Kudala waziwa ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane bayizidalwa ezivela kumaplanethi ahlukene. Bacabanga ngendlela ehlukile futhi babone izinto ezifanayo. Abesifazane bazwela kakhulu futhi bazwela. Bangamaqhinga. Amasu amadoda. Futhi yini enye yamadoda ehluke kwabesifazane?
1. Ngokwesisekelo sokucwaninga kwaphakade, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zafika esiphethweni sokuthi, ngokungafani nabamele ubulili obuhle, indoda ayibonisi nje ukuzwela okuncane maqondana nabanye abantu, kodwa futhi iba yimbi kunokuqonda ngokwabo. Futhi abanakho ukumba ngokwabo, ukuhlaziywa kwemizwa nemicabango yabo. Abanendaba nombono wabanye amadoda, ungababuzi ngalokho abakuzwayo, ngasikhathi sinye bathanda ukuxoxa ngezinto ezenzeka emadodeni emhlabeni: Isibonelo, ukukhuluma ngokhetho e-United States, ukuveza i- Umbono wokuthi kungani uBiden ehambahamba ezungeze uTrump nezinye izihloko ezibaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukuthola ulimi olujwayelekile nendoda yakho, akufanele ulinde imizamo yokuzihlaziya, kungcono ukuveza umongo wesikhundla sakho njengethoni ezolile kuyo ukuze uzwakale. Khumbula ukuthi noma yimuphi ummeleli wengxenye eqinile yobuntu ulungele ukulalela izwi lengqondo nezimpikiswano ezinengqondo.
2. Iningi labesilisa abesifazane libonakala lingalindelekile, ngakho-ke kunesizotha besaba abameleli bephansi - imizwa yabo kanye nokuguqulwa njalo kwemizwa, ngoba ngokwabo banendawo enoMhlonipho. Ngasikhathi sinye, abesilisa babaluleke kakhulu ukuthi isimo sabo esingokomzwelo sibushelelezi futhi sizolile - okungukuvamile. Njengoba bengafani nokuzihlaziya nokuzethemba, futhi izingcindezi empilweni zivame ukwenzeka, bathola indlela yokuphuma kotshwala noma yekhompyutha. Bobabili bayabasiza ukuba babuyele esimweni esizinzile sengqondo-mizwa. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukuba nokuthula nokuthula endlini yakho, zama ukunamathisela kulo mzamo omkhulu, ngoba ukulondolozwa kwe-microclimate entofontofo emsebenzini womndeni, okungumuntu kuphela osehlombe.
3. Amadoda agwema umthwalo wemfanelo kwabanye. Bayazibophezela ngokwanele bona uqobo. Lokhu kuvame ngenxa yokungafuni kwabo ukwenza ubudlelwano obungathi sína, izingane, ukunikela ngezandla nezinhliziyo kubakhethiweyo babo, njll. Kepha uma umuntu esondweni ngempela, futhi ulungele ukuzula izimiso zakhe Ngenxa yowesifazane wakhe othandekayo - ungalokothi ukhohlwe ngakho.
4. Kunoma yiziphi izenzo zamadoda, ama-motif athile ayalandelwa. Abakaze bafike nje kanjalo, "kwimizwa" noma kwezinye izizathu zangemva kokungemthetho. Ukuze wenze njalo, futhi kungenjalo ngenye indlela indoda idinga isisusa. Uma owesifazana eqonda izinhloso ezishayela indoda yakhe, kusho ukuthi kulula kakhulu kuye ukusungula ukuxhumana nokuqonda. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokulahla, ukucasuka nokungavumelani nengxenye yakho, ngilalele, mhlawumbe uzokwazi ukubona okusanhlamvu okuzwakalayo.
5. Kukholakala ukuthi abesilisa abancane baxoxa kunabesifazane, yize, empeleni, kuvame ukuncika kwi-Character Warehouse kanye nohlobo lobuntu. Kunamadoda angenamuntu, futhi kukhona ama-extracert. Kodwa-ke, kungashiwo ngokuzethemba ukuthi amaqembu emihlekazi phakathi kwabameleli bengxenye yesintu acishe abe njengabesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi sokusebenza, izimfihlo zethu zomuntu siqu akufanele zabiwe nalezo zinye, uma kuwe, kunjalo, asikho isifiso sokuba yisibalo esimaphakathi sehhovisi.