emyeni wakhe maqondana nalabo abangenakusizakala ngeke kube yinhle. Lapho uthanda indoda yakho futhi uyaziqhenya ngayo, ingabonakala ngeso elinqunu. Futhi njengoba umuntu ungumphakathi, khona-ke ngokudumisa abanye, noma ngubani uyachuma futhi ufuna ukunika umhlane omuhle. Esizokubeka, bese uthola eyanele: Isithandwa sakho sizothulula izincomo ngokuphendula.
Amadoda Ajabule Izipho Abesifazane Abancane
Umusa ngaphandle kwesizathu
Akudingekile ukuphupha ngengubo yoboya ebizayo noma imoto entsha ukunikeza okuthandayo ukwenza i-massage noma uthenge amathikithi e-movie. Abesilisa abakangaphansi kwabesifazane bathokozela ngezipho nothando lapho bebanakekela. Sebenzisa ithuba lokuphakamisa imizwa yoshade naye ngemuva kosuku lokusebenza ngesipho esihle noma umsize ngemisebenzi yasekhaya ukukhulula isikhathi sokudla kwakusihlwa sothando. Ukwenza omunye ujabule, uyazijabulisa wena. Umthetho womshado omude ufisa ngokweqiniso ukuba ndawonye. Ngeke anyamalale noma kuphi uma inyunyana yakho igcwele izikhathi ezimnandi kanye nomoya ovuselelekayo ebusweni emndenini.