Ngeshwa, izinkampani ezimbi ezenziwa esikoleni esiphakeme azizange zihlale esikhathini esedlule, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi zilungise okuthile esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ayikho ingane enomshuwalense ngokumelene nethonya elibi lontanga, kodwa-ke, yiba ngabazali abangenza ukuthi imiphumela yokuzilibazisa okumnandi kakhulu kwengane yabo ngeke idabuke. Yini eyenza omama nobaba esimweni esinzima kangaka?
Akukho ulaka
U-Aggression unikeza ukuphendula ulaka, futhi uma kwenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho iseqenjini lezinye izingane noma intsha, nothisha noma abanye abazali, yinto embi kakhulu ukuthi ingafika ekhanda lakho - Qala ukugxeka ingane yakho, uthuke abangane bakhe abasha bese ubeka ukunqatshelwa kanzima. Uzobiza kuphela ukunganeliseki okubukhali futhi, ngikholwe, ingane izothola izindlela zokudlula kwenqatshelwe futhi ibuyele endleleni yokuphila ejwayelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inhloko yabazali ingaholela ekwenqatshelwe okuphelele, futhi uma ekuqaleni ingane yabiwe ngezikhathi eziningi empilweni yakhe, manje izofihla konke. Khombisa ukubekezela futhi kunganikezi nhlobo - lapho kungekho ukucindezela, kuzothola imininingwane edingekayo izoba lula kakhulu.
Ungagxeki ingane yakho
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Shintsha wena
Imvamisa inkampani embi iba ukushintshwa kwenkampani yabazali. Esikhathini esihlanya sempilo, lapho abazali besuka komunye umsebenzi bangekho ekhaya, kodwa kwelinye isikhundla, kuba nzima kakhulu ukuthola isikhathi sengane. Ingane ifuna indlela yokuphuma esimweni lapho engakwazi ukuxhumana naye, futhi imvamisa imthola emphakathini ongadingekile. Ukusolwa kule ngane kunzima. Zama ukucabanga kabusha indlela yakho yokuphila ukuze ube nesikhathi esanele hhayi wena kanye nokuzilibazisa kwakho, kodwa futhi ngemizwa yomuntu wethu obaluleke kakhulu - ingane yakho.
Ungaphakamisi ingane
Inkinga yokuguqula kabusha - ukhombisa ukunakwa okuningi okungadingekile kwemini yengane, okunzima ukuyibiza nge-negative. Abazali abaningi bayasola ngentshiseko nge-Chad ngomculo ofanayo wedwala, bakubheka njengokuthi umzali eqala ukuhlekisa ngamathalente engane, ekhombisa ukuphakama kwakhe. Njengokulindelekile, ingane izobheka ukwesekwa ezungezwe ontanga, futhi akekho owaziyo ukuthi lezi zingane noma intsha zizoba yini.
Khombisa intshisekelo kubangani bengane yakho
Uyazi ukuthi ngubani okhulumisana nengane yakho? Olunye ulwazi lungaziqhayisa abazali abangavamile, ikakhulukazi labo abasebenza isikhathi esengeziwe. Uqinisekile ukuthi ingane yakho ixhumane nabantu abamthinta kabi? Zama ukuzitholela wena. Bacele ukuba bavakashele, ngokwemvelo, ngokungafanele. Awukwazi ngisho nokuhlela noma yini ngokuqondile, vele unikeze ingane ngandlela thile umeme abangani bakho ukuthi bahlale ekhaya lakho, futhi ngasikhathi sinye, futhi, ukuba sekhaya. Mhlawumbe ngemuva kokujwayela izingane, ushintsha umbono wakho, kunoma yikuphi, uzothola ithuba lokuhlola izinga lengozi mathupha.