Akusizi ngalutho ukuphikisana neqiniso lokuthi i-patriarchal yobandlululo lobudlelwano bomndeni likhona eRussia. Abanye besifazane bakuthatha ngenjabulo lolu hlelo futhi bazama ukugcwalisa ngowesifazane "wamamaya wesifazane" ongaziwa ngokubuyiselwa komhlaba ekhaya futhi banakekele izingane, abanye bawa ngaphansi kwethonya elingokwengqondo lamadoda. Uma umndeni ungangezi emndenini, abesifazane kunzima ukubashiya kuqala ngenxa yezici ezikhona zokuvimbela. Ukuncika okubonakalayo nangokomzwelo kumlingani, ukwesaba ukugxekwa kwabanye nemicabango mayelana ne-psyche elonakalisiwe yezingane - akuzona zonke izizathu. Kulokhu okuqukethwe sizotshela ukuthi kungani kubalulekile ukufunda ukwazisa ngokwakho nempilo yakho.
Umkhuba omuhle bukhoma
Ukuze uthole izithombe ezijabulisayo kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, lapho umndeni ubeka e-villa enhle ngesikhathi sokuphumula, izingxabano ezinkulu kanye nokuntuleka kokuhlala kwangempela ndawonye kungafihlakala. Umshado wezivakashi uyisibonelo abantu abaphumelelayo bavame ukukhetha ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle. Isibonelo esicacile se-vladimir vysotsky kanye noMarina Vlady - Abathandi bahlala emadolobheni ahlukene. Kuliqiniso, isinqumo esiqondayo asivumi ukuphila njengabomakhelwane endaweni eyodwa. Kwesinye isikhathi ekuvumayo kwendoda efinyelela kulokho okushiwo yiNkosi endlini evamile futhi unganqikazi ukuba ngumfazi osemthethweni. Ngikholwe noma ubucwebe, noma ukuhamba noma i-akhawunti eqinile ebhange - akukho lutho olunengqondo, uma ebusuku ukhala emcameni kusuka ekucasukeni nasezinhlungwini.
Ungaphuli inhliziyo yakho, uzama ukuvusa uthando oluyisiwula
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Ithonya lezengqondo
Imizwelo yenza kube buthaka. Indoda esiyithandayo ingakwazi ukukhohlisa ukuncika kwethu ngezinhloso zakho. Umcimbi ka-Abyuza waziwa kabanzi lapho umlingani oyedwa ekhombisa udlame ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo komunye. Futhi kaningi, "isisulu" singapheleli ngaphansi kwethonya "lokudlwengulwa": Konke kuqala ngokulawulwa kokuxhumana nomphakathi, kuzama ukungena kuzo zonke izindawo zokuphila kanye nabangane, bese kuthi kuphela lapho beya kwezezimali kakhulu Imikhawulo nokuthukwa.
Amasu Angabonakali
"Ngizokuya kuphi?" - Thinta intombi elandelayo, utshele ngobudlelwano babo obuhambisana nabo. Uma ungenayo imali engenayo, izindlu zakho noma ithuba lokuyithatha ukuqasha, abangane abaseduze nezihlobo, ukushiya ubuhlobo kunzima ngempela. Ngenhlanhla, uhlelo lwezikhungo zezinkinga luyakhula eRussia - Ngokusho kwe- "Thomas" portal okwamanje ne-× 59 ezweni - Zijwayeze ngohlu. Noma ungenazo imali yomuntu, ungaza nezingane esikhungweni esinjalo futhi uthole izindlu zesikhashana lapho uze ubeke isimo sezezimali.
Yelula usizo lwakho lwesandla - qala ukunakekela ngawe
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Isibonelo sabanye
Umzekeliso ophathelene nowesifazane ohlala namakati angama-40 ahlekisa phakathi kwawo wonke amantombazane amancane. Kuliqiniso, akekho umuntu ocabanga ukuthi kungcono ukuzungeza ngezidalwa ezinhle futhi uzinakekele kunokushada okokuqala kusuka "ekuphelweni yithemba." Khohlwa ngeminyaka ye- "nto eyintombi yakudala" - Abesifazane banamuhla bangashada ngo-18, kwathi eminyakeni engama-50. Isinqumo sokuzitholela ngomshado we-UZami nothandekayo kufanele kube mutual, futhi ungaxhomekeki kumapulangwe abekelwe umphakathi. Yenza ukuzifukuza, iya ukusebenzisa, imvamisa khetha abantu, khona-ke indlela yakho uqobo izokuhlangana.