Nayi iphupho lomunye wabafundi bethu, insizwa:
"Intombi yami ngentombi yami ilala futhi ixhumana ngobuhlobo bethu.
Ngalesi sikhathi ngiyazijwayeza, kepha ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi akuhlali embhedeni, futhi inyamalala endaweni ethile. Futhi-ke ngibheka ngaphansi kwengubo ngibone ukuthi umbhede wami konke kusendle, awuzange uye kuphi, kodwa waphumula nathi embhedeni. "
Leli phupho libonisa ngokuphelele okwenzeka ebudlelwaneni nentombi yakhe.
Kubukeka sengathi ngamazwi konke kubushelelezi futhi kunembile, futhi ngisho nesimo singaphezu kokusondelana. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, ukusondelana kuyachithwa. Ufihla uhlobo oluthile lokungcola ebudlelwaneni babo. Futhi ucabanga ukuthi akuhlali phakathi kwabo, futhi kuyanyamalala endaweni ethile. Eqinisweni, konke lokhu emehlweni, futhi kuba yinhlanganisela.
Abantu abaningi - abesilisa nabesifazane - baphakamisa ukuthi uma abalingani babo bengaphansi kwamaphutha abo, kuzozuzisa ubudlelwano.
Kukhona labo abangasho ukuthi ukudlala ngothando nanoma kushintshile isikhathi eside. Abaningi abasho ukuthi abaneliseke, ukuze bangalimazi futhi bangacasuli umlingani.
Leli phupho liwukuvezwa okukhulu kwale nkohliso, okungenani ngephupho lakhe!
Enye into ebingabonakala naleli phupho.
Ephusheni, iqhawe nentombazane yakhe bakhuluma ngobudlelwano babo. Mhlawumbe isikhathi esifuna ukufihla izinduku zakhe, futhi sisho ukuthi kunezihloko ebuhlotsheni babo, ezibhekwa njengezingakufanele, zingavunyelwe futhi zingcolile. Kufanele banyamalale bodwa. Isibonelo, abesifazane abaningi abafuni ukuzwa ukuthi indoda yabo ingangabaza okuthile noma ukubathanda njengoba bethanda. Noma ungafuni ukwazi lutho mayelana nesikhathi esithandekayo sakhe. Kepha kungaba nemicimbi ethile, ubudlelwano, imizwa ephazamisayo futhi yathinteka kuze kube manje. Ngakho-ke, izingqikithi ezifanayo zenqatshelwa. Kubonakala sengathi bavimbela ubudlelwano bamanje. Ngakho-ke, ozakwethu bavame ukukhetha isu elinjalo: hhayi ukukhuluma ngokuthile okungalimaza umuntu wakubo othandekayo. Bacabanga ukuthi ubudlelwano babo buzoba yihlanza.
Eqinisweni, kunezihloko eziningi nezinqatshelwe ngaphezulu namaphoyinti ambalwa okuxhumana okusondele.
Mhlawumbe iphupho lephupho lethu lithi ebuhlotsheni bakhe nomngane wakhe ngaleso sikhathi kubonakala sengathi alinalungelo lezidingo zakhe zomuntu. Kufaka nento endala futhi engadingekile. Kumelwe athobele ubumsulwa obuhle, obungeke bube khona, ngoba lokhu kuyaphikisana naye kanye nesimo salo.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina