Izifundo zakamuva ziphikisa i-stereotype eyaziwayo ukuthi amadoda anekhono ngokwengeziwe ekusondeni okusondele kunobulili obulungile. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi yisizathu sokuphuka kobudlelwano benkinga yokuphila ngokocansi kusuka ohlangothini lwendoda yangaphambili, kunezinkinga ezinjalo. Ngaleso sikhathi, amadoda ajwayele ukungakuboni ukulinganiselwa kwawo ezindabeni ezisondelene futhi anelisekile ngamakhono abo. Owesifazane angahlatsheli kanjani ngentokozo yakhe noma ngobuhlobo nendoda yakhe ethandekayo?
"Ngeshwa, indoda ngeke ifunde futhi yenze umzamo" owengeziwe ", uma ejwayele ukusetshenziselwa ukwenza uthando ehlelweni oluthile, futhi konke kufanelana naye. Ngeke aqonde ukuthi kungani okuthile kuguquka, uma konke kukuhle kakhulu. Uma le ndoda ibona kungazelelwe ukuthi izinguquko ezikuyo ziyazidinga uqobo, kuzodala ukukhathazeka kuye, futhi akufanele zihambisane nemicabango yocansi. Ukuhlakanipha kwabesifazane ukuthi indoda akufanele iqonde ukuthi izama ukuyiguqula noma ukuyifundisa, "kusho u-Sex Coacher Ekaterina Lubimov.
Uchwepheshe weluleka abesifazane ukukhombisa ukubekezela, hhayi ukwenza okulindelwe umlingani, okungaholela ekucasuleleni, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukungavumeli izinguquko ezibukhali futhi konke okusha ukuletha kancane kancane. Ukondla ukucasula umlingani, abesifazane bavame ukungakhombisi abakuthanda kakhulu, futhi ukuthi yini hhayi, ngakho-ke umuntu kungenzeka angakwazi ukubona lapho enza isithandwa sakhe sihle, futhi lapho kufanele aguqule amaqhinga. Kepha le yinto ebaluleke kakhulu! Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi obalulekile wowesifazane ukudlulisela endodeni ukuthi empeleni ujabulise, hhayi ukuthinta ukuziqhenya kwayo.
"Kukangaki thina, abesifazane, zama ukuvala amehlo akho eqinisweni lokuthi intandokazi yethu ayilungile embhedeni. Yize kunjalo, ayihlukani ngenxa yokuthi "izinto ezincane" ezinjalo futhi angayi esiphikisini, uma ungafundisa ucansi, "isimo se-Ekaterina Lybimov siphawula.
I-Ekaterina Lubimova, ehola umqeqeshi wezocansi waseRussia