"Kuhle ukuthi siphile ngekhulu lama-21, lapho ngisho nezingane ziye zafika isikhathi eside nezimonyo ze-hypoallergenic. Indodakazi yami isivele inezithunzi, amakha, izikhala zezipikili, zikhazimulayo. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi uneminyaka emithathu ubudala, usevele ufuna ukupenda. Ubona indlela engiya ngayo endaweni ethile, ngipenda, ngithi: "Mama, nami ngifuna." Nginikeza izimonyo zakhe, futhi uyaphinda emva kwami. Izingane zami azidli, futhi noma ngabe ndodakazi icela izimonyo zami, angiboni lutho olubi. Imvamisa ukupenda izindebe zakhe ngesibopho sakhe, uyakuthanda, futhi akukho bugebengu kulo. Sake saba amantombazane futhi sathatha isipiniti umama, izithende ziyisigaba esibalulekile sobuntwana bayo yonke intombazane.
Ngokuqondene nezinwele ezinemibala ... Manje sengidweba kalula, upende we-vegan ongahloliwe ezilwaneni, azinangozi ngokuphelele, kubandakanya nomzimba wengane.
Nginombala ogqamile wezinwele ngenxa yokuthi ngikhanyisa izinwele zami. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukukwenza esemncane. Ngokusho kwe-Colorist yami, kuphela kusuka eminyakeni eyi-14-16 ubudala engacacisa izinwele.
Kepha kukhona indlela yokuphuma. Encane, ngokwesibonelo, eminyakeni emi-3, ungapenda izinwele zakho ngemibala - zigeze kahle. Kukhona okuphikelelayo, akukho okuphikelelayo okuncane, kunama-shampoos wethoni. Futhi uma indodakazi yami indodakazi yami isho ngonyaka, ifuna ukupenda izinwele zakhe ngombala opinki, khona-ke ngiyajabula ukuyipenda. Ubuntwana yisikhathi sokuhlolwa. Nini, hhayi ebuntwaneni, kwenze. Lapho-ke ukhula, futhi ungahle ube nokufakwa ekhanda lezinwele ezinemibala nabantu abadala azihambelani. Ngakho-ke, angiboni lutho olubi kulokhu, ngeke nginqabele lutho, lapho ngifuna, khona-ke kuzopenda. Ngikholwa ukuthi umbala wezinwele, noma izimonyo ezithinta imfundo yezwe elingaphakathi lomuntu. Noma efuna ukupenda abe obomvu, ophuzi noma oluhlaza, ngeke nginqamule. "