Okokuqala, sizohlaziya umqondo wenani lensikazi. Inani labesifazane lisethi eyingqayizivele yezinkolelo, kowesifazane kanye nowesilisa. Into esemqoka ukuthi "inani lowesifazane" labalingani lihlangana. Le nto ihambisana nedivaysi yohlelo lomzimba womuntu we-psychocal-bomzimba kanye ne-algorithm yezinhlelo ezitholakala emazingeni ohlelweni:
Izinga eliyisisekelo le
Leli zinga lenkolelo lenziwa yonke impilo yomuntu. Ukwakheka kwezinhlelo eziyisisekelo kuthinta:
- Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabazali;
- Ubudlelwano nabazali.
- Isehlukaniso Sabazali;
- Umgomo wokuxhumana kwezingane nabazali ngemuva kwesehlukaniso;
- ukunakekelwa komunye wabazali;
Izinga lenkolelo yofuzo
Leli zinga futhi libizwa ngokuthi i-generic. Izinhlelo zofuzo zibethelwe emkhakheni wolwazi lwezakhi zofuzo endaweni yendawo ye-Brain Sedewall futhi zidluliselwa yimvelo. Umuntu uza nezinhlelo ezikuleli zwe, ezicutshungulwe njengoba zidingeka. Empeleni, kunezinhlelo eziphindwe kabili, njengezinkolelo "ngingowesifazane obalulekile" futhi "ngalila umhlaba wesilisa", ezingabonwa ngakunye noma amazinga athile ezinkolelo.
Izinga Lomlando Lenkolelo
Leli zinga lakhiwa ngesisekelo sezinkolelo ezihlanganyelwe zezwe lapho okhokho bakho babehlala khona. Ukwakheka kwezinkolelo kuthonywa izinhlelo zokuphila esizithathayo lapho sibhekene nemizwa ekhanyayo emicimbini, kepha ezingaxhunyiwe khona nathi ngqo, futhi singababukeli kuphela.
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Izinga elinembile lenkolelo
Lokhu kusethi eyingqayizivele yezinhlelo ezinempilo ezilungele umnikazi uqobo. Kepha ukuze ufike kukho, udinga ukuhlanza amazinga amathathu okuqala ekubhujisweni.
Ukubonisana nemibhangqwana emindeni, ngithola ukungqubuzana kwezenhlalo zezinkolelo zezikhathi ezedlule kanye nokuqiniseka kwabantu besizukulwane esisha.
Isibonelo, owesifazane osezingeni eliqondayo, kanye nohlelo "Owesilisa - umlingani, umfazi - okhuthazayo", uhlelo "Mina uqobo" lungaba khona. Eqinisweni, uhlelo "Mina Mina" lubhubhisa uhlelo lwenani lowesifazane, kepha lungaba nobudala uma kusetshenziswa khona kususelwa embonweni obonakalayo wowesifazane, ukuthi ungazi kanjani emphakathini, okubonisa amandla abesifazane emhlabeni, okuyinto kubhekwe ngokuvumelanayo ohlelweni lomndeni wakhe.
Owesifazane uqobo unquma izinga layo lenani emhlabeni.
Ngamunye wethu ubonakaliswa emhlabeni wama-archetypes ahlukahlukene wobuntu babo maqondana nezimo zokuphila. Inani labesifazane lilingana nama-Archtypes (izindima): ama-mistrests, ama-missres, izicubu nezimvula, lapho inani leveli leqhaza ngalinye linqunywa nguwesifazane uqobo. Lapho abesifazane bebhekiswe kimi nesicelo sokutadisha izinga labesifazane ebudlelwaneni nomuntu, engiphakamisa ukuthi baguqule inkolelo "Umngane wami onomushayo akabazani ngowesifazane kimi" ngokuqiniseka "Angibongi lona wesifazane . " Futhi-ke kukhona amaphesenti ayikhulu ezimfanelo zokuphila kwawo. Ukubonakaliswa komfanekiso ophelele wobuntu besifazane ekhasini le-archetypes kuwumsebenzi oyingqayizivele wawo wonke umuntu wesifazane.
Induku yenani lowesifazane
Ukuqaliswa kwamathalente abo kowesifazane kuyintonga yenani layo. Iya ekubonisweni okubonakalayo kwenani lakho. Inani lakho emhlabeni lizonikeza inani elikhudlwana lenani lendoda yakho.